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Is your partner the best you’ve had or do you have a better time wit other play mates.
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So this hasn’t happened to us we are the best lay we’ve each of us has ever but we where taking the other day and the question is have you had a play partner be better than your significant other and how did you deal with it like jealousy or other person being hurt etc ??
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 ha ha it’s a hypothetical question would you tell your partner or not ?? Would it hurt there feeing or not.
We can’t decide if we’d want to know …..but that goes against being completely open and honest xxx |
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It’s a difficult one to answer, I think you have different experiences with people who aren’t your partner, you might really enjoy them but they never leave you quite as satisfied as experiences shared with someone you have deep feelings for. |
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"It’s a difficult one to answer, I think you have different experiences with people who aren’t your partner, you might really enjoy them but they never leave you quite as satisfied as experiences shared with someone you have deep feelings for."
100% this …..that’s exactly how we feel tbh. |
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I tend to take experiences alone rather than comparing. Sex with one partner is different to sex with another. The connection is different. I don't lie there in the afterglow thinking about any other conquests.
I mean, unless they were just crap at it. Obviously. |
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By *N4funCouple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"It’s a difficult one to answer, I think you have different experiences with people who aren’t your partner, you might really enjoy them but they never leave you quite as satisfied as experiences shared with someone you have deep feelings for."
This is how we feel, married a long time and know what tickles each others itch  . Other play mates bring something different to the fun we have with Fab |
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Some will have best sex with their partner and others will have had better with others. Some won't admit it. Connection I think is always the best with your partner but the act itself doesn't always have to be. There's no doubt for me that she has had better with someone else, and this is ok its not a competition and everyone is diff. but that doesn't have to be a slight on me and doesn't mean I'm not good. For me it doesn't matter. |
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"Our reclaim sex is off the chart and the best either of us have ever had,especially after a night at a club where Mr C encourages me to play with lots of men,then when he gets me home ...WOW....that's when the fireworks go off "
This is exactly the same for us. I can fuck 4 or 5 guys in a club which is great but the real magic happens when we get back to our room. Nothing can or will ever compare to that. Mind blowing!
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over a year ago
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I let someone slip right through my fingers a few years back, she would constantly send me pictures and videos and would encourage me to do things to her that was new territory to me. She was absolutely insatiable and I loved every second with her. She was funny and educated too. But I let work get in the way and she couldn’t put up with the long distances. Never found another like her and I wonder everyday what might and could have been. |
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We are the best for each other and no one has ever come close. However, if it did happen and someone incredible came along there would be no jealousy as swinging is about sharing, openess and enjoyment so why wouldn't we be happy if the other had an amazing time. There's more to a deep relationship than amazing sex. |
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By *lcoupleneCouple
over a year ago
Northumberland |
It’s completely different and none comparable IMO
Sex with hubby is passionate dirty and hot as fuck the importance there is the passion and emotional connection.
With play partners the emotional connection is not there. No matter how hot and fucking steamy it may be it’s not comparable.
Reclaim sex is the hottest |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
Without a doubt my boyfriend is the best I've ever had.
Is it the 23 years of friendship and knowing each other so well we are almost like mirrors?
Is it the new relationship energy?
Is it the fact we are nerds and research the shit out of things we enjoy?
Is it that he pushes my boundaries in ever filthy directions (and I never thought I'd meet someone who could do that)
All I know is that in more years of sexual encounters than I should have had noone comes close to him at all |
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I would 100% tell V if I have better, he is very confident & isn't affected by those type of things.
He is still the best I've ever had, a few close runners though, it could be that with time he just knows exactly what I need & he's very good at doing it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" ha ha it’s a hypothetical question would you tell your partner or not ?? Would it hurt there feeing or not.
We can’t decide if we’d want to know …..but that goes against being completely open and honest xxx"
All my partners are better at some things than others. I would never tell them that though.
It would hurt my feelings if someone said X was better at doing Y than me. I'd tell them to fuck off and go fuck them instead.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It's very different.
If we're talking about partners, yes some things I enjoy more. It's about the dynamic, how things naturally unfold. I don't really see it as being better.
That being typed, if it's a more casual sex thing, sometimes the sex isn't mind blowing, it's okay and that's good enough. Lots of my friends, and myself, have had sex which is nice and fun but not earth shattering intense. It doesn't always need to be.
It can be fun to fuck for the joy of fucking. Being with another person. |
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when asked a similar question, I had told my previous partner about a submissive i had been meeting 5 years previously when i lived in Aberdeen.
She became a bit obsessed with her to the point she woild mention her randomly and then self compare with her being inferior.
i never told her that was true or false and felt bad I had ever been mentioned her. I now avoid this topic with any partner, long or short term.
(She was fucking good though )
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Sex with each other is better for us, probably due to being very familiar and trusting each other. No worries about can I do this or will they like that. Swinging has enhanced our sex life a lot.
But we both like seeing each other have a great time and have a giggle sometimes on the way home at how naughty we have been |
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"our best ever sex is the reconnection sex, ooft that is amazing & nothing i've experienced has come close.
Ain’t that the truth."
Massively, it’s always the best part of the whole thing, you have the shared experience of what just happened and then it’s just the pair of you reconnecting emotionally and physically. We love it. |
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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago
truro |
We luv each other to bits and do not look on others as a threat . When we experience something new we learn from it . This life style has certainly taught us how to enjoy sex more. Best sex with each other after all these years |
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Candy is fantastic and I think a lot of that is down to our dynamic. That being said it doesn't worry either of us if one has a fantastic time with another.
I (Duke) once had a blowjob from a women and she was the best I ever had. Literally a mouth like a hoover. But then he husband was hung like I haven't seen before. I'm comfortable enough to admit that if that's what she normally works with I must have been easy by comparison! Lol. |
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We find the sex is different, my husband and I make love, it’s sometimes hot and vigorous others slow and tender. Sometime a quick fuck. But it’s with the person you love.
Sex with others is just sex, if he’s got a bigger harder cock and we all fuck for hours it is fun and makes me cum lots, but it’s not making love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So this hasn’t happened to us we are the best lay we’ve each of us has ever but we where taking the other day and the question is have you had a play partner be better than your significant other and how did you deal with it like jealousy or other person being hurt etc ??
Xxx"
I think this is the perfect time for some tactful lies.
Maybe you have had better sex with someone else but why throw that into your partner face.
That would be hurtful and cruel.
Not accounting for fuck couples who for them is the purpose. Woman gets sex and is satisfied as much by the power dynamic as by the act and cuck has the same
I would never tell my partner someone was better
And I would be mortality wounded if she did that to me.
Somethings are better if not said |
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It's a bit like asking if your partner is more funny than your best mate.
I think the answer is it's different. It might be your partner doesn't have the biggest cock, but the emotional connection gives you something size alone can't replace.
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"My ex was absolutely amazing the best ever a few men on here would agree. My girl now is very plain mostly sex only. It's really difficult to enjoy like before "
I hope she’s got great self esteem. |
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"My ex was absolutely amazing the best ever a few men on here would agree. My girl now is very plain mostly sex only. It's really difficult to enjoy like before
I hope she’s got great self esteem."
Lucky lady |
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My ex from 10 years ago was the best girlfriend sex I ever had, partners after her just weren't on her level, but that's OK, can't expect the next to always be better than the last.
Sex from meets is always better for me personally, I think I feel more inclined to push boundaries and try new things with 'strangers', perhaps thats just me |
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Surely noone in a couples profile is stupid enough to say yes to this? Well, unless their partner is into that sort of thing, no judgement.
As for us, Lucy knows very well that while she's the best, it's an extremely close run thing with the ex that immediately preceded her.
That ex did have the advantage of literally doing it for a living of course, so Lucy takes that as a compliment |
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Having had our first experience Saturday I can safely say and this is nothing against the couple we were with, that my partner is the best I've had. But it's because we have a deep connection, I've fucked her for 20yrs and I know her body inside out... It's just different I think. |
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"Best 121 is definitely with hubby but adding others or with others is different and adds different dimensions.
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What about the illicit encounter with a forbidden lover, spread wantonly across a big round table with hubby (and his mates) looking on? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without a doubt my boyfriend is the best I've ever had.
Is it the 23 years of friendship and knowing each other so well we are almost like mirrors?
Is it the new relationship energy?
Is it the fact we are nerds and research the shit out of things we enjoy?
Is it that he pushes my boundaries in ever filthy directions (and I never thought I'd meet someone who could do that)
All I know is that in more years of sexual encounters than I should have had noone comes close to him at all"
hey well said for that, fair play. A true faithful loyal lady to your partner. Same goes for me here. If it wasn't the best then I would keep looking on here for it lol |
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By *hippy57Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
My fault for asking,I asked my wife after a fantastic sex session so I thought ,marks out of ten,she said about 7 out of ten I was gutted,another time I was going for long weekend on fishing trip,she said typical you going away and I just come on,what the fuck I asked,she said just saying lol |
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