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By *pslad99 OP Man 10 weeks ago
colchester |
Come to the conclusion today, I think my swinging career is over done and dusted.
Suffer badly with erectile dysfunction.
Had a meet today and was shockingly bad and that’s after taking a 100 ml tables.
Just feel bad. |
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You do realise sex is not (or doesn't have to be) just about your cock? Your fingers work, I guess? How about your tongue? Ok, you can only orgasm through using your cock (or prostate milking, but that's not for everyone) but the lady could still have a great time even if your cock decides not to work.
On a slightly different note- if you're on any medication, check it is not what is causing your issues. Some antidepressants are renowned for causing ED, as well as some ulcer medication. Probably other meds, too. Also, not sure if you're aware, some cold remedies negate the effect of Viagra (my partner discovered that the hard way). |
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have you any stresses and anxieties outside? it can all add to exacerbate the problem, and no amount of meds will help.
It can be a temporary thing, but it's enough to totally bend you over, as lovely lady above says, there are other ways to satisfy her, and if you're relaxed by that point, something ight start to happen.
Question, and you can tell me to bugger off, did you get the effect of the medication after the event, perhaps later in the day? |
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Sorry to hear that, but go easy on yourself. 99% of this stuff is in your head - everyone's had meets where it just wasn't happening or things weren't firing like they should... and others which you thought would be terrible but everything worked out fine. Might just be that you need a break from the lifestyle for a bit - this stuff is very intense, can be really overstimulating and comes with a lot of pressures. Give yourself some time off it to chill, make sure you're healthy and your head's in a good place, then pick it up again as and when you want to. Good luck |
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By *ularliWoman 10 weeks ago
worcester |
Sometimes the pressure to perform is what causes the issue.
Take a step back and maybe try other stimulus instead.
Loads of foreplay and just take it from there. There’s a whole heap of fun in that |
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By *archelCouple 10 weeks ago
A field somewhere |
If you haven't already, go to the Dr's and get your testosterone and vitamin D levels checked. Mr M had a massive vitamin D deficiency...our Dr's put him on 40,000 ui of vitamin D a week. It knocked his confidence so badly that even once his levels were good again he couldn't get it up. Then we discovered Dragon tablets from our local Pulse & Cocktails shop...total game changer. He's fixed and like a teenager again lol |
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By *hrimper36Couple 10 weeks ago
Central France dept 36 |
Go to the doctors op and look at other methods of getting hard.
The new gel is supposed to work well with no side effects.
A pump.
Implants that you pump up
An injection in your cock.
And for me as others have said sex got better because it’s now not about my cock but about their pleasure.
Give your head a wobble and deal with your problem.
Good luck.
T |
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"If you haven't already, go to the Dr's and get your testosterone and vitamin D levels checked. Mr M had a massive vitamin D deficiency...our Dr's put him on 40,000 ui of vitamin D a week. It knocked his confidence so badly that even once his levels were good again he couldn't get it up. Then we discovered Dragon tablets from our local Pulse & Cocktails shop...total game changer. He's fixed and like a teenager again lol"
Hi, we just tried to find these dragon tablets on the pulse & cocktail website but no luck, do you have any other info please? |
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By *andy IanMan 10 weeks ago
cheshire/Preston |
It happened to me a few years ago but doctor changed my tablets and suddenly it was back to normal. If your lady is happy with other methods (most are) just concentrate on using fingers and tongue to make her cum . Giving her multiple orgasm is pleasure for her even a limp cock can cum if wanked. The lady I was seeing at the time was happy if she had an orgasm and enjoyed making me cum either in her mouth or over her.
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Hi, we just tried to find these dragon tablets on the pulse & cocktail website but no luck, do you have any other info please? "
they're a generic sildenafil product. Any of the generic blue pill brands will do the same thing.
The gel mentioned above is interesting, but I'd imagine getting blown after it's application might not be pleasant for the giver.
Doing a bit of research and reading the research studies on it , it would seem that the big plus is the rapid onset. My suspicion is still that the peak period of effectiveness is around 10 minutes after application and then declining to zero by up 30 mins, but I cannot find anything to confirm this.
The early study suggests effectiveness is maximised in those with mild to moderate ED. Later study suggests this is also statistically effective with moderate to severe.
It is interesting that Tadalfil 5mg was used as the comparator (which is the low daily dose) and not the 'on demand' dose of 10 to 20mg? It does also say that whilst Tadalfil scored better in terms of the strength of erection, the gel scored better overall largely due to being quick acting and with less side effects.
Regarding safety with partners it says that around 75% of the active ingredient has been absorbed from the glans penis within 5 minutes, with none remaining by 10 minutes and as a result there should be very little exposure to the partner via vaginal mucous membranes, assuming a ten minute delay prior to penetration. Obviously condom use would reduce that considerably further.
Only four cases of partner adverse effects in the trials.
I cannot find anything about how often the gel is recommended for use? In the trial participants had to leave a one week gap, but that is mainly to ensure there is zero chance of any remaining residual effects.
In terms of meets and given this 5 to10 minute onset, so the gel is applied during the meeting and therefore with the knowledge of the other person.
It is undoubtedly more suited to couples in relationships and where ED is an issue?
Very much a case of wait and see when opened up to a wider market which appears is now in sight in the UK. |
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there's always shockwave therapy, but my first port of call would be look at all the other factors first - get bloods done, get an assessment for various hormone levels and then start looking at the options that are going to cost money. |
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By *bflirtyCouple 8 weeks ago
Milton Keynes |
Do you ever wake up in the night or morning with a hard on? If you do then most likely psychological which ends up being a self fulfilling prophecy.
Sometimes I can, sometimes I can’t, with or without viagra - very much depends on how much pressure I feel under. |
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By *archelCouple 7 weeks ago
A field somewhere |
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Hi, we just tried to find these dragon tablets on the pulse & cocktail website but no luck, do you have any other info please?
they're a generic sildenafil product. Any of the generic blue pill brands will do the same thing.
The gel mentioned above is interesting, but I'd imagine getting blown after it's application might not be pleasant for the giver.
Doing a bit of research and reading the research studies on it , it would seem that the big plus is the rapid onset. My suspicion is still that the peak period of effectiveness is around 10 minutes after application and then declining to zero by up 30 mins, but I cannot find anything to confirm this.
The early study suggests effectiveness is maximised in those with mild to moderate ED. Later study suggests this is also statistically effective with moderate to severe.
It is interesting that Tadalfil 5mg was used as the comparator (which is the low daily dose) and not the 'on demand' dose of 10 to 20mg? It does also say that whilst Tadalfil scored better in terms of the strength of erection, the gel scored better overall largely due to being quick acting and with less side effects.
Regarding safety with partners it says that around 75% of the active ingredient has been absorbed from the glans penis within 5 minutes, with none remaining by 10 minutes and as a result there should be very little exposure to the partner via vaginal mucous membranes, assuming a ten minute delay prior to penetration. Obviously condom use would reduce that considerably further.
Only four cases of partner adverse effects in the trials.
I cannot find anything about how often the gel is recommended for use? In the trial participants had to leave a one week gap, but that is mainly to ensure there is zero chance of any remaining residual effects.
In terms of meets and given this 5 to10 minute onset, so the gel is applied during the meeting and therefore with the knowledge of the other person.
It is undoubtedly more suited to couples in relationships and where ED is an issue?
Very much a case of wait and see when opened up to a wider market which appears is now in sight in the UK."
There's zero sildenfil in these dragons, it's all herbal. Just checked. |
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"I agree much with the above especially the sex is not always about your cock, why not take the pressure off and look for soft play meets?
Mrs  "
I may be wrong but soft play for most just means no vaginal or anal penetration with a penis except with own partner. An erection for oral and wanking is still a usual requirement. |
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There's zero sildenfil in these dragons, it's all herbal. Just checked."
Ahh ok, not the dragon tablets I saw then. thanks for confirming , so probably L-Arginine tablets mixed in with some other things that are too rubbish to pass off as tea.  |
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Some time back I met a woman who I was very attracted to but I just couldn't get hard due to a reason mentioned in posts above.
I spent an hour and a half between her legs. I only wish I'd bought some good knee pads!
Knowing my limitations when they strike I'd be happy to just meet someone to go down on them - I can in fact spend all day down there as long as I get the odd tea break and a nice biscuit.
I've pretty much accepted now that I'll never meet anyone on here for anything physical, between my face and 'that' I've got it all stacked against me. I've got so used to window shopping but not being allowed to buy that I'm happy to just attend meets and the social aspect now.
OP, if you've made some great friends along the way, then they're still your friends no matter what, and if and when it returns, they'll still be there ready. |
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