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Me and my fb are going to be making a couples profile and are hoping to meet bi women to join us for threesomes. I was wondering what women generally look for when meeting couples? What makes an attractive couple’s profile? Thanks. |
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It's still incredibly difficult for the majority of couples to meet single women via Fab unfortunately, even with a solid, lighthearted and humourus profile with a varied array of pics of us both, including public face pics, we are still yet, in over two years, to expand on the ONE SOCIAL meet we've had with ONE woman....
Single ladies are the most sought after demographic in this lifestyle so try and make your couples profile as easy going, welcoming and appealing as possible  |
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For me, I like to see enough of both people, preferably together, that tells me I find them both physically attractive.
I like to know exactly what sort of thing they're looking for, is this experience more for one partner than the other, and if so is the other genuinely into the idea.
I like to know they appreciate I'm an entire person and not an object or experiment.
I like a sense of humour and to see some of the personality of both people in the profile or at least messages. |
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Hi, I would say to make sure you put pictures of yourself on the couples profile and not just the missus. Many couples will upload only one or two dick pics from the guy and the rest of the photos are just showcasing the wife. Its important for the female to know what the guy looks like too! Couples profile=couples pictures ...a wife isn't there to be used as bait for the husband  |
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I won’t unicorn anymore as too many “couples” are just FWB or guys that want the girls to “put on a show”. Or one penis policy ENM couples.
It is worth understanding why you’re after single females and consider Feeld or Tinder where you’re likely to get better luck. Fab is much better as a swing, rather than a hook-up site. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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To us it is about three equal people, their individual sensual and erotic needs met holistically ,not a two and an add on.Something not easily put across on a profile, other than verification’s . |
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over a year ago
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I don't meet with couples anymore for several reasons: first is no pictures of the man or them together, it's got to be a three way thing. Secondly, I'm not there for their entertainment in any which way shape or form and most often are made to feel like that before you've even met them. Thirdly, too many couples are male led and I'm not comfortable with that.
Personally I never met up with fwb couples or couples not living together as it's too complicated to arrange plus the dynamic never feels the same but that's just me!
I'm sure you'll find someone and definitely enjoy the ride!
PS clubs are a good bet  |
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"To us it is about three equal people, their individual sensual and erotic needs met holistically ,not a two and an add on.Something not easily put across on a profile, other than verification’s ."
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"Hi, I would say to make sure you put pictures of yourself on the couples profile and not just the missus. Many couples will upload only one or two dick pics from the guy and the rest of the photos are just showcasing the wife. Its important for the female to know what the guy looks like too! Couples profile=couples pictures ...a wife isn't there to be used as bait for the husband "
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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago
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I have two couples I play with regularly and for both of them, they wrote interesting opening messages, had good photos of both of them on their profile and were happy to have a phone call before. One of them, we even had a social meet over dinner to check for chemistry before arranging to meet for sex and we have had some fab times.
The key is not making me feel I’m an experiment for them or that the other lady is doing something to please her man, and that is rare. |
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"I don't meet with couples anymore for several reasons: first is no pictures of the man or them together, it's got to be a three way thing. Secondly, I'm not there for their entertainment in any which way shape or form and most often are made to feel like that before you've even met them. Thirdly, too many couples are male led and I'm not comfortable with that.
Personally I never met up with fwb couples or couples not living together as it's too complicated to arrange plus the dynamic never feels the same but that's just me!
I'm sure you'll find someone and definitely enjoy the ride!
PS clubs are a good bet "
This is so true. I feel exactly the same way with the entertainment front. It feels kink/sex dispensary. Male-led couples are a hard no. I always get enthusiastic consent from all involved.
On couples living apart I agree for short relationships (long term established relationships I’m good with apart-ners, particularly when they are professionals/divorced with kids that are together, blended families can be hard to do, or resources are enough that they don’t need to live together).
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"I won’t unicorn anymore as too many “couples” are just FWB or guys that want the girls to “put on a show”. Or one penis policy ENM couples.
It is worth understanding why you’re after single females and consider Feeld or Tinder where you’re likely to get better luck. Fab is much better as a swing, rather than a hook-up site. "
I am definitely not looking for a show. Want to be right in the action. My experience with tinder is that most women on there seem to be looking for relationships. Will have to look into Feeld. Thanks |
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"I have two couples I play with regularly and for both of them, they wrote interesting opening messages, had good photos of both of them on their profile and were happy to have a phone call before. One of them, we even had a social meet over dinner to check for chemistry before arranging to meet for sex and we have had some fab times.
The key is not making me feel I’m an experiment for them or that the other lady is doing something to please her man, and that is rare."
Yeah I imagined socials are a must. Thanks |
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"I don't meet with couples anymore for several reasons: first is no pictures of the man or them together, it's got to be a three way thing. Secondly, I'm not there for their entertainment in any which way shape or form and most often are made to feel like that before you've even met them. Thirdly, too many couples are male led and I'm not comfortable with that.
Personally I never met up with fwb couples or couples not living together as it's too complicated to arrange plus the dynamic never feels the same but that's just me!
I'm sure you'll find someone and definitely enjoy the ride!
PS clubs are a good bet "
it’s definitely about mutual enjoyment for everyone involved. I’d of assumed at a club it would just be guys and couples? |
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Yeah, agree that the key is not implying I’m an experiment, merely there to ‘spice up’ someone’s relationship or that pretty much any ‘female’ (eugh!) will do the trick.
I would never do anything with a couple without a social first; the power imbalance, even if meeting somewhere neutral, is too much of a potential risk for me. |
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"It's still incredibly difficult for the majority of couples to meet single women via Fab unfortunately, even with a solid, lighthearted and humourus profile with a varied array of pics of us both, including public face pics, we are still yet, in over two years, to expand on the ONE SOCIAL meet we've had with ONE woman....
Single ladies are the most sought after demographic in this lifestyle so try and make your couples profile as easy going, welcoming and appealing as possible "
Exactly this. |
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Have been lucky enough to have this fun time when with a fwb the whole time was mainly devoted to the girls having fun I only joined in when asked by the single lady think she just needed help satisfying my fwb
Could very much see how the couples excitement could take over the proceedings and make the single lady feel used ?
It’s all about the planning and chat before the meet that will help |
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By *9 TeaCouple
over a year ago
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We have been let down by couples
We have a few single females we are going to meet
Just like any profile lots of pictures including ones togeather
Expect alot of chats to go stale
Fun for everyone |
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I like open and honest profiles, I like to get to know a bit about the couple in question from reading their profile. Not just a list of things they like sexually but what they are like as people, do they like humour, what do they like in others etc. I prefer to see pics of both people and not just genitals lol.
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"I like open and honest profiles, I like to get to know a bit about the couple in question from reading their profile. Not just a list of things they like sexually but what they are like as people, do they like humour, what do they like in others etc. I prefer to see pics of both people and not just genitals lol.
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I'm with you there it's not easy to tell if your attracted to someone by a penis and vag 
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"I like open and honest profiles, I like to get to know a bit about the couple in question from reading their profile. Not just a list of things they like sexually but what they are like as people, do they like humour, what do they like in others etc. I prefer to see pics of both people and not just genitals lol.
I'm with you there it's not easy to tell if your attracted to someone by a penis and vag
Mrs "
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"I don't meet with couples anymore for several reasons: first is no pictures of the man or them together, it's got to be a three way thing. Secondly, I'm not there for their entertainment in any which way shape or form and most often are made to feel like that before you've even met them. Thirdly, too many couples are male led and I'm not comfortable with that.
Personally I never met up with fwb couples or couples not living together as it's too complicated to arrange plus the dynamic never feels the same but that's just me!
I'm sure you'll find someone and definitely enjoy the ride!
PS clubs are a good bet it’s definitely about mutual enjoyment for everyone involved. I’d of assumed at a club it would just be guys and couples? "
Why don’t you want to play with couples too I would need that on your profile too |
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By *9 TeaCouple
over a year ago
London/Essex |
Men and women think totally different, there is a massive power thing between men especially ones fucking your wife, it's why we have an entire porn genre dedicated to Cucking.
There is also the thing that can destroy a relationship and that's accidentally getting pregnant and it does play in couples minds, we have chatted to a few couples on here and that is a worry for them.
(K can't get another woman pregnant if an accident does happen *snip snip*)
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As a unicorn I like to see a decent profile, light hearted, yet well written,
pictures I prefere to see and equal amount of both members of the couple.
I've got to find both of them physically and mentally attractive, before I'll even contemplate playing
always state who is talking/messaging, it's just the polite thing to do.
When you get to the face pic swapping be sure to send a pic of both of you....
If arrangin a social before playing, I know this sounds rediculous but make sure both of you can attend, at the same time, and if you can't, just cancel the whole thing and rearrange when you can.
People think unicorns have the pick of the crop when it comes to couples, but we definately don't x |
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"For me, I like to see enough of both people, preferably together, that tells me I find them both physically attractive.
I like to know exactly what sort of thing they're looking for, is this experience more for one partner than the other, and if so is the other genuinely into the idea.
I like to know they appreciate I'm an entire person and not an object or experiment.
I like a sense of humour and to see some of the personality of both people in the profile or at least messages."
I'm a single female and can identify with this. Personally I like to chat with both on here too so you can gauge if you have a connection. |
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By *oeGunxMan
over a year ago
Manchester |
"For me, I like to see enough of both people, preferably together, that tells me I find them both physically attractive.
I like to know exactly what sort of thing they're looking for, is this experience more for one partner than the other, and if so is the other genuinely into the idea.
I like to know they appreciate I'm an entire person and not an object or experiment.
I like a sense of humour and to see some of the personality of both people in the profile or at least messages."
Yes this sounds exactly as I'd expect it to go down.. especially having a sense of humour and some sort of likeable personality! |
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"I don't meet with couples anymore for several reasons: first is no pictures of the man or them together, it's got to be a three way thing. Secondly, I'm not there for their entertainment in any which way shape or form and most often are made to feel like that before you've even met them. Thirdly, too many couples are male led and I'm not comfortable with that.
Personally I never met up with fwb couples or couples not living together as it's too complicated to arrange plus the dynamic never feels the same but that's just me!
I'm sure you'll find someone and definitely enjoy the ride!
PS clubs are a good bet it’s definitely about mutual enjoyment for everyone involved. I’d of assumed at a club it would just be guys and couples? "
There are plenty of single ladies that go to clubs as it's a safe place to be in a vulnerable position. The club etiquette is know and usually upheld by everyone. |
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"I like open and honest profiles, I like to get to know a bit about the couple in question from reading their profile. Not just a list of things they like sexually but what they are like as people, do they like humour, what do they like in others etc. I prefer to see pics of both people and not just genitals lol.
I'm with you there it's not easy to tell if your attracted to someone by a penis and vag
Mrs "
Exactly haha unfortunately not everyone has gotten the memo. I love it when I'm called a pic collector because I ask to see one |
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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago
nottingham |
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Single ladies are the most sought after demographic in this lifestyle so try and make your couples profile as easy going, welcoming and appealing as possible "
Precisely this, if you make the profile as welcoming and honest about your situation with only being FB’s the content of you both together then I’m sure you won’t have any issues with finding someone of them finding you X |
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Its the least of your worries ,actually finding a single female on here is a mine field.
So top of the list are the adult models ,not swinger at all , spot them a mile off..lol
Then youve got the attention seekers never meet but cam
What comes next are the ones that really piss you off , the married or attached, single profile but after chatting they arent single and hubby want to be involved
Then once you worked your way through all them ,you find the genuine single females , who are in that much demand youll be lucky to end meeting ...lol
Good luck
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) but when it was just me and her it was very horny. Not something I'd ever thought about before the mff with her and hubby. Sometimes it was slow and sensual with her and others it was raw and very naughty. Unfortunately it's coming upto 20 years since I've had fun with another lady 
