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We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her? |
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Why not show her your profile and what you have been up too I assume without her knowledge, I'm sure that will go down well 
does she know you're bisexual and having several bisexual meets without her on a single profile on here ?  |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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I love these threads...how do I get my wife/gf into swinging....i aways wonder if they stay as wife/gf when they are asked ...hey babe im a swinger on fab do you fancy joining me ...my bet is it doesnt go down well lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honesty is the best answer op , but from personal experience we used to talk about our fantasies to each other then moved into it from there, if hers are what your after then go for it, if not respect her choice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh look a certain cpl judging people again !!! If I was u mate I'd ignore most of the advice in here & go with what u feel best !! If ur Bi then ur Bi, don't let others in here judge u or belittle u. Just ask her if she would like to invoke another guy & see what happens . She might be bang up for it !!!!! All the best !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"tell her im on here
she be straight into it.
Your not gods gift lol trust me  i know love im that & more.....women drool when i enter the room
 lol that's because they're comatose "
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?"
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all? |
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all?"
Surely the op is asking how to bring the subject up? As long as he respects her decision there is no need for criticism? x |
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all?
Surely the op is asking how to bring the subject up? As long as he respects her decision there is no need for criticism? x"
That wasn't a criticism it was a straightforward question. |
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all?"
Goes without saying, I'd imagine OP 
The very fact he's on here asking for advice, demonstrates (to myself anyway) that he IS giving thought to what she might enjoy. |
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all?
Goes without saying, I'd imagine OP
The very fact he's on here asking for advice, demonstrates (to myself anyway) that he IS giving thought to what she might enjoy. "
He hasn't mentioned it at all only what he would ebjoy. There are so many of these threads from guys asking how to get their partners into swinging (and I know that if I don't like them I should stay away) but why the dickens are they asking us and not the women concerned if as you say they are interested in what they'd like? |
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all?
Surely the op is asking how to bring the subject up? As long as he respects her decision there is no need for criticism? x
That wasn't a criticism it was a straightforward question."
The op obviously needs to discuss it with her...otherwise he will never know...nothing wrong with asking the question.... |
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all?
Goes without saying, I'd imagine OP
The very fact he's on here asking for advice, demonstrates (to myself anyway) that he IS giving thought to what she might enjoy. "
I agree with this..why does every poster get flamed fgs?
OP you just need to bring it up in an intimate moment ..ask whether she likes the ideas of 3somes etc to begin with x |
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all?
Goes without saying, I'd imagine OP
The very fact he's on here asking for advice, demonstrates (to myself anyway) that he IS giving thought to what she might enjoy.
He hasn't mentioned it at all only what he would ebjoy. There are so many of these threads from guys asking how to get their partners into swinging (and I know that if I don't like them I should stay away) but why the dickens are they asking us and not the women concerned if as you say they are interested in what they'd like? "
I've read through the full thread now. Maybe you're right, lol. |
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all?
Surely the op is asking how to bring the subject up? As long as he respects her decision there is no need for criticism? x
That wasn't a criticism it was a straightforward question.
The op obviously needs to discuss it with her...otherwise he will never know...nothing wrong with asking the question.... "
I absolutely agree that there is nothing wrong with asking for advice on how to broach the subject with your partner, as I said elsewhere it can be a scary topic to bring up but to discuss with strangers how to get a woman to actually get invovled with swinging before you have even mentioned it to her is disrespectful in my eyes and is not the way to approach a lifestyle that needs complete trust and honesty between partners. |
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all?
Goes without saying, I'd imagine OP
The very fact he's on here asking for advice, demonstrates (to myself anyway) that he IS giving thought to what she might enjoy.
He hasn't mentioned it at all only what he would ebjoy. There are so many of these threads from guys asking how to get their partners into swinging (and I know that if I don't like them I should stay away) but why the dickens are they asking us and not the women concerned if as you say they are interested in what they'd like?
I've read through the full thread now. Maybe you're right, lol. "
you know it makes sense to agree with lady |
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all?
Surely the op is asking how to bring the subject up? As long as he respects her decision there is no need for criticism? x
That wasn't a criticism it was a straightforward question.
The op obviously needs to discuss it with her...otherwise he will never know...nothing wrong with asking the question....
I absolutely agree that there is nothing wrong with asking for advice on how to broach the subject with your partner, as I said elsewhere it can be a scary topic to bring up but to discuss with strangers how to get a woman to actually get invovled with swinging before you have even mentioned it to her is disrespectful in my eyes and is not the way to approach a lifestyle that needs complete trust and honesty between partners."
That is a very very good point
(So much so that I put very twice lol) x |
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all?
Surely the op is asking how to bring the subject up? As long as he respects her decision there is no need for criticism? x
That wasn't a criticism it was a straightforward question.
The op obviously needs to discuss it with her...otherwise he will never know...nothing wrong with asking the question....
I absolutely agree that there is nothing wrong with asking for advice on how to broach the subject with your partner, as I said elsewhere it can be a scary topic to bring up but to discuss with strangers how to get a woman to actually get invovled with swinging before you have even mentioned it to her is disrespectful in my eyes and is not the way to approach a lifestyle that needs complete trust and honesty between partners.
That is a very very good point
(So much so that I put very twice lol) x"
Thank you, people agreeing with me is nice this rarely happens to me |
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"We are both 18 been together around 6 months now and have a great sex life she's pretty open minded about most things like anal and oral she gets quite alot of attention from other guys especially at party's when she's all done up the fact she is 38dd probably has something to do with that lol the idea of another guy fucking her really turns me on how should I bring this up to her?
So she gets attention from other guys and you would love to see her fucking one of them...given any thought to what she might enjoy at all?
Surely the op is asking how to bring the subject up? As long as he respects her decision there is no need for criticism? x
That wasn't a criticism it was a straightforward question.
The op obviously needs to discuss it with her...otherwise he will never know...nothing wrong with asking the question....
I absolutely agree that there is nothing wrong with asking for advice on how to broach the subject with your partner, as I said elsewhere it can be a scary topic to bring up but to discuss with strangers how to get a woman to actually get invovled with swinging before you have even mentioned it to her is disrespectful in my eyes and is not the way to approach a lifestyle that needs complete trust and honesty between partners.
That is a very very good point
(So much so that I put very twice lol) x
Thank you, people agreeing with me is nice this rarely happens to me "
Well I misunderstood the first comment I quoted but your bang on with what your saying, the op should have had a discussion with his other half before even coming on this site....trust and transparency is essential in swinging x |
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I am here on advice on how to bring the subject up the only thing that Got me started on the idea was during sex she said how would you feel if another guy was doing this me. She says it was to get me to go harder but I'm not convinced lol the idea of me with another girl is a definite no in her eyes I want her to enjoy it as much as me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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see about doing something different, "fancy checking out a swing club?"-the aim to just see what happens etc
get some hot pics with her..then suggest itd be such a turn on seeing other people checking her out..maybe see about joining some website for an initial look (the just appear to have found fab)-say u seen it in the papers etc etc
good luck
but as Ive said before..if she knew u were on here behind her back...it could spell the end of the relationship |
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
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"see about doing something different, "fancy checking out a swing club?"-the aim to just see what happens etc
get some hot pics with her..then suggest itd be such a turn on seeing other people checking her out..maybe see about joining some website for an initial look (the just appear to have found fab)-say u seen it in the papers etc etc
good luck
but as Ive said before..if she knew u were on here behind her back...it could spell the end of the relationship"
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