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How to build verifications
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I just wondering if anyone can give me some advice,I message really nice messages to people trying to get a chat or a social to prove I am a genuinely nice guy,no one ever replies so i am thinking have I got something set up wrong or is the site just useless as I’ve spent a lot of time on here to get absolutely no where it’s so annoying,so how do I manage to get verifications if no one will communicate,would appreciate the help if anyone as the answer to the problem |
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"Hi I just wondering if anyone can give me some advice,I message really nice messages to people trying to get a chat or a social to prove I am a genuinely nice guy,no one ever replies so i am thinking have I got something set up wrong or is the site just useless as I’ve spent a lot of time on here to get absolutely no where it’s so annoying,so how do I manage to get verifications if no one will communicate,would appreciate the help if anyone as the answer to the problem "
Look out for organised socials in pubs etc. you’ll get a few veris if you attend them. |
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Go to a different forum area and ask there, if the forum moderators don't move this.look for tips for 'single' men. A profile for them is always key to success. Including photos, so people can tell if they like you. Go to socials and clubs to get verified. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We've always say, you should treat your profile like a shop window.
If there's nothing in the window to see and encourage people to want to explore more, then they're just going to walk on by  |
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Put some pics up.
You mention family, are you married etc, if so, say so, lots of guys on here cheating.
Try to be open and honest, you'll get found out if you tell those little porkies !!!
Go along to a social in your area or a club.
Try a swingers holiday, there are loads of ways to get noticed and gain verification but it just takes a little bit of effort.
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By (user no longer on site)
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As well as all of the above, you make it sound like verifications are your end goal rather than meeting people for who they are and who you genuinely want to meet. Being used as a stepping stone will put many off. |
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My first veri was a webcam wank.
The next was a club visit.
All the rest were club visits.
I haven't arranged a single meet through Fab, you need to get out an meet real people, if you chat and have fun - even if it's just sociable and a laugh - give them your Fab name on a bit of paper and ask if you can veri each other. |
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I replied to your previous thread which is almost identical - there is a Chester social group that you can locate in the meets section of the forum.
Only thing for the organised socials though, the ones I’m familiar with have set expectations for your profile. |
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"As well as all of the above, you make it sound like verifications are your end goal rather than meeting people for who they are and who you genuinely want to meet. Being used as a stepping stone will put many off."
A point which I made in his identical post in the Swingers Chat forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I just wondering if anyone can give me some advice,I message really nice messages to people trying to get a chat or a social to prove I am a genuinely nice guy,no one ever replies so i am thinking have I got something set up wrong or is the site just useless as I’ve spent a lot of time on here to get absolutely no where it’s so annoying,so how do I manage to get verifications if no one will communicate,would appreciate the help if anyone as the answer to the problem "
Simple, go to a club or social and chat to people, show people who you are in real life, no matter how good you make your profile it will never truly portray who you really are. |
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"Hi I just wondering if anyone can give me some advice,I message really nice messages to people trying to get a chat or a social to prove I am a genuinely nice guy,no one ever replies so i am thinking have I got something set up wrong or is the site just useless as I’ve spent a lot of time on here to get absolutely no where it’s so annoying,so how do I manage to get verifications if no one will communicate,would appreciate the help if anyone as the answer to the problem "
Where in the Canary Islands are you staying, we too fly there this Thursday.
Can't wait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I just wondering if anyone can give me some advice,I message really nice messages to people trying to get a chat or a social to prove I am a genuinely nice guy,no one ever replies so i am thinking have I got something set up wrong or is the site just useless as I’ve spent a lot of time on here to get absolutely no where it’s so annoying,so how do I manage to get verifications if no one will communicate,would appreciate the help if anyone as the answer to the problem
Where in the Canary Islands are you staying, we too fly there this Thursday.
Can't wait."
Wrong post? |
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OP, as others have said, get yourself to a club or organised socials, chat to people there and let your personality shine.
Also, look at your profile as your shop window. Are you really presenting yourself in the best possible light? |
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Add a profile photo. No one's saying you have to add a picture of your face, but I know I wouldn't even read a message from a shadow profile.
Make sure your messages are relevant and easy to read.
Go to clubs or socials to break into some social circles. Also check out the diary for people looking for social meet ups near you.
Go on cam in the chat rooms.
I don't think verifications necessarily mean you're more likely to get further with your fab journey, but if you think they might then maybe try a few of the above suggestions x |
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"Hi I just wondering if anyone can give me some advice,I message really nice messages to people trying to get a chat or a social to prove I am a genuinely nice guy,no one ever replies so i am thinking have I got something set up wrong or is the site just useless as I’ve spent a lot of time on here to get absolutely no where it’s so annoying,so how do I manage to get verifications if no one will communicate,would appreciate the help if anyone as the answer to the problem
Where in the Canary Islands are you staying, we too fly there this Thursday.
Can't wait.
Wrong post? "
No, well maybe.
He sent me a message saying they are in Canaries same time as us, put the reply by mistake on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I just wondering if anyone can give me some advice,I message really nice messages to people trying to get a chat or a social to prove I am a genuinely nice guy,no one ever replies so i am thinking have I got something set up wrong or is the site just useless as I’ve spent a lot of time on here to get absolutely no where it’s so annoying,so how do I manage to get verifications if no one will communicate,would appreciate the help if anyone as the answer to the problem
Where in the Canary Islands are you staying, we too fly there this Thursday.
Can't wait.
Wrong post?
No, well maybe.
He sent me a message saying they are in Canaries same time as us, put the reply by mistake on here. "
He seems keen on sending everyone DM’s |
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What you have to remember OP is that when you send a message to a woman, often the first thing she will do is check your profile before even reading the message.
You have no pics and for a lot of people that is an instant delete without even going any further. |
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"Hi I just wondering if anyone can give me some advice,I message really nice messages to people trying to get a chat or a social to prove I am a genuinely nice guy,no one ever replies so i am thinking have I got something set up wrong or is the site just useless as I’ve spent a lot of time on here to get absolutely no where it’s so annoying,so how do I manage to get verifications if no one will communicate,would appreciate the help if anyone as the answer to the problem "
We have a few but we attend clubs and meet and greets whenever the opportunity arises xx |
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Don’t blame the site!
It provides all the tools necessary for you to be successful on here…gives you access to thousands of people, cams, forums…lets you know where socials are being held, club nights…you can also post meets.
How you sell yourself is your part…
So like I say don’t blame the site if you’re not doing well on here…
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