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The "rights and wrongs" of swinging
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When reading these forums in my free time (at work ), I'm fascinated by the sheer volume of advice that is from a very personal perspective being presented as if it's the absolute truth. For example, being told women don't like this, couples prefer this etc.
Possibly the biggest thing I get from these discussions is that for every view (I hate text speak) there's an opposite one (I use it all the time).
So from my experience I seem to have discovered Swingers seem to like (in no particular order)
Big cocks
Small cocks
Thick cocks
Slim cocks
Big tits
small tits
big nipples
small nipples
squirting
not squirting
rough sex
sensual sex
dominant partners
submissive partners
literate partners
don't care about literacy partners
long term emotional attachements
short term fuck buddies
one off meetings
a regular meet
group sex
one on one
dogging
indoor
swallowing
spit it out
gargle and rinse 
camming
msn
real meets
phone sex
clubs
private meets
parties
social events
anal
yuk
Bareback (almost as contraversial as literacy)
Safe sex
younger
older
same age
professional
manual workers
What is interesting though amongst all of this sexual activity is how judgemental some of the participants are. Sometimes there's so much moral high ground taking place that you wonder if people lose sight of the fact that the real world (non-swingers) think we are all disgusting perverts (god bless us all)
Just a moment of reflection while I sit at work musing accounts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"(almost as contraversial as literacy)"
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So what you're saying is that 'for every swingers view, there's an equal and opposite swingers view' - any fruit landed on your head recently? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say for the most part people are judgemental on here however, they know what THEY want, and feel no need to compromise. It's a fascinating world out there with as many different points of view and preferences as there are people  |
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"When reading these forums in my free time (at work ), I'm fascinated by the sheer volume of advice that is from a very personal perspective being presented as if it's the absolute truth. For example, being told women don't like this, couples prefer this etc.
Possibly the biggest thing I get from these discussions is that for every view (I hate text speak) there's an opposite one (I use it all the time).
So from my experience I seem to have discovered Swingers seem to like (in no particular order)
Big cocks
Small cocks
Thick cocks
Slim cocks
Big tits
small tits
big nipples
small nipples
squirting
not squirting
rough sex
sensual sex
dominant partners
submissive partners
literate partners
don't care about literacy partners
long term emotional attachements
short term fuck buddies
one off meetings
a regular meet
group sex
one on one
dogging
indoor
swallowing
spit it out
gargle and rinse
camming
msn
real meets
phone sex
clubs
private meets
parties
social events
anal
yuk
Bareback (almost as contraversial as literacy)
Safe sex
younger
older
same age
professional
manual workers
What is interesting though amongst all of this sexual activity is how judgemental some of the participants are. Sometimes there's so much moral high ground taking place that you wonder if people lose sight of the fact that the real world (non-swingers) think we are all disgusting perverts (god bless us all)
Just a moment of reflection while I sit at work musing accounts "
yep! And I am a disgusting pervert |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When reading these forums in my free time (at work ), I'm fascinated by the sheer volume of advice that is from a very personal perspective being presented as if it's the absolute truth. For example, being told women don't like this, couples prefer this etc.
Possibly the biggest thing I get from these discussions is that for every view (I hate text speak) there's an opposite one (I use it all the time).
So from my experience I seem to have discovered Swingers seem to like (in no particular order)
Big cocks
Small cocks
Thick cocks
Slim cocks
Big tits
small tits
big nipples
small nipples
squirting
not squirting
rough sex
sensual sex
dominant partners
submissive partners
literate partners
don't care about literacy partners
long term emotional attachements
short term fuck buddies
one off meetings
a regular meet
group sex
one on one
dogging
indoor
swallowing
spit it out
gargle and rinse
camming
msn
real meets
phone sex
clubs
private meets
parties
social events
anal
yuk
Bareback (almost as contraversial as literacy)
Safe sex
younger
older
same age
professional
manual workers
What is interesting though amongst all of this sexual activity is how judgemental some of the participants are. Sometimes there's so much moral high ground taking place that you wonder if people lose sight of the fact that the real world (non-swingers) think we are all disgusting perverts (god bless us all)
Just a moment of reflection while I sit at work musing accounts "
Lol - those accounts must not be very time consuming  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"(almost as contraversial as literacy)
Quote of the day
So what you're saying is that 'for every swingers view, there's an equal and opposite swingers view' - any fruit landed on your head recently?"
Of course I meant controversial! Clearly my typo reflex kicked in! No fruit no (perve) more just a moment of zen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Basically everyone on here is a hypocrite. 
That's true we all are to some degree....except moi of course  "
And me obviously, I'm very balanced in my views of disgust (even on myself) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So you have noticed that even swingers/swingles are diverse?
Congratulations, Im sending you a virtual badge  "
I noticed, just not sure everyone else did
This badge, will it be big and blingy? I'm on a dress down day today x |
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"So you have noticed that even swingers/swingles are diverse?
Congratulations, Im sending you a virtual badge
I noticed, just not sure everyone else did
This badge, will it be big and blingy? I'm on a dress down day today x"
Just because it is Friday or is that an every day thing?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you have noticed that even swingers/swingles are diverse?
Congratulations, Im sending you a virtual badge
I noticed, just not sure everyone else did
This badge, will it be big and blingy? I'm on a dress down day today x"
No, small and discreet but sharp so dont prick yourself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So you have noticed that even swingers/swingles are diverse?
Congratulations, Im sending you a virtual badge
I noticed, just not sure everyone else did
This badge, will it be big and blingy? I'm on a dress down day today x
Just because it is Friday or is that an every day thing??"
Self employed, so it's a wake up in the morning and make a choice kind of thing.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So you have noticed that even swingers/swingles are diverse?
Congratulations, Im sending you a virtual badge
I noticed, just not sure everyone else did
This badge, will it be big and blingy? I'm on a dress down day today x
No, small and discreet but sharp so dont prick yourself "
I suspect Innuendo bingo is about to shoot all over this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When reading these forums in my free time (at work ), I'm fascinated by the sheer volume of advice that is from a very personal perspective being presented as if it's the absolute truth. For example, being told women don't like this, couples prefer this etc.
Possibly the biggest thing I get from these discussions is that for every view (I hate text speak) there's an opposite one (I use it all the time).
So from my experience I seem to have discovered Swingers seem to like (in no particular order)
Big cocks
Small cocks
Thick cocks
Slim cocks
Big tits
small tits
big nipples
small nipples
squirting
not squirting
rough sex
sensual sex
dominant partners
submissive partners
literate partners
don't care about literacy partners
long term emotional attachements
short term fuck buddies
one off meetings
a regular meet
group sex
one on one
dogging
indoor
swallowing
spit it out
gargle and rinse
camming
msn
real meets
phone sex
clubs
private meets
parties
social events
anal
yuk
Bareback (almost as contraversial as literacy)
Safe sex
younger
older
same age
professional
manual workers
What is interesting though amongst all of this sexual activity is how judgemental some of the participants are. Sometimes there's so much moral high ground taking place that you wonder if people lose sight of the fact that the real world (non-swingers) think we are all disgusting perverts (god bless us all)
Just a moment of reflection while I sit at work musing accounts "
well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Do non swingers think we are perverts? When it has been mentioned to our non swinging friends they all think it is great and they would do it if they had the bottle!
How many guys out there wouldn't have liked to have had a threesome with the sexy Mrs D and another girl? I have five in the past year!
Up yours to convention! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do non swingers think we are perverts? When it has been mentioned to our non swinging friends they all think it is great and they would do it if they had the bottle!
How many guys out there wouldn't have liked to have had a threesome with the sexy Mrs D and another girl? I have five in the past year!
Up yours to convention! "
I suspect that might be a chicken/egg discussion. I suspect many of the friends you mention it to, are your friends because they might have similar open minded (not necessarily legged) approaches to swinging. If you were to have the same conversation with people who weren't your friends perhaps the response might be different.
Besides I was referring more to the media/public portrayal of swinging. I don't think most of the population see it as a threesome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do non swingers think we are perverts? When it has been mentioned to our non swinging friends they all think it is great and they would do it if they had the bottle!
How many guys out there wouldn't have liked to have had a threesome with the sexy Mrs D and another girl? I have five in the past year!
Up yours to convention! "
I get the same response even my family know to some degree a lot of people wish they had the trust and confidence to have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do non swingers think we are perverts? When it has been mentioned to our non swinging friends they all think it is great and they would do it if they had the bottle!
How many guys out there wouldn't have liked to have had a threesome with the sexy Mrs D and another girl? I have five in the past year!
Up yours to convention!
I get the same response even my family know to some degree a lot of people wish they had the trust and confidence to have fun x"
Couple of my non swinging mates think the fact that I have had two women in bed to be the best thing ever. D has also talked to a few of her friends and workmates and they love the idea of bi fun. We don't strictly mention the word 'swinging' they just think we have a bloody fantastic sex life! |
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"When reading these forums in my free time (at work ), I'm fascinated by the sheer volume of advice that is from a very personal perspective being presented as if it's the absolute truth. For example, being told women don't like this, couples prefer this etc.
Possibly the biggest thing I get from these discussions is that for every view (I hate text speak) there's an opposite one (I use it all the time).
So from my experience I seem to have discovered Swingers seem to like (in no particular order)
Big cocks
Small cocks
Thick cocks
Slim cocks
Big tits
small tits
big nipples
small nipples
squirting
not squirting
rough sex
sensual sex
dominant partners
submissive partners
literate partners
don't care about literacy partners
long term emotional attachements
short term fuck buddies
one off meetings
a regular meet
group sex
one on one
dogging
indoor
swallowing
spit it out
gargle and rinse
camming
msn
real meets
phone sex
clubs
private meets
parties
social events
anal
yuk
Bareback (almost as contraversial as literacy)
Safe sex
younger
older
same age
professional
manual workers
What is interesting though amongst all of this sexual activity is how judgemental some of the participants are. Sometimes there's so much moral high ground taking place that you wonder if people lose sight of the fact that the real world (non-swingers) think we are all disgusting perverts (god bless us all)
Just a moment of reflection while I sit at work musing accounts "
Very well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When reading these forums in my free time (at work ), I'm fascinated by the sheer volume of advice that is from a very personal perspective being presented as if it's the absolute truth. For example, being told women don't like this, couples prefer this etc.
Possibly the biggest thing I get from these discussions is that for every view (I hate text speak) there's an opposite one (I use it all the time).
So from my experience I seem to have discovered Swingers seem to like (in no particular order)
Big cocks
Small cocks
Thick cocks
Slim cocks
Big tits
small tits
big nipples
small nipples
squirting
not squirting
rough sex
sensual sex
dominant partners
submissive partners
literate partners
don't care about literacy partners
long term emotional attachements
short term fuck buddies
one off meetings
a regular meet
group sex
one on one
dogging
indoor
swallowing
spit it out
gargle and rinse
camming
msn
real meets
phone sex
clubs
private meets
parties
social events
anal
yuk
Bareback (almost as contraversial as literacy)
Safe sex
younger
older
same age
professional
manual workers
What is interesting though amongst all of this sexual activity is how judgemental some of the participants are. Sometimes there's so much moral high ground taking place that you wonder if people lose sight of the fact that the real world (non-swingers) think we are all disgusting perverts (god bless us all)
Just a moment of reflection while I sit at work musing accounts "
Missed one, no single males lol |
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"When reading these forums in my free time (at work ), I'm fascinated by the sheer volume of advice that is from a very personal perspective being presented as if it's the absolute truth. For example, being told women don't like this, couples prefer this etc.
Possibly the biggest thing I get from these discussions is that for every view (I hate text speak) there's an opposite one (I use it all the time).
So from my experience I seem to have discovered Swingers seem to like (in no particular order)
Big cocks
Small cocks
Thick cocks
Slim cocks
Big tits
small tits
big nipples
small nipples
squirting
not squirting
rough sex
sensual sex
dominant partners
submissive partners
literate partners
don't care about literacy partners
long term emotional attachements
short term fuck buddies
one off meetings
a regular meet
group sex
one on one
dogging
indoor
swallowing
spit it out
gargle and rinse
camming
msn
real meets
phone sex
clubs
private meets
parties
social events
anal
yuk
Bareback (almost as contraversial as literacy)
Safe sex
younger
older
same age
professional
manual workers
What is interesting though amongst all of this sexual activity is how judgemental some of the participants are. Sometimes there's so much moral high ground taking place that you wonder if people lose sight of the fact that the real world (non-swingers) think we are all disgusting perverts (god bless us all)
Just a moment of reflection while I sit at work musing accounts
Missed one, no single males lol"
Yes, but we like single males  |
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We had friends that we let slip to that we were at the time going to a party and they thought it was interesting. As time went on we found out their great sex life was all lies and that she would only have sex 2 or 3 times a year to shut him up. The more they let on about their relationship the more judgementle she became. She told Frisky that our relationship was a lie based on sex. Funny she is the one going to relate to try and save her marriage. When the friendship ended she told Frisky that is was disgusting and a perverted lifestyle that had turned Frisky in to a horrible person..... |
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I'm just guilty every now and then of having or displaying an overly critical point of view! 