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What's the point!
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"am not getting stressed about meets, am just having a laugh, which I think is the main point of the whole site." I think a lot of people forget this bit. I always think, when I see posts when people are desperate for meets, how sad their lives must be when getting a shag is all they can think about. Don't get me wrong. There are days when I have been on here a lot trying to sort a meet, but if its not to be then I'll find something else to do. Fabswingers is a site that enables us to find likeminded people. Unfortunately nowhere on the joining page did it say that meets were guaranteed!  | |||
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"Ha! Fooled you all with the title, I am one of the rarest of breeds, I am a single man on here that is quite happy!. Just thought I would post my thoughts about the last couple of months I have been on here. I started on here, like most blokes do, thinking wall to wall shagging! Awesome! But now I feel I have got the right mindset for it, and new blokes, this is how you need to think and act. Don't copy and paste messages, is a waste of time and makes you look like a dick. If you see some you like, read there profile, then read it again, get a feel for the sort of person they are, also read there Veri's will help see what sort of person they like, then write your message, mention stuff they have put in there profile, make if feel personal. If you add a picture to your message, make it a face pic unless they ask for otherwise, no one needs to open a message and the first thing they see Is your cock winking at them! Lol. If you don't get a reply, don't worry about it, think of it as no big deal, plenty more fish and all of that. Don't send more and more messages to the same person if they don't respond, just move on. Check the updates page for people's comments, I am chatting to a few people that I know I'm not going to meet but we have a laugh and a banter purely because I messaged something stupid about their update. You are not going to shag everyone you talk to, just make friends and it will happen at some point. This all might be bollocks, but is working for me, am not getting stressed about meets, am just having a laugh, which I think is the main point of the whole site. Thanks for reading, know I have gone on a bit!." Ben, you are a rare breed on Fabs:- A single guy who has stuck at it and, it would seem, 'gets it'! Good on you mate. Not only that, I can only find ONE thing to pick holes about in your profile, as opposed to the 5,000 word essay I usually put together. I am sure you have read the numerous threads from the 'been on here 4 weeks and not got a shag yet' brigade and I wish all of them could read what you have said. Unfortunately, they won't. No more than they read possibly not even 10% of the advice (most of it very sound) that Forum regulars are prepared to take their time to offer... Keep at it. If you are enjoying yourself on here, meet or no meet - then you have cracked it. Good luck.  Pork | |||
"Great advice. However are you not just increasing your competition?? "Of course not, because I am actually awesome and all the others will just be pretending | |||
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" Ben, you are a rare breed on Fabs:- A single guy who has stuck at it and, it would seem, 'gets it'! Good on you mate. Not only that, I can only find ONE thing to pick holes about in your profile, as opposed to the 5,000 word essay I usually put together. Pork"Come on then, what's the one thing! You can't leave me hanging like that! Lol | |||
"Ha! Fooled you all with the title, I am one of the rarest of breeds, I am a single man on here that is quite happy!. Just thought I would post my thoughts about the last couple of months I have been on here. I started on here, like most blokes do, thinking wall to wall shagging! Awesome! But now I feel I have got the right mindset for it, and new blokes, this is how you need to think and act. Don't copy and paste messages, is a waste of time and makes you look like a dick. If you see some you like, read there profile, then read it again, get a feel for the sort of person they are, also read there Veri's will help see what sort of person they like, then write your message, mention stuff they have put in there profile, make if feel personal. If you add a picture to your message, make it a face pic unless they ask for otherwise, no one needs to open a message and the first thing they see Is your cock winking at them! Lol. If you don't get a reply, don't worry about it, think of it as no big deal, plenty more fish and all of that. Don't send more and more messages to the same person if they don't respond, just move on. Check the updates page for people's comments, I am chatting to a few people that I know I'm not going to meet but we have a laugh and a banter purely because I messaged something stupid about their update. You are not going to shag everyone you talk to, just make friends and it will happen at some point. This all might be bollocks, but is working for me, am not getting stressed about meets, am just having a laugh, which I think is the main point of the whole site. Thanks for reading, know I have gone on a bit!." Great advice 
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"We must be one of the same mate, 8 weeks in and I need a time out to recover, having the time of my life...." 21 verifications in 8 weeks 
Fair play ...I am DEFINITELY doing something wrong lol
Crack on buddy - good work! | |||
"We must be one of the same mate, 8 weeks in and I need a time out to recover, having the time of my life.... 21 verifications in 8 weeks
Fair play ...I am DEFINITELY doing something wrong lol
Crack on buddy - good work! "really????? Read then again hahaha. Get your arse to some parties. Have fun. Make sure 3 or 4 people leave you verifications after each parties. There you go. Just remember to have fun and plenty of it | |||
"We must be one of the same mate, 8 weeks in and I need a time out to recover, having the time of my life.... 21 verifications in 8 weeks
Fair play ...I am DEFINITELY doing something wrong lol
Crack on buddy - good work! "Exactly! Took me a year to get my first meet! thankfully that was years ago and now I the only thing am lacking (due to work commitments) is time! Hahahaha | |||
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"Didnt think there was any other lads on here who shared the same mindset as me, most lads on this site need to realise not every person on this site wants to sleep with every other person on here its just as important for the banter and social side of things than sex, if you can have a good laugh and decent criac with some1 the other things happen naturally, just take your time, dont hound people and enjoy it " | |||
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"Ha! Fooled you all with the title, I am one of the rarest of breeds, I am a single man on here that is quite happy!. Just thought I would post my thoughts about the last couple of months I have been on here. I started on here, like most blokes do, thinking wall to wall shagging! Awesome! But now I feel I have got the right mindset for it, and new blokes, this is how you need to think and act. Don't copy and paste messages, is a waste of time and makes you look like a dick. If you see some you like, read there profile, then read it again, get a feel for the sort of person they are, also read there Veri's will help see what sort of person they like, then write your message, mention stuff they have put in there profile, make if feel personal. If you add a picture to your message, make it a face pic unless they ask for otherwise, no one needs to open a message and the first thing they see Is your cock winking at them! Lol. If you don't get a reply, don't worry about it, think of it as no big deal, plenty more fish and all of that. Don't send more and more messages to the same person if they don't respond, just move on. Check the updates page for people's comments, I am chatting to a few people that I know I'm not going to meet but we have a laugh and a banter purely because I messaged something stupid about their update. You are not going to shag everyone you talk to, just make friends and it will happen at some point. This all might be bollocks, but is working for me, am not getting stressed about meets, am just having a laugh, which I think is the main point of the whole site Thanks for reading, know I have gone on a bit!." what a great post. well done fella | |||
