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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a TV. Have been all my life. Wife knows but doesn't like it or have anything to do with it.
So, I can't be smooth all over. Much as I'd like to be.
I was just wondering if other folks, couples especially, mind if gurls like me aren't smooth?
Or is it a turn off?  |
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By *D-KateTV/TS
over a year ago
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Smooth or not is personal opinion, personally i prefer smooth but fully understand that not everyone can be for whatever reason.
"I can't help feeling sorry for your wife."
Sorry, not being rude or anything. But in what way do you feel sorry for the wife? Sorry that her partner is a TV? Or that she doesn't want to embrace it?
I'm only asking as I eventually opened up about dressing to my wife after 6 yrs of marriage and I have hit jackpot with her, she is so understanding and crucially is behind me 100%, so much so she goes clothes shopping with me and is a self appointed style guru! Along with visiting clubs etc with me. |
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"I'm a TV. Have been all my life. Wife knows but doesn't like it or have anything to do with it.
So, I can't be smooth all over. Much as I'd like to be.
I was just wondering if other folks, couples especially, mind if gurls like me aren't smooth?
Or is it a turn off? "
need to keep the “important bits” nice and smooth, the rest can be hidden with clothing, the more effort that one puts in the better the results, some just dress for the kink of it, while some of us like to go out in public so make a little more effort, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a TV. Have been all my life. Wife knows but doesn't like it or have anything to do with it.
So, I can't be smooth all over. Much as I'd like to be.
I was just wondering if other folks, couples especially, mind if gurls like me aren't smooth?
Or is it a turn off? "
As I'm in the same boat with not being able to get smooth I don't mind at all. However, if I could be smooth, I think I would try to be all the time as I miss feeling smooth and sexy. |
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"Smooth or not is personal opinion, personally i prefer smooth but fully understand that not everyone can be for whatever reason.
I can't help feeling sorry for your wife.
Sorry, not being rude or anything. But in what way do you feel sorry for the wife? Sorry that her partner is a TV? Or that she doesn't want to embrace it?
I'm only asking as I eventually opened up about dressing to my wife after 6 yrs of marriage and I have hit jackpot with her, she is so understanding and crucially is behind me 100%, so much so she goes clothes shopping with me and is a self appointed style guru! Along with visiting clubs etc with me."
Feel sorry because of the potential deceit that has gone on, it may completely turn her off, she may have thought she knew her partner well and finding out she didn't could be devastating to her. Many women are told after the relationship has been established and children have come along, meaning if they decide not to stay it effects the whole family unit. I'm looking at it from the point of view of a woman that was not given all the information to start with.
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"I'm a TV. Have been all my life. Wife knows but doesn't like it or have anything to do with it.
So, I can't be smooth all over. Much as I'd like to be.
I was just wondering if other folks, couples especially, mind if gurls like me aren't smooth?
Or is it a turn off? "
Why can’t you be smooth all over? Plenty of men that don’t dress up shave so why can’t you? |
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I'm smooth all over but that's because I want to be as girly as possible.I go out all over dressed so I need to fully look the part.
I understand fully that not everyone can do that because of their varying circumstances. |
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My beautiful wife encourages my dressing, infact it was her who started the long road from wearing her panties to full on dressing
As for feeling less of a man…I couldn’t be further from this due to my job and my social life etc….my dressing is purely for both our kicks x |
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"My beautiful wife encourages my dressing, infact it was her who started the long road from wearing her panties to full on dressing
As for feeling less of a man…I couldn’t be further from this due to my job and my social life etc….my dressing is purely for both our kicks x"
. Wow wow you’re a very sexy and a luckiest man alive as well xx |
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So, for all the men. If your partner after ages said, I want to dress in male underwear, suit, tie and moustache/beard. Would you go clothes shopping with them ? Would you be accepting ? If your were, how do you think your family/friends and colleagues would be with you ? Women appear to be expected to accomodate. |
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I wouldn't have an issue, but there's quite a difference in changing your gender identity permanently, than there is presenting as female for a short period of time.
It's down to individuals to accept or reject that in a relationship context, I was and am always open - probably explains why I'm still single, given our overwhelming heteronormative cultural narrative.
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"So, for all the men. If your partner after ages said, I want to dress in male underwear, suit, tie and moustache/beard. Would you go clothes shopping with them ? Would you be accepting ? If your were, how do you think your family/friends and colleagues would be with you ? Women appear to be expected to accomodate. "
You are quite right here … I’m sure many would not tolerate or encourage it … but there will be small minority out there who will support and encourage …. They really are people in a million as we know xx
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"So, for all the men. If your partner after ages said, I want to dress in male underwear, suit, tie and moustache/beard. Would you go clothes shopping with them ? Would you be accepting ? If your were, how do you think your family/friends and colleagues would be with you ? Women appear to be expected to accomodate.
You are quite right here … I’m sure many would not tolerate or encourage it … but there will be small minority out there who will support and encourage …. They really are people in a million as we know xx
R xx"
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