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By *andB14 OP   Couple 41 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

This place can be hard work. You wink someone. They wink back. You message said person. They don’t reply. I get that we are aren’t super hotties like the majority, but sometimes I wonder what’s the point.

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By *r-8-BBCMan 41 weeks ago

LONDON


"This place can be hard work. You wink someone. They wink back. You message said person. They don’t reply. I get that we are aren’t super hotties like the majority, but sometimes I wonder what’s the point. "

Keep at it

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By *estinysswingersCouple 41 weeks ago

Worsley

Get to clubs or something more organised off here.

95% of our fun has been via clubs and who we meet there.

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By *icecouple561Couple 41 weeks ago
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East Sussex

You have recent verifications so you're not doing too badly.

What were your expectations when you joined? Very few people find it easy to meet, it always requires some effort and will involve a few interactions that go nowhere.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple 41 weeks ago

Weymouth

It happens sometimes, don't get disheartened! X

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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago

I don’t take any notice of the wink system for this reason

Keep looking and good luck

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple 41 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

You have made a statement rather than asking a question, so I’m assuming it’s just venting rather than seeking feedback. Good luck and you’ll find what you’re looking for with time and patience. Xx

K

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By *aomilatteCouple 41 weeks ago

Midlands


"This place can be hard work. You wink someone. They wink back. You message said person. They don’t reply. I get that we are aren’t super hotties like the majority, but sometimes I wonder what’s the point. "

It depends on your message. If it was just "Hi" or "How are you" we wouldn't reply either. If you messaged with a bit of substance then it's confusing why they winked back. Plenty more fish is the sea though

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By *oxesMan 41 weeks ago

Southend, Essex


"Get to clubs or something more organised off here.

95% of our fun has been via clubs and who we meet there. "

Clubs and socials are always sound advice.

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By *moothGrooveWoman 41 weeks ago

Durham

I sometimes wink people to show appreciation for their profile or pics. Doesn't necessarily mean I want to jump into bed with them.

You seem nice people, don't get too disheartened x

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By *ustforshow25Couple 41 weeks ago

Leatherhead


"This place can be hard work. You wink someone. They wink back. You message said person. They don’t reply. I get that we are aren’t super hotties like the majority, but sometimes I wonder what’s the point. "

As others have said, getting out to clubs and socials can help, and we can say it's definitely been more successful for us than trying to arrange meets on here. It's still good to use this site to connect with like-minded people and see what events are going though. You have a good profile so am sure you'll find what your looking for at some point.

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By *alleyDaveMan 41 weeks ago

Sheffield

I wouldn't know what to do if someone "winked me ".it's never happened.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple 41 weeks ago

Gloucester

We know this feeling so well!

Keep going I’m sure the right people will come along.

K (mrs)

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