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By (user no longer on site) OP 23 weeks ago
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I am a single male and struggling even to get responses. When I send a message I do say who iam what I'm looking for what I like and wot I do.
A lot of women's profiles really don't have a lot to go on to start a conversation. Any advice |
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I think you need to understand OP that Fabswingers is very much a ‘buyers market’. I am not clear of the ratios, but suspect there will likely be 100s of men for every lady in here … I’m talking singles not couples. Therefore they have a wide choice to choose from.
Therefore, you need to stand out and offer something they may want. Being very frank OP, your profile has 2 basic pictures and a few words … not exactly well put together as a profile! … not exactly line grabbing!
You might want to look at other profiles that are perhaps nearer the mark and review yours. You might want to think about visiting a club. That may help you get verified, and even if that is only in a social context, at least others will know you are genuine.
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lol that was a quick one.
As an aside went to a party last weekend. Must have been 40-50 people roughly 50/50 m/f. For the second month running 6 or so men who begged to get an invite didn't show and didn't even send a message saying can't' make it. I think a few couples did the same to be fair and just as rude but they will have other options and pop up less often complaining about no meets. |
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