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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Recently an old school girlfriend so was the best I’ve ever had has joined the site.
The temptation is way to much to be upfront and go along with things.
If it does progress, I’m worried the feelings may return and the discretion will be compromised from my life in fab which I cherish. Wife is aware I’m here but…..help |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t know what you mean by discretion, so…
Polyamory is a thing. A sizeable percentage of the site are happy having multiple emotionally committed relationships and makes this work for them.
However. You’re disrespecting your wife by comparing her and your ex. No need for someone to be the best, that’s just borrowing trouble. They’re both the best at what they do. Sort your head out and appreciate what you have at home as well as what’s on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Really great advice. Everything is appreciated. People are built in different ways and require different routes of fulfilment. We are all on here for one common interest. Some people don’t have it, some don’t. |
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"Really great advice. Everything is appreciated. People are built in different ways and require different routes of fulfilment. We are all on here for one common interest. Some people don’t have it, some don’t. "
I don't really understand what you've just written and how it applies to your original post. If you met this woman (assuming she wants to) is it a risk or not? |
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I've hooked up with a couple of old school freinds on here more than once. Truth be told it was an old school freind who introduced us to Fab. Never dated or anything back in the day (acctually dated one of her freinds back then). Worked out great for us and my wife had no issues either. She encouraged it in fact.
So i dont think.the old school freind thing is an issue. Old girlfreind you had feelings for, that I would avoid as seems more trouble than its worth... |
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