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Whats partly putting us both of some meets..... Is how long we both last!
We both are really satisfied when its the two if us, and F always get there before M...... But would it be enough for others  |
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"Whats partly putting us both of some meets..... Is how long we both last!
We both are really satisfied when its the two if us, and F always get there before M...... But would it be enough for others "
Sorry i dont actually follow the question...would what be enough for others? Your post is unclear |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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The International Federation of Swingers were due to issue updated guidelines on this for 2022/23, but they have been delayed due to rescheduling of conference out of respect for the passing of the Queen..
Until those guidelines are issued, probably best to stick with the 2021/22 guidance. |
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A meet isn't just the sex, for us. It's the silly chat before and during, the giggles during foreplay and the hot chat while we fuck. If you're worried about being finished too soon, you can pace the other bits.
Otherwise, don't worry about it and enjoy yourselves  |
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over a year ago
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Do you mean the actual sex or how long the meeting should be?
If its the actual sex then everyone is different and it depends on what you are doing and more importantly whether you are all enjoying it.
I've assumed this is not the first meeting (which from my experience is an hour). If its the whole meeting then the one's I've been involved with with a couple or single female, tend to last about 2-2 1/2 hours. (warm up. hot action, recovery). |
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"The International Federation of Swingers were due to issue updated guidelines on this for 2022/23, but they have been delayed due to rescheduling of conference out of respect for the passing of the Queen..
Until those guidelines are issued, probably best to stick with the 2021/22 guidance."
as long as it's nothing like the partial amendment back in 2016...that caused chaos with the swinging unions and the strikes where unbearable, surely we can't go through all that again. |
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I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!! |
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!! "
Again it depends on what you are doing. If you frequently change position or what you are doing (ie oral but switch around) then it will obviously last longer than if you just did whatever your favourite position is for you to both orgasm. From my experience 20 minutes appears to be average, but I've been known to cum much quicker when really turned on. |
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!! "
Unless you are a nympho, real meet is a 2 way thing. In most cases when one person signal that they are done, the steam start to go away. Occasionally, the lady may want extra, if you there few of you. she would then say what she would like. Royalty, she must be served! |
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!! "
Itll last as long as it takes someone to cum, which is like asking how long is a piece of string. Then its a question of do you want to hang around for another go or hit the road |
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!! "
Yup I’m a sex for hours kinda girl! Not all penetration of course but usually around the 8 hour mark including foreplay etc! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every meet I've had with a couple has already been different. One thing I love about fab and swinging is the variety and never knowing whats going to happen.
Otherwise always, oral before and after! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every meet I've had with a couple has already been different. One thing I love about fab and swinging is the variety and never knowing whats going to happen.
Otherwise always, oral before and after!"
Completely agree |
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If you are good with each other then you will be good with others.
We are just normal people on here. I can't fuck for hours, coming five times a night and I don't suppose many others can.
Find someone you connect with and go with the flow. |
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Personally I’d have an expectation that would go on for several hours. That’s not constant sex though but stopping to chat, have a drink etc, it’s all part of the fun! |
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I’ve had meets that lasted a couple of hours and then ones where the hotwife has spent the whole night with me being used as my sub, sending videos and pics to her hubby. It’s whatever everyone is comfortable with. |
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!!
Yup I’m a sex for hours kinda girl! Not all penetration of course but usually around the 8 hour mark including foreplay etc! "
Absolutely loads of other things to enjoy. Make a full night of it  |
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I think a couple of hours is about minimal, assuming it's not just an unplanned quickie, which often is what it is. I think even if the 'act' itself is quite speedy, the build up, with drinks/ coffee/ dinner and foreplay etc., is often what really makes it. Similarly, given a rest most chaps are often up for another go. I guess that one of the joys of an afternoon meet, versus evening, is that it can goo on for longer. Interestingly, it's not unusual for couples visiting clubs to stay for 4 or 5 hours. |
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Just play it by ear and draw things to a close, if you have had enough of their time with you. There will probably be a mutual ebb and flowing of all of your energies once together.
If you meet in the daytime, you can inform them in advance that you'll have other commitments at such and such a time, giving them the option of agreeing or not, etc.
If you've had a social, you'll have a reasonable feeling for compatibility. If I do a social, with potential sex continuing on, I give myself a fixed time upfront, so that I'm not committing to infinity. |
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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago
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"Whats partly putting us both of some meets..... Is how long we both last!
We both are really satisfied when its the two if us, and F always get there before M...... But would it be enough for others "
Whats this F gets there before M? 99% of our meets, I never cum from most meets. - fem. |
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I think you are overthinking it OP - a meet lasts as long as a meet lasts. I have had fuck and go meets that you could time with a stop watch and long sensual meets you would time with a grandfather clock. All enjoyable.
Just have fun and don’t worry about how long you last. |
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!! "
If you mean the actual penetrative sex part, it'll be very much down to the individual.
For me, actual penetrative sex isn't particularly high on the agenda. Someone pumping away at me for an hour solid would have me bored rigid. I much prefer meets to have variety, ebb and flow, and to dip in and out of penetration (no pun intended).
Take the time to find those whose bedroom interests are similar to yours and your experiences will be more enjoyable for all.
Good luck and don't stress about those whose expectations don't align with yours...there's something for everyone on Fab and with patience and clear communication, you'll find your people.
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"The International Federation of Swingers were due to issue updated guidelines on this for 2022/23, but they have been delayed due to rescheduling of conference out of respect for the passing of the Queen..
Until those guidelines are issued, probably best to stick with the 2021/22 guidance. as long as it's nothing like the partial amendment back in 2016...that caused chaos with the swinging unions and the strikes where unbearable, surely we can't go through all that again. "
Agreed - but no-one takes the results of a time and motion study more seriously than the IFS! |
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!!
Yup I’m a sex for hours kinda girl! Not all penetration of course but usually around the 8 hour mark including foreplay etc! "
fuck, we've watched box sets shorter than that.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!!
Yup I’m a sex for hours kinda girl! Not all penetration of course but usually around the 8 hour mark including foreplay etc! fuck, we've watched box sets shorter than that.. "
Haha what can I say! I like to take my time  |
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I much prefer a quicky than an all night thing.
I club mainly now because I can have a quicky and not let a guy hang around too long.
I feel bad if I hotel meet with a guy and don’t want them to take so long- as though I’ve wasted their evening for 2 hours.
Everyone likes different and just be honest about what you want/ like and people will be fine with it 
8 hours sounds like my worst nightmare haha x |
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!!
Yup I’m a sex for hours kinda girl! Not all penetration of course but usually around the 8 hour mark including foreplay etc! fuck, we've watched box sets shorter than that..
Haha what can I say! I like to take my time "
A 20 min meet usually does me fine. 30 mins if i can have a shower before i hit the road |
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"I much prefer a quicky than an all night thing.
I club mainly now because I can have a quicky and not let a guy hang around too long.
I feel bad if I hotel meet with a guy and don’t want them to take so long- as though I’ve wasted their evening for 2 hours.
Everyone likes different and just be honest about what you want/ like and people will be fine with it
8 hours sounds like my worst nightmare haha x"
Agreed. 100% |
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For us, we prefer to have no expectations and to just go with the flow - there shouldn’t be any time restraints or boxes to tick.
In your scenario there will clearly be 3+ people involved so you cannot put a time on things. Penetrative sex is not the be all and end all and your time will be enjoyed doing many more pleasurable things to each other. There’s also the possibility that you cum multiple times - why should the meet be wound up because one of you has cum?
We believe each meet is different because each person will be different. You will have had a good social beforehand and you should feel comfortable enough with the other person to discuss whatever you need to beforehand. As someone else said.. she will know it is your first meet and she will, therefore, have understanding and hopefully no hard and fast expectations herself.
Try not to overthink, OP, just enjoy the whole experience! |
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One suggestion we caught on to was to have a massage session first, get us all into the swing of things. Especially as it will be our first. Great info from everyone, very helpful to us too.
Gina and G x |
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I’d say try not to over-think it. You’ll be not enough for some people, too much for some others, and just right for plenty of people.
That’s part of the fun of open/swinging/poly relationships - getting to (sometimes literally) suck it and see what kind of compatibility you have.
Of course it’s important to be mindful of the other person’s needs and wants, but not to your own detriment.
When you find someone who matches your “just right” Goldilocks spot, you’ll know you’re on to a winner! |
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"Whats partly putting us both of some meets..... Is how long we both last!
We both are really satisfied when its the two if us, and F always get there before M...... But would it be enough for others "
VERY piece of string question - It could be too much for some, not enough for others.
Never know until you do. |
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Depends how well its going! The more I'm enjoying it, the longer I'll make it last. And you've hit the jackpot if it turns into an overnighter
Actual penetration might not even be half of the time spent, but there is so much other stuff you can be doing to each other |
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I've had meets that have been an hour and been enough, I've had meets that have been 5 hours and not enough (as in I could have carried on for longer) so it really depends!
I much prefer a longer relaxed session, with lots of foreplay first. |
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"Depends how well its going! The more I'm enjoying it, the longer I'll make it last. And you've hit the jackpot if it turns into an overnighter
Actual penetration might not even be half of the time spent, but there is so much other stuff you can be doing to each other "
This! |
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Unless there's a legit issue with PE then most people are going to be perfectly happy with an average length of session.
If anything sometimes you should avoid it going on too long, most people (despite the boastful claims of some ladies the vast majority aren't actually any more capable of going all night long than the men are) actually want a pleasant, relatively brief duration.
With 3 or 4 playmates, a couple of hours for us is a very long session. An hour is far more comfortable. |
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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago
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"The International Federation of Swingers were due to issue updated guidelines on this for 2022/23, but they have been delayed due to rescheduling of conference out of respect for the passing of the Queen..
Until those guidelines are issued, probably best to stick with the 2021/22 guidance."
Think i just wet myself laughing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whats partly putting us both of some meets..... Is how long we both last!
We both are really satisfied when its the two if us, and F always get there before M...... But would it be enough for others "
This thought has never even entered my head before…personally I don’t think there’s a time limit, just go with the flow and enjoy yourselves
F (Mrs) |
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"Unless there's a legit issue with PE then most people are going to be perfectly happy with an average length of session.
If anything sometimes you should avoid it going on too long, most people (despite the boastful claims of some ladies the vast majority aren't actually any more capable of going all night long than the men are) actually want a pleasant, relatively brief duration.
With 3 or 4 playmates, a couple of hours for us is a very long session. An hour is far more comfortable. "
Depends how you like meets to be. It’s really easy to have 8 hour sessions with lots of kissing and foreplay, massages, edging etc
Actual penetration is just a small part! |
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"Unless there's a legit issue with PE then most people are going to be perfectly happy with an average length of session.
If anything sometimes you should avoid it going on too long, most people (despite the boastful claims of some ladies the vast majority aren't actually any more capable of going all night long than the men are) actually want a pleasant, relatively brief duration.
With 3 or 4 playmates, a couple of hours for us is a very long session. An hour is far more comfortable.
Depends how you like meets to be. It’s really easy to have 8 hour sessions with lots of kissing and foreplay, massages, edging etc
Actual penetration is just a small part! "
I'm not saying there aren't women into that sort of duration, and you're absolutely right that penetration is a small part. But the number of playmates who actually want to play that long is drastically lower than those who would prefer something more concise.
A couple of hours is absolutely enough for most. To be frank most males aren't going to be able to maintain a hard-on throughout the entirety of a 8 hour session, and a hard-on is needed for more than just penetration.
In fact anyone who can maintain an erection for that sort of time might be well advised to seek medical attention haha |
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"Unless there's a legit issue with PE then most people are going to be perfectly happy with an average length of session.
If anything sometimes you should avoid it going on too long, most people (despite the boastful claims of some ladies the vast majority aren't actually any more capable of going all night long than the men are) actually want a pleasant, relatively brief duration.
With 3 or 4 playmates, a couple of hours for us is a very long session. An hour is far more comfortable.
Depends how you like meets to be. It’s really easy to have 8 hour sessions with lots of kissing and foreplay, massages, edging etc
Actual penetration is just a small part!
I'm not saying there aren't women into that sort of duration, and you're absolutely right that penetration is a small part. But the number of playmates who actually want to play that long is drastically lower than those who would prefer something more concise.
A couple of hours is absolutely enough for most. To be frank most males aren't going to be able to maintain a hard-on throughout the entirety of a 8 hour session, and a hard-on is needed for more than just penetration.
In fact anyone who can maintain an erection for that sort of time might be well advised to seek medical attention haha "
Ahh I get ya! Yeah long meets aren’t for everyone |
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Just go with the flow we would say.
We've had meets that have ranged from 1 to 4 hours.
We prefer taking our time as this leads to a much more relaxed atmosphere where everyone can take a break and have chat. you'll be so surprised how people get more comfortable and chat freely once your naked lol |
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"Unless there's a legit issue with PE then most people are going to be perfectly happy with an average length of session.
If anything sometimes you should avoid it going on too long, most people (despite the boastful claims of some ladies the vast majority aren't actually any more capable of going all night long than the men are) actually want a pleasant, relatively brief duration.
With 3 or 4 playmates, a couple of hours for us is a very long session. An hour is far more comfortable.
Depends how you like meets to be. It’s really easy to have 8 hour sessions with lots of kissing and foreplay, massages, edging etc
Actual penetration is just a small part!
I'm not saying there aren't women into that sort of duration, and you're absolutely right that penetration is a small part. But the number of playmates who actually want to play that long is drastically lower than those who would prefer something more concise.
A couple of hours is absolutely enough for most. To be frank most males aren't going to be able to maintain a hard-on throughout the entirety of a 8 hour session, and a hard-on is needed for more than just penetration.
In fact anyone who can maintain an erection for that sort of time might be well advised to seek medical attention haha "
If you're playing with a woman for 8 hours, you aren't required to be erect for the full 8 hours  |
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"Whats partly putting us both of some meets..... Is how long we both last!
We both are really satisfied when its the two if us, and F always get there before M...... But would it be enough for others "
For me, it depends on where the meet is. If it is at my place stay as long as you want. If I have booked a hotel room stay as long as you want. If I am at a woman's or couple's place before the meet I try to find out roughly how long normally their meets last so I don't have them thinking I wish you leave now. lol. Again if the woman or couple has booked a hotel room I try to find out roughly how long normally their meets last so I don't have them thinking I wish you leave now. |
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"Whats partly putting us both of some meets..... Is how long we both last!
We both are really satisfied when its the two if us, and F always get there before M...... But would it be enough for others "
If you mean how long should the sex last in a meet everybody will be different. I just go with the flow and let the woman, couple, or guy take the lead on when they have had enough.
If you stop and have a break/chat I don't see what's wrong with asking if they want to carry on again later or if they want to stop. I think this is especially important if I am in somebody else's home. I respect it's their home and I don't want to outstay my welcome. On a couple of occasions, I have been invited to stay the night. Both times the hubby went to bed after a few hours and left me and the wife to carry on.
I guess what I am saying in a long-winded way is to communicate with the people you meet.
Another thing I like finding out before meeting somebody is what turns them on and off sexually. I only what to do things that they enjoy sexually. Also, I don't to spoil the meet by keeping asking what they like as we play. If I know what they like before the meet I can just do what they like. |
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!! "
Before meet I think it is perfectly exceptable to ask who you are meeting how long they like to play for. Some people exaggerate how long they play for. For us men (without a pill to help) the older we get the more time we need to get another erection. When I was about 14 - 30 I could get another erction very quickly after cumming. Sadly that is not the case nowadays. |
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!!
Yup I’m a sex for hours kinda girl! Not all penetration of course but usually around the 8 hour mark including foreplay etc! "
Wow |
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!!
Yup I’m a sex for hours kinda girl! Not all penetration of course but usually around the 8 hour mark including foreplay etc!
Wow"
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So I had a meet last year and while giving her oral I came all over the bed sheets whilst in the act. I was mortified as you could imagine. Did eventually make it to full sex and it lasted a good while and both satisfied. What I'm trying to say is don't put a time to it just enjoy it and go with the flow. |
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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago
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"So I had a meet last year and while giving her oral I came all over the bed sheets whilst in the act. I was mortified as you could imagine. Did eventually make it to full sex and it lasted a good while and both satisfied. What I'm trying to say is don't put a time to it just enjoy it and go with the flow. "
That wouldn't phase me. Like you say, just go with the flow, a chat, a tease, until you're ready to go again.
I might be weird but I think I would be strangely impressed if a guy came while licking me |
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"So I had a meet last year and while giving her oral I came all over the bed sheets whilst in the act. I was mortified as you could imagine. Did eventually make it to full sex and it lasted a good while and both satisfied. What I'm trying to say is don't put a time to it just enjoy it and go with the flow.
That wouldn't phase me. Like you say, just go with the flow, a chat, a tease, until you're ready to go again.
I might be weird but I think I would be strangely impressed if a guy came while licking me "
Well it hasn't happened again since and to be perfectly honest when you think about it, it is super horny just glad it was accepted haha |
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Just had one that lasted 4 1/2 hours and incorporated everything from teasing, denial, squirting, fucking, more teasing, more denial, more fucking. Fucking beds soaked and everyone’s happy. Can’t beat not rushing. Now to sleep in the spare room  |
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By *ay40Man
over a year ago
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!!
Yup I’m a sex for hours kinda girl! Not all penetration of course but usually around the 8 hour mark including foreplay etc! "
you better pic a day that there is no football or motorbike racing on the tv then |
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My perfect meet (if it was clear from the start it wasn't just a quick wam bam) would be have a guy round, have a drink, explore each other, have sex, chill out, drinks, maybe a snack (snacks are important right?!), Explore again, have sex and then see what else it brings, sex doesn't have to be majorly long, let's face it, there is only so long two people can go without getting bored or almost passing out (for me anyway!). My ideal meet would be 2 hours plus but it seem the men I meet at the moment, anything longer than an hour is too long  |
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"So I had a meet last year and while giving her oral I came all over the bed sheets whilst in the act. I was mortified as you could imagine. Did eventually make it to full sex and it lasted a good while and both satisfied. What I'm trying to say is don't put a time to it just enjoy it and go with the flow.
That wouldn't phase me. Like you say, just go with the flow, a chat, a tease, until you're ready to go again.
I might be weird but I think I would be strangely impressed if a guy came while licking me "
Happened to me in a meet with a mechanic, not even 20 seconds in, panties pushed aside locking me and he came in his hands, he was too embaressed to carry on and left quickly  |
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"My perfect meet (if it was clear from the start it wasn't just a quick wam bam) would be have a guy round, have a drink, explore each other, have sex, chill out, drinks, maybe a snack (snacks are important right?!), Explore again, have sex and then see what else it brings, sex doesn't have to be majorly long, let's face it, there is only so long two people can go without getting bored or almost passing out (for me anyway!). My ideal meet would be 2 hours plus but it seem the men I meet at the moment, anything longer than an hour is too long "
1 hour is definitely enough. No need for the drinks and snacks and 'exploring' |
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As long as I get mine first, I don't care of you're done in 10 minutes. If I'm really up for it though, don't be offended if I then pull out the toys and keep going!
Seriously though don't over think it. It is what it is. Foreplay and oral can make a 10 minute shagger last hours, so break it down and enjoy yourselves.
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"Just had one that lasted 4 1/2 hours and incorporated everything from teasing, denial, squirting, fucking, more teasing, more denial, more fucking. Fucking beds soaked and everyone’s happy. Can’t beat not rushing. Now to sleep in the spare room "
That’s a quickie in my world |
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"I suppose were asking how long would intercourse itself typically last during a meet..... 2mins, 5 mins, 15 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins
We see loads of profiles insisting on sex for hours... Thats definitely not us. Chris would be done well before that and i dont think id be anything but sore!!
Yup I’m a sex for hours kinda girl! Not all penetration of course but usually around the 8 hour mark including foreplay etc!
you better pic a day that there is no football or motorbike racing on the tv then "
Lol none of the guys I like are into either of these things so it’s not an issue |
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That’s not gonna happen as there’s always a drink …
A bit more like til your bits are so sore u can’t touch it anymore or even go for a wee with out hurting ..
 enough is enough
I like a meet that is like from Friday evening to Sunday evening …
Is a good laugh . Is like playing football
Her - Me
Nil - 1
Nil- 2
1 - 2
2-2
3-2
4-2
5-2
5-3
Pizzas movies
5- 6
Then u start losing count
Fuck it . Start again
1- nil …. |
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"Whats partly putting us both of some meets..... Is how long we both last!
We both are really satisfied when its the two if us, and F always get there before M...... But would it be enough for others "
Of course u more then enough …
Just the fact you up for it is fenomenal ^^
Happy fabs and loads of bubbles
I always scared I’m not good enough too
It means you care about others not selfish that’s all |
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"8 hours +
That’s just the minimum
Not in one go surely.
As much as I pride myself on stamina, repeatability and understanding of the female needs……"
Not 8 hrs of penetration lol but penetration is just a tiny part of sex |
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"A meet isn't just the sex, for us. It's the silly chat before and during, the giggles during foreplay and the hot chat while we fuck. If you're worried about being finished too soon, you can pace the other bits.
Otherwise, don't worry about it and enjoy yourselves "
Same |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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You can’t really put a timescale on these things. There’s no right or wrong as long as everyone is satisfied. It can be nice to have a chat or cuddle afterwards. Personally I don’t like people that dash away. |
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"8 hours +
That’s just the minimum
Not in one go surely.
As much as I pride myself on stamina, repeatability and understanding of the female needs……
Not 8 hrs of penetration lol but penetration is just a tiny part of sex "
Right, I’m in London for two nights in early December with a hotel room to myself. I think we need to try this out with a timer and see how well I do |
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"Just had one that lasted 4 1/2 hours and incorporated everything from teasing, denial, squirting, fucking, more teasing, more denial, more fucking. Fucking beds soaked and everyone’s happy. Can’t beat not rushing. Now to sleep in the spare room
That’s a quickie in my world "
I never said I was finished but she had to leave |
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"You can’t really put a timescale on these things. There’s no right or wrong as long as everyone is satisfied. It can be nice to have a chat or cuddle afterwards. Personally I don’t like people that dash away. "
Seconds? |
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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago
South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire |
Go with the flow. We have had some really great hook-ups that are all over in an hour. I think our quickest was 30 mins outdoors.
On the other hand we have been at a party all weekend where flirting, general social chat, small scale hook-ups to a mass of entwined bodies have taken place at various times over the weekend and some people have left for other commitments party way through the weekend, and others have joined the party part way through. We were there for the whole weekend and joined in as and when we wanted to.
We have also spent a whole weekend at chameleons in Darlaston where we have played and chilled during the day, and partied hard at night.
I would say don’t try and define a strict narrative of what a meet should be or how long it should last because it will put pressure on you. Just enjoy it. |
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"Yes it would be enough. I know it appears that way by the site really isn't populated by porn stars . "
Exactly this! Just go with the flow at the time, and as long as everyone leaves with a smile on their faces, it’s all good!  |
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