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By *uro2999 OP Couple 19 weeks ago
Wales/NW |
Hi guys, asking since advice about what you'd do in the following situation. A single male friend of ours has been chatting to a few different couples and single fems and has a meet with the female half of a couple who we'll call A. He's also been chatting for a while with another gen female from a couple who we'll call B. He's been chatting to B for quite a while and they'd exchanged over 200 messages but never managed to arrange a meet. He's chatted with B about some meets he'd arranged which then fell through last minute and a lot of her conversations revolved around A who she'd said she was in comms with too. Now he's 99.9% convinced that B is the male half of A using a fake profile. The profile is well verified but the veris are not published so possibly an old profile of theirs that he's resurrected. What would you do in this situation? |
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By *uro2999 OP Couple 19 weeks ago
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"I think he's making this far more complicated than it needs to be and I don't understand why he's talking to one woman about another.
Why are you asking for advice on his behalf?"
Because he didn't want to make the guy aware that he knows what's going on if he's being somewhat stalked by him. |
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"I think he's making this far more complicated than it needs to be and I don't understand why he's talking to one woman about another.
Why are you asking for advice on his behalf?
Because he didn't want to make the guy aware that he knows what's going on if he's being somewhat stalked by him."
Honestly if your friend has suspicions that a guy is pretending to be a woman he should either call them out or report the profile. If he's hedging his bets in case it really is a woman he'll need to ask to meet for a coffee or a quick cam. |
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To be honest, if just block b or stop engaging.
If he's tried and failed to meet them several times, either they have no intention of meeting or are not who they claim to be.
Stop giving them the attention and info they're after. |
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"Just ask for their phone number and say you want to speak in person to her.. no number supplied probably means she is a he 
Do many people give their phone number to people they've never met?"
We don't |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"Hi guys, asking since advice about what you'd do in the following situation. A single male friend of ours has been chatting to a few different couples and single fems and has a meet with the female half of a couple who we'll call A. He's also been chatting for a while with another gen female from a couple who we'll call B. He's been chatting to B for quite a while and they'd exchanged over 200 messages but never managed to arrange a meet. He's chatted with B about some meets he'd arranged which then fell through last minute and a lot of her conversations revolved around A who she'd said she was in comms with too. Now he's 99.9% convinced that B is the male half of A using a fake profile. The profile is well verified but the veris are not published so possibly an old profile of theirs that he's resurrected. What would you do in this situation?"
If I enjoyed chatting to 'them' I'd continue. Assuming it's the same person being weird.
I was in a similar situation where I was chatting to a 'woman' and her man friend. It was the same person but it doesn't matter to me as the chat was good. He wasn't aware that I knew. Don't mention it or they will stop chatting as it spoils the illusion. |
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By *rpeggioCouple 19 weeks ago
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200 messages sounds like a lot for anyone with intentions to meet. Arranging a play meet is sometimes tricky but having a social coffee together for an in person chat and find out if there's attraction enough for a play date is not that difficult. |
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