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"Hi , wondering how long after going joining did it take for single men to get their first meet ? And any tips ? "
First meet wasn’t from Fabs, rather it was through another site that I can’t honestly remember the name now. I would suggest you join a gangbang group (if it can be your thing). The idea is to be the person that the guys who have the links to couples and single ladies can call on when needed. That means showing up when you say and being all the other stuff. Once you get known for actually turning you could be pleasantly surprised at how many offers you get. |
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Hahaha hahaha. Hilarious. If you spend an hour a day messaging, hoping to find someone lovely you may get results within five years., if you lower the bar and concentrate on profile names like CumbucketChaz, BakukakeBev, raise the age limit to yr age +30 etc it might take you a year or so.
95% on here are men so you need to think to yourself what is so special about you, when someone can read your message, check your profile and find someone better bigger younger? |
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"It took me about 2 years. Then a new meet about every 2 years. I think I am not unusual in that. "
True that. Need to put the time and effort in too. Chatting is common, but will rarely lead anywhere |
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By *ailor75Man 12 weeks ago
Brigg, near scunthorpe |
3 days , then over 4 months, like most things it's just a case of right time right place lol iv been on and off for yrs , just remember that your message is just one of many that they get , and most people on here pop on and off and chat to loads of people , if your single and want a hook up tinder is a lot easier to find a hook up for men , just unfortunately you have to do the whole chit chat first lol |
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By *orny-DJMan 12 weeks ago
Leigh-on-Sea |
When I first joined fab around 11 years ago, it took about 6 months.
With the ratio of men to women plus the aftermath of covid and a number of other factors, I suspect that's likely stretched out to around a year by now |
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It can be very fast to get your first meet verification - just pop in to your local club or go to organised social and ask staff or organisers to verify you. In a club, most likely nothing will happen on your first visit and some clubs are very expensive for single men (but there are still some that are rather reasonable). |
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About a year after we started going to clubs where other couples got to meet my wife before believing we let each other play solo every now and again , But we are also very careful before meeting single guys for fun to and wife will only play solo after we have met them with me present |
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I've been using Fab for so long, I honestly can't remember how long it took to get my first meet, and I genuinely can't remember who it was either! Feeling it was less than 6 months after joining though.....  |
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Had my first meet on fab the day after I signed up. Was with a couple who fuck buddies. Not sure if they’re still on the site as they didn’t leave me a verification but m we move.
5 days later I decided to go to a party on my own not knowing anyone. Got chatting to people by introducing myself, met some guests who ran their own parties that night too. Ended up with 4 veris from that one party alone and things took off exponentially from there |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"Hi , wondering how long after going joining did it take for single men to get their first meet ? And any tips ? "
I’ve been off and on but it varies; sometimes it’s a few days, sometimes a couple of weeks or so.
Don’t come across as desperate. If you’re in an area that has a high man:women ratio be prepared to travel. |
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I’ve only been in here a short time, by that barely three months.
I’ve not had a sniff, but I know my profile is clumsy and my photo is rubbish and there’s only one.
Even if I rectified everything I’m not expecting anything to happen quickly. I walked into this with a hiw long us a piece of string mentality.
I’m aware of my shortcomings and know it could be years before somebody looks at my profile and is curious enough to meet at me in the flesh to see what I’m about.
Honestly, you need to be philosophical about it. You could do everything right and it still for some reason might never happen.
So to anyone asking, I’d just take the piece of string answer.
Of the pm’s that do reply back with a no thanks I always reply with a thank you anyway, - I just think it’s just good manners. I hope that one day someone will bite. But until that day comes, I’ll just keep persevering- no point worrying about stuff you can’t change. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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First profile about 10 years ago plus met quite a few ladies within 6 months. Second profile about 7 years ago met 3 in total over a year and a half. This profile since 2020 only met one fabulous lady from Sheffield while on business and another more local encounter while out eating dinner she was with hubby and basically think she's just a cock tease. So pretty poor these days. Possibly an age thing. As you get older it's much more about swinging couples than singles. Not sure it has the appeal much longer to be honest. |
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I (Mr) have never had a single profile on here but many years ago was on another site and got quite a few meets from it.
Can't remember exactly but the first was within a few weeks of joining.
My first swinger experiences as single were in clubs. Which I would still recommend over waiting for something on here.
Just take the right attitude with you. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Hahaha hahaha. Hilarious. If you spend an hour a day messaging, hoping to find someone lovely you may get results within five years., if you lower the bar and concentrate on profile names like CumbucketChaz, BakukakeBev, raise the age limit to yr age +30 etc it might take you a year or so.
95% on here are men so you need to think to yourself what is so special about you, when someone can read your message, check your profile and find someone better bigger younger?"
Sounds about right most single men join send a shit message to every profile with a pair of tits. Never get a meet or a reply and leave within the year. |
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