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"Easier to just move on rather than becoming childish 
I do after a while.
It's just amazing send 9 nice ones. Not read, send a shitty 10th one - read!! You couldn't write it  "
Why you sending 9 messages of they ignore the 1st your not for them, a no reply is a no thank you, then to send them a shitty message is just rude.
People don't owe you a reply they didn't ask you to message especially 9 times that's way overboard.
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"Write and send a real stroppy one.... They always read them  
What do you achieve by doing this?"
Think it's sarcasm! You know the men who send a stroppy message after being ignored as if that's going to make the other person change their mind and want to reply... |
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"Easier to just move on rather than becoming childish
I do after a while.
It's just amazing send 9 nice ones. Not read, send a shitty 10th one - read!! You couldn't write it "
You're messaging people 9 times without a response? That's...not normal dude |
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"Write and send a real stroppy one.... They always read them
What do you achieve by doing this?
Think it's sarcasm! You know the men who send a stroppy message after being ignored as if that's going to make the other person change their mind and want to reply..."
Or make them think thank fuck I didn't reply to this stroppy childish thing!
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"Easier to just move on rather than becoming childish
I do after a while.
It's just amazing send 9 nice ones. Not read, send a shitty 10th one - read!! You couldn't write it
Why you sending 9 messages of they ignore the 1st your not for them, a no reply is a no thank you, then to send them a shitty message is just rude.
People don't owe you a reply they didn't ask you to message especially 9 times that's way overboard.
Mrs "
No reply is rude first ... Just because the site 'rules' say you can be ignorant doesn't mean it isn't ignorant.. this is the biggest problem with this site and the reason why you get so many guys just being idiots anyway..
It is most definitely true that a rude message is more likely to get any kind of reply. I've actually managed more success with a delicately worded edgy message to start the ball rolling with conversation on here..
You get more replies from really popular women hundreds of miles away than you do from the more closer matched woman near you .. just more evidence of window shopping with zero intention of actually meeting. I just leave private notes so I don't waste anybodys time. |
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"Easier to just move on rather than becoming childish
I do after a while.
It's just amazing send 9 nice ones. Not read, send a shitty 10th one - read!! You couldn't write it
Why you sending 9 messages of they ignore the 1st your not for them, a no reply is a no thank you, then to send them a shitty message is just rude.
People don't owe you a reply they didn't ask you to message especially 9 times that's way overboard.
Mrs
No reply is rude first ... Just because the site 'rules' say you can be ignorant doesn't mean it isn't ignorant.. this is the biggest problem with this site and the reason why you get so many guys just being idiots anyway..
It is most definitely true that a rude message is more likely to get any kind of reply. I've actually managed more success with a delicately worded edgy message to start the ball rolling with conversation on here..
You get more replies from really popular women hundreds of miles away than you do from the more closer matched woman near you .. just more evidence of window shopping with zero intention of actually meeting. I just leave private notes so I don't waste anybodys time. "
It's the same mentality as hurling abuse at a woman in the street because she didn't want to engage. If you think verbal abuse is morally higher than simply not responding to unrequited attention, all I can say is you've got things very twisted. |
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"Easier to just move on rather than becoming childish
I do after a while.
It's just amazing send 9 nice ones. Not read, send a shitty 10th one - read!! You couldn't write it "
It's probably more likely the 9 nice ones were read, they weren't interested so marked it as unread again to delete.
It's what we do, if we're not sending a no thank you, we read, marl as unread and delete. Seems to help stop people messaging again |
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"Easier to just move on rather than becoming childish
I do after a while.
It's just amazing send 9 nice ones. Not read, send a shitty 10th one - read!! You couldn't write it
Why you sending 9 messages of they ignore the 1st your not for them, a no reply is a no thank you, then to send them a shitty message is just rude.
People don't owe you a reply they didn't ask you to message especially 9 times that's way overboard.
Mrs
No reply is rude first ... Just because the site 'rules' say you can be ignorant doesn't mean it isn't ignorant.. this is the biggest problem with this site and the reason why you get so many guys just being idiots anyway..
It is most definitely true that a rude message is more likely to get any kind of reply. I've actually managed more success with a delicately worded edgy message to start the ball rolling with conversation on here..
You get more replies from really popular women hundreds of miles away than you do from the more closer matched woman near you .. just more evidence of window shopping with zero intention of actually meeting. I just leave private notes so I don't waste anybodys time. "
No reply is not rude.
If I choose to not reply it is because I'm not interested.
Replying to everyone stops my filters working on all those I've replied to if I choose to use them at a later date.
I will continue to not reply and keep my filters intact thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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"Easier to just move on rather than becoming childish
I do after a while.
It's just amazing send 9 nice ones. Not read, send a shitty 10th one - read!! You couldn't write it
Why you sending 9 messages of they ignore the 1st your not for them, a no reply is a no thank you, then to send them a shitty message is just rude.
People don't owe you a reply they didn't ask you to message especially 9 times that's way overboard.
Mrs
No reply is rude first ... Just because the site 'rules' say you can be ignorant doesn't mean it isn't ignorant.. this is the biggest problem with this site and the reason why you get so many guys just being idiots anyway..
It is most definitely true that a rude message is more likely to get any kind of reply. I've actually managed more success with a delicately worded edgy message to start the ball rolling with conversation on here..
You get more replies from really popular women hundreds of miles away than you do from the more closer matched woman near you .. just more evidence of window shopping with zero intention of actually meeting. I just leave private notes so I don't waste anybodys time. "
Quick question, when you get spam mail/spam calls and see a billboard you dislike, do you actively call them to tell them you're not interested? If you don't, you're also ignorant! People aren't entitled to a reply. It isn't even rude. I don't understand how it can even be percieved as rude/ignorant. Its just a person on the internet, it isn't that deep. |
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"Write and send a real stroppy one.... They always read them "
Lol, we're tired of folk who chat and friend us, claim great interest then suddenly stop reading messages even though frequently logging in ! |
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