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Just block men from messaging. If it really bothers you, hide your profile when you're not online and put your photos in friends only section. Then just send through photos to the women you like. Happy fabbing |
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"Just block men from messaging. If it really bothers you, hide your profile when you're not online and put your photos in friends only section. Then just send through photos to the women you like. Happy fabbing"
Sound advice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Youll find most men only look at other mens profiles from verifications so they get an idea of what a woman or couples preferences are. I'm not in bad shape, but if someone whose profile interests me, has only met up with ripped men, i know I'm not their type |
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males
Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange"
Because they're very insecure about their own sexuality, they think a man looking at them makes them gay? (They're probably in denial but are too "manly" to admit it) |
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"On the headings in black at the top go to ACCOUNT,
click on that then go to
"LOOKING FOR"
Make sure you don't click on MEN
and that should stop them (Us)"
Thats not going to stop it. That just means they wont be able to message him |
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males
Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange
Because they're very insecure about their own sexuality, they think a man looking at them makes them gay? (They're probably in denial but are too "manly" to admit it)"
Well thats a load of presumptuous garbage |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you. |
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you. "
Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me? |
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over a year ago
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you.
Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me? "
True. Not sure why that is to be honest  |
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you.
Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me?
True. Not sure why that is to be honest "
Yeah that is bizarre. Think ill ask admin about that |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you.
Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me? "
Everyone can view, just not message using the filters |
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you.
Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me?
Everyone can view, just not message using the filters "
I know that, im referring to the 'who viewed me'. Men dont appear in this whereas trans still do, even though i have both blocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you.
Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me?
True. Not sure why that is to be honest
Yeah that is bizarre. Think ill ask admin about that"
It's interesting as only single guys get the 'Not looking for..' even if you block anyone and everyone in message filters?  |
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account "
Dont worry about that, that was just one person saying that. You're not being homophobic |
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By *r. Mac OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account
Dont worry about that, that was just one person saying that. You're not being homophobic"
OK thank you I didn't want people yo think that  |
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Maybe I’m just swayed by the profile pic but this is by far the best answer on this thread. Such an amazing answer, with its smooth tight round shape, soft satiny lingerie clinging softly to it. Mmmmmm answer |
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account
Dont worry about that, that was just one person saying that. You're not being homophobic
OK thank you I didn't want people yo think that "
Nice cock you have thou mmmmm xx |
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males
Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange
Because they're very insecure about their own sexuality, they think a man looking at them makes them gay? (They're probably in denial but are too "manly" to admit it)"
Basically this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who cares if they’re looking at you, it’s not harming anyone. We have single men blocked from messaging us, as we aren’t looking for men, but they can look at our profile if they wish, it’s not doing us any harm
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Cherry Blossom, I’m outside your age range so no private message. I’m also on the wrong side of a continent thats on the wrong side of an ocean. But sometimes a man sees a woman’s ass Thts so perfect he thinks “
I got a truck to get me to the water I’m a pretty strong swimmer and most importantly that ass. Or just send a Friend request my way, it’s always good to have a friend in LA. |
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Also I just want to point out that thre hve been so many studies that there are studies on the metadata of other studies on the topic of is homophobia ( not saying anyone is)an indicator of a repressed latent homoerotic desire? And if you look hard enough with just the right conditions,those conditions being you have eyes and you are alive,you notice a mountain of data says “ yup” absofukinlutely. So if you find yourself being homophobic save us all th time and effort and put a dick in your mouth. Because really If it’s 2 consenting adults? The creepy one is the person being interested in who 2 consenting adults have sex with. So much hatred in he world. Dont encourage anymore. Never know when a mentally unstable white male American with a gun fetish will think your words were the final straw. |
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account
Dont worry about that, that was just one person saying that. You're not being homophobic
OK thank you I didn't want people yo think that "
Perhaps being more specific with your initial post …. Yes you have now clarified that you are not homophonic, however your first message was wide open to that opinion !
with others saying ….’ oh give over ‘
Why ,clearly an observation of a text !
It’s a forum of discussion.
However , guys will look ,kinda need to get over it really
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"Also I just want to point out that thre hve been so many studies that there are studies on the metadata of other studies on the topic of is homophobia ( not saying anyone is)an indicator of a repressed latent homoerotic desire? And if you look hard enough with just the right conditions,those conditions being you have eyes and you are alive,you notice a mountain of data says “ yup” absofukinlutely. So if you find yourself being homophobic save us all th time and effort and put a dick in your mouth. Because really If it’s 2 consenting adults? The creepy one is the person being interested in who 2 consenting adults have sex with. So much hatred in he world. Dont encourage anymore. Never know when a mentally unstable white male American with a gun fetish will think your words were the final straw. "
Are you thinking of American beauty there?? It's odd that film always comes into my mind when certain threads pop up |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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Mr has decided his target audience now! 95% of the fabs of his pictures have been Guys,TV/TS's and CD's it's taken a while and a lot of oral to console him.. And not from the genre's mentioned..  |
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I was straight but then a guy looked at my profile and I think I caught The Gay off him. It was awful. I kept imagining big, turgid cocks chasing me down back lanes and into public toilets.
Take a hold of yourself, just because someone looks at you, doesn't mean they're that interested in you. If a bloke contacts you, you have four options.
"Hi" continue dialogue.
"Hi, sorry, not interested."
Put the "No single males." tag in your bio.
Block messages from males.
Oh, I was just pulling your leg about "catching The Gay". So don't worry too much. |
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I notice that since you posted this thread OP, many men will have looked at your profile and esp cock pics.
I also notice you haven't stopped men messaging you..
As others have suggested, the answer would seem to be block individual males who repeatedly view your profile if it's an issue..
So my question would be, have you scored an own goal or is this ( the attention) you want?
Ps nice cock lol |
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"I notice that since you posted this thread OP, many men will have looked at your profile and esp cock pics.
I also notice you haven't stopped men messaging you..
As others have suggested, the answer would seem to be block individual males who repeatedly view your profile if it's an issue..
So my question would be, have you scored an own goal or is this ( the attention) you want?
Ps nice cock lol"
I think the latter, it was just to get people looking at his profile and possibly get a message or 3 |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you.
Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me?
Everyone can view, just not message using the filters
I know that, im referring to the 'who viewed me'. Men dont appear in this whereas trans still do, even though i have both blocked"
The whose looked at me if you turn off you can't see and they are unable to buy when on both see unless other unser has theirs set differently it doesn't go by gender just looking feature |
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account
Dont worry about that, that was just one person saying that. You're not being homophobic
OK thank you I didn't want people yo think that
Perhaps being more specific with your initial post …. Yes you have now clarified that you are not homophonic, however your first message was wide open to that opinion !
with others saying ….’ oh give over ‘
Why ,clearly an observation of a text !
It’s a forum of discussion.
However , guys will look ,kinda need to get over it really
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Where in the op is anything open to homophobia? Unless you're too busy looking for it? It's simple. He doesn't want men viewing his profile. Nothing homophobic about that. If you're seeing it maybe need to reflect upon why you're seeing it? |
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I think the safest thing to do is hide your profile. Then men definitely won't be able to see it. Neither will the men pretending to be women, or the men in a couple. So you're totally protected from any man viewing your profile.
Or to be extra sure no men will ever see it, delete it |
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over a year ago
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males
Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange"
Nothing strange about it if you're straight. I don't really want a category of people I'm not interesting in sexually looking at my pictures. Pretty simple, nothing wrong with that. It's my preference. I agree with OP, there should be a way to block completely from viewing you a category or gender etc .. |
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males
Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange
Nothing strange about it if you're straight. I don't really want a category of people I'm not interesting in sexually looking at my pictures. Pretty simple, nothing wrong with that. It's my preference. I agree with OP, there should be a way to block completely from viewing you a category or gender etc .. "
I'm straight, I don't care. What if you're out and a guy eyes you up, do you run away? Fight him? Ignore him? |
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account
Dont worry about that, that was just one person saying that. You're not being homophobic
OK thank you I didn't want people yo think that
Perhaps being more specific with your initial post …. Yes you have now clarified that you are not homophonic, however your first message was wide open to that opinion !
with others saying ….’ oh give over ‘
Why ,clearly an observation of a text !
It’s a forum of discussion.
However , guys will look ,kinda need to get over it really
Where in the op is anything open to homophobia? Unless you're too busy looking for it? It's simple. He doesn't want men viewing his profile. Nothing homophobic about that. If you're seeing it maybe need to reflect upon why you're seeing it? "
What absolute bollocks you’re talking ,read what I put !
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males "
I wonder how many more views from guys this topic created lol
OP, if you block messages from single guys, they won’t appear in view your profile section as well. Easy.
If you don’t want certain guys to look at your profile - block them.
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Don't have a problem with men looking at mine. I clearly state I'm not bi so they know it'll be looking only. I've chatted to quite a few single males about stuff and they are much better friends on here because there is no ulterior motive for chatting. Some of them tell me they'd be quite happy for me to join them with their wives and that would mean them being in close proximity whilst naked so what's the problem! |
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males
Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange
Because they're very insecure about their own sexuality, they think a man looking at them makes them gay? (They're probably in denial but are too "manly" to admit it)"
Jezzz bit harsh. He was only asking question. |
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By *r. Mac OP Man
over a year ago
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"Oh and now all the men will now fab your cock pics and put it at top in hot pics section "
Much appreciated and no I don't feel insecure at all I just didn't want a few people looking at it I have nothing wrong with men looking at my profile there are certain people I'd rather not know I'm on here and they are men that's all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh and now all the men will now fab your cock pics and put it at top in hot pics section
Much appreciated and no I don't feel insecure at all I just didn't want a few people looking at it I have nothing wrong with men looking at my profile there are certain people I'd rather not know I'm on here and they are men that's all "
You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. Some people like to make themselves feel better by bringing others down. Hope you got it sorted |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh and now all the men will now fab your cock pics and put it at top in hot pics section
Much appreciated and no I don't feel insecure at all I just didn't want a few people looking at it I have nothing wrong with men looking at my profile there are certain people I'd rather not know I'm on here and they are men that's all "
Can you use the advanced search, location age etc as it seems you're avoiding people you know? Try and find them and block them before they get an eyeful. |
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Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. |
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Some of the twisted logic people use reflects more upon them than the op. Question.. "can I stop men looking at my profile"... Answer... "no but you must be a closet queen to want to do that" how is that leap of logic made? |
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. "
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer |
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer "
It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. |
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. "
yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile  |
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile "
Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it.
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile "
Whaaat? Wait.. Now people are reading profiles? |
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile
Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it.
Glad it doesn’t bother you.
Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum past lol
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile
Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it.
Glad it doesn’t bother you.
Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum post lol
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile
Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it.
Glad it doesn’t bother you.
Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum post lol
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By *AFKA HovisMan
over a year ago
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile
Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it.
Glad it doesn’t bother you.
Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum post lol
No one knows the answer. "
because ppl don't read profiles. |
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile
Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it.
Glad it doesn’t bother you.
Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum post lol
No one knows the answer. "
Well I’m not sure about that. But if anyone does know please enlighten me |
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The issue with threads like this, is that it's the equivalent of walking into a bar which is bi/gay friendly and declaring that no men may cast their eyes towards you.
It may be abundantly clear your straight, so they'd never approach you (aka they can read on your profile you're straight), but they have every right to look.
That's how I view here, you can block guys from messaging you, but there's no justification at all to stop men viewing your profile. If nothing else, they can just create a 2nd hidden female profile if they really wanted to find you.
I don't think the op is homophobic at all, but it does (initially) scream of some weird insecurity.
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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago
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I can accept not wanting to be seen by certain people, while at the same time trying to stay genuine with a profile that is identifiable, that's just the risk you take on a site like this. But it's fairly easy to ignore the people who don't read your profile and/or you don't want to speak to |
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You can do it in your preferences , the only downside is , quite a few guys look for guys to have fun with their wives and girlfriends , which would give you less chance of a meet , unless you have on profile looking for single women or cheating wives only |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer "
Bombarded? Honestly?
I'm surprised given that we're a couple that actively look for bi guys and we have photos of me (the male on public display).....yet we have never been 'bombarded' with messages! 
What's your secret? There must be something attracting all these men to your profile and encouraging them to message? Do you have photos of the male that would obviously attract bi/gay men that they find so irresistible that they just have to get in touch?
There must be something, surely?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
Bombarded? Honestly?
I'm surprised given that we're a couple that actively look for bi guys and we have photos of me (the male on public display).....yet we have never been 'bombarded' with messages!
What's your secret? There must be something attracting all these men to your profile and encouraging them to message? Do you have photos of the male that would obviously attract bi/gay men that they find so irresistible that they just have to get in touch?
There must be something, surely?
No if you look at my profile only pics of me. So certainly not insinuating my hubby is a god that attracts men. Although he is to me though.
He doesn’t feel the need to put pics up to attract people that’s not what we are looking for. so there’s certainly no secret. Maybe it’s because we state we aren’t looking for that and they see it as a challenge or we notice some are looking for shock value with there explicit messages. But thank you for your insightful message with so many theory’s on our profile. Hope we have answered your questions
A"
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile
Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it.
Glad it doesn’t bother you.
Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum post lol
No one knows the answer. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile
Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it.
Glad it doesn’t bother you.
Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum post lol
No one knows the answer.
The desire for arse exceeds the effort required to read a profile? "
Haha now that’s a great answer |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
Bombarded? Honestly?
I'm surprised given that we're a couple that actively look for bi guys and we have photos of me (the male on public display).....yet we have never been 'bombarded' with messages!
What's your secret? There must be something attracting all these men to your profile and encouraging them to message? Do you have photos of the male that would obviously attract bi/gay men that they find so irresistible that they just have to get in touch?
There must be something, surely?
A
No if you look at my profile only pics of me. So certainly not insinuating my hubby is a god that attracts men. Although he is to me though.
He doesn’t feel the need to put pics up to attract people that’s not what we are looking for. so there’s certainly no secret. Maybe it’s because we state we aren’t looking for that and they see it as a challenge or we notice some are looking for shock value with there explicit messages. But thank you for your insightful message with so many theory’s on our profile. Hope we have answered your questions
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You've answered them - thanks. But I'm still astounded that bi/gay men would be contacting a profile with no male photos in such apparent high numbers. It's a common thing I'm sure for men who post plenty of cock shots, the gym fit dudes who attract the guys into muscles and those that give visual appeal to those seeking men.
But with nothing to arouse and entice?
That's odd.
But hey. Nearly 15 years on here and every day is still a school day.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
Bombarded? Honestly?
I'm surprised given that we're a couple that actively look for bi guys and we have photos of me (the male on public display).....yet we have never been 'bombarded' with messages!
What's your secret? There must be something attracting all these men to your profile and encouraging them to message? Do you have photos of the male that would obviously attract bi/gay men that they find so irresistible that they just have to get in touch?
There must be something, surely?
A
No if you look at my profile only pics of me. So certainly not insinuating my hubby is a god that attracts men. Although he is to me though.
He doesn’t feel the need to put pics up to attract people that’s not what we are looking for. so there’s certainly no secret. Maybe it’s because we state we aren’t looking for that and they see it as a challenge or we notice some are looking for shock value with there explicit messages. But thank you for your insightful message with so many theory’s on our profile. Hope we have answered your questions
You've answered them - thanks. But I'm still astounded that bi/gay men would be contacting a profile with no male photos in such apparent high numbers. It's a common thing I'm sure for men who post plenty of cock shots, the gym fit dudes who attract the guys into muscles and those that give visual appeal to those seeking men.
But with nothing to arouse and entice?
That's odd.
But hey. Nearly 15 years on here and every day is still a school day.
Hey it’s fab nothing should astonish you on here
A"
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable.
Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer
Bombarded? Honestly?
I'm surprised given that we're a couple that actively look for bi guys and we have photos of me (the male on public display).....yet we have never been 'bombarded' with messages!
What's your secret? There must be something attracting all these men to your profile and encouraging them to message? Do you have photos of the male that would obviously attract bi/gay men that they find so irresistible that they just have to get in touch?
There must be something, surely?
A"
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"So many people with so much knowledge of what's happening with another person's profile. "
I'm assuming you meant me.
I have no knowledge. Hence I asked the questions I did.
Have a fab day! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many people with so much knowledge of what's happening with another person's profile.
I'm assuming you meant me.
I have no knowledge. Hence I asked the questions I did.
Have a fab day!
A"
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You can't stop them looking
If you turn on the message filter so they can't message, they won't appear in who's looked at you
If, on top of that, you turn off Fabbing your pictures, you'll have no evidence at all that any men are looking. |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
Belfast |
I'm sorry, were we playing the "wrong answers only" game?
Question:
"How do I get my profile hidden from males"
Answer:
"Cherry Blossom, I’m outside your age range so no private message. I’m also on the wrong side of a continent thats on the wrong side of an ocean. But sometimes a man sees a woman’s ass Thts so perfect he thinks “
I got a truck to get me to the water I’m a pretty strong swimmer and most importantly that ass. Or just send a Friend request my way, it’s always good to have a friend in LA."
Arguably the most far from topic answer you could pluck out randomly? |
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"I couldn't resist taking a look at your profile to check out what you didn't want me to see. Sorry about that."
I am not sure why he would be bothered.
From looking at the pics in certain that most could control themselves .
Seems very strange to me that anyone would care as you can block people from messaging. |
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males
Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange
Because they're very insecure about their own sexuality, they think a man looking at them makes them gay? (They're probably in denial but are too "manly" to admit it)"
Most likely the issue.
Someone looking never has to develop into actually meeting them for sex.
It's the OP problem I'd say |
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By *I TwoCouple
over a year ago
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"On the headings in black at the top go to ACCOUNT,
click on that then go to
"LOOKING FOR"
Make sure you don't click on MEN
and that should stop them (Us)"
That only prevents you from seeing which men view your profile it doesn't stop them looking or fabbing your pics but they won't come up on "last viewed" your profile |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"How do I get my profile hidden from males
do it via tour filters,
unless I am wrong, thats what I did.
try and look at my profile and let me know if thats the case"
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males
do it via tour filters,
unless I am wrong, thats what I did.
try and look at my profile and let me know if thats the case"
I can see your profile and I just test fabbed a pic, I just can't message you.
Filters only stop the messages |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"When the site was created, there should of been an option where who can look at your profile based on their gender"
It should be by the criteria your looking for as per profile which would make it easier to connect with those preferences |
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"Youll find most men only look at other mens profiles from verifications so they get an idea of what a woman or couples preferences are. I'm not in bad shape, but if someone whose profile interests me, has only met up with ripped men, i know I'm not their type"
I'll admit I do the same.... |
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males
Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange
Nothing strange about it if you're straight. I don't really want a category of people I'm not interesting in sexually looking at my pictures. Pretty simple, nothing wrong with that. It's my preference. I agree with OP, there should be a way to block completely from viewing you a category or gender etc .. "
I honestly think it's a bit strange too, I'm 100 per cent straight, do I care whether women look at my profile in a sexual manner?? No, why would I, what difference does it make |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it’s attention you want join as a couple lol
My single profile rarely messaged.. joined with partner as a couple and fuck me.. inbox overload lol
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males
Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange
Nothing strange about it if you're straight. I don't really want a category of people I'm not interesting in sexually looking at my pictures. Pretty simple, nothing wrong with that. It's my preference. I agree with OP, there should be a way to block completely from viewing you a category or gender etc ..
I honestly think it's a bit strange too, I'm 100 per cent straight, do I care whether women look at my profile in a sexual manner?? No, why would I, what difference does it make"
If you read the ops comments his reasons and the difference it makes to him are clear enough. |
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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago
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As above, you can't stop them looking, but if someone is creeping you out by multiple visits, blocking is easy.
Many people will be coming from the profiles of the people you've verified?
As in men who are looking to meet someone you've met, will look to see what they've got to live up to.
Ps I must add that it is a really good profile and photos.
(I'm old enough to be your mum  so can only comment on great layout and selection of pics) |
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Not sure what the issue is here tho. 
