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I find the sexual categories of Straigt Bi-curious and Bisexual a bit confusing particularly considering how others categorise themselves.
I am predominantly interested in females and female porn. But I do find some cocks interesting and arousing. I have played with cock particularly in mmf scenarios. And I have enjoyed sucking cock especially when covered in female juices and during fucking. I have swallowed cum when very aroused. However. I'm not interested in kissing men or having anal sex. I do get very aroused discussing naughty and even forbidden fantasies about women but never about men. I do get aroused looking at convincing CDs and TVs with impressive cocks in lingerie or under skirts.
Am I Straight Bi-curious or Bi-Sexual. Help! PM me if you prefer not to comment on open forum. I'm sure I'm not alone in my quandary. |
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Definitely Fab straight, it’s all fucked up, everyone makes up what they want to be based on what they consider their best option are for getting laid, straight men say they are bi so they can go with a couple they like the female of, bi men say they are straight as they think this gives them a better chance, because bi men are classed as more promiscuous, straight straight men sometimes liked to be fucked in the arse, but only by women wearing strap/ons. The list goes on and on, but as long as everyone is happy and having fun, no harm done. Pick a label and change it as often as you like, lots of others do. What you wrote could have been written by myself (Mr.) and I am definitely Fab Bi/straight, strictly top though.    |
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I can relate to this, definitely not romantically attracted to guys, just like the adding to my portfolio, couldn’t kiss a guy but would happily suck cock. Mrs has a strap on and we both enjoy that, would take a real one. |
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I love sensuous kissing of any adult. Such fun sensing them getting turned on. Yes my love is for F but I have had M lovers and def enjoy exploring all corners of a couple when we play. I call myself Bi for ease. Labels are just shorthand. When chatting be honest on your likes and dislikes. |
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"I find the sexual categories of Straigt Bi-curious and Bisexual a bit confusing particularly considering how others categorise themselves.
I am predominantly interested in females and female porn. But I do find some cocks interesting and arousing. I have played with cock particularly in mmf scenarios. And I have enjoyed sucking cock especially when covered in female juices and during fucking. I have swallowed cum when very aroused. However. I'm not interested in kissing men or having anal sex. I do get very aroused discussing naughty and even forbidden fantasies about women but never about men. I do get aroused looking at convincing CDs and TVs with impressive cocks in lingerie or under skirts.
Am I Straight Bi-curious or Bi-Sexual. Help! PM me if you prefer not to comment on open forum. I'm sure I'm not alone in my quandary. "
It's a profile to connect with others is all, not a binding contract. Use the labels that help at the time. No biggie. People evolve and change and have different desires one day to the next so why shouldn't the labels changes.? |
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I kinda dislike labels myself.. your sexual, doesn't need anything more. It's liberating to enjoy and be turned on by both sexes. But NEVER say you're bi just to get with a couple, straight guys that do that really p off bi couples! |
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I really font see the worry ir confusion at sll.
If you enjoy ut, feels good and turns you on then do it.
Life is way to short to not enjoy what you can do.
I don't even worry about kissing.
If I like demesne enough to have sex with them then I've no problem kissing them .
It's just another area of pleasure.
Enjoy it all.
It doesn't mean that you need to marry them! |
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I'm bisexual and enjoy what I do love playing with guys and ladies, I've had straight guys message me asking for a meeting and I don't mind whatever they are life's too short and enjoy it while you can |
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Bi/curious I'd say op so you've got it right on your profile.
Not straight if you regularly enjoy playing with someone of the same sex.
Some will say don't label it, but it's important to me that people are honest about how they play. That way there should be no suprises or crossing of boundaries. |
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"Bi/curious I'd say op so you've got it right on your profile.
Not straight if you regularly enjoy playing with someone of the same sex.
Some will say don't label it, but it's important to me that people are honest about how they play. That way there should be no suprises or crossing of boundaries. "
Good thoughts. This Fab label just helps narrow people's search and gives an indication. For me your profile information is much more helpful. I agree that people should be honest about how they play...and how they don't want to play or be played with. |
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By *amoanMan 9 weeks ago
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I think it’s important to be honest. It says bi on my profile, although men don’t really do it for me, but put one, in a nice frock, with killer heels and satin lingerie and Im hard and interested
There’s something deliciously naughty, about a cock in silky panties, it’s part of the whole visual experience for me and I’m keen to make sure the lovely TV/CD’s I meet, get what they want, after all the time and effort, they put in, to getting ready.
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Thank you all so far. Your comments have all been valuable and given me pause for thought.
Perhaps made me more flexible my choices.
Loving the personal thoughts that I have received privately too. |
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By *hesblokeMan 9 weeks ago
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"I find the sexual categories of Straigt Bi-curious and Bisexual a bit confusing particularly considering how others categorise themselves.
I am predominantly interested in females and female porn. But I do find some cocks interesting and arousing. I have played with cock particularly in mmf scenarios. And I have enjoyed sucking cock especially when covered in female juices and during fucking. I have swallowed cum when very aroused. However. I'm not interested in kissing men or having anal sex. I do get very aroused discussing naughty and even forbidden fantasies about women but never about men. I do get aroused looking at convincing CDs and TVs with impressive cocks in lingerie or under skirts.
Am I Straight Bi-curious or Bi-Sexual. Help! PM me if you prefer not to comment on open forum. I'm sure I'm not alone in my quandary. "
Labels.
I call myself pansexual, but like you don't tend to find men attractive physically (emotionally, yes) apart from their members.
To be honest, I don't really think much about what I call myself, I know what makes my dingle tingle - and that's a wide range. |
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Its easy to sum this old chestnut up albeit rather bluntly...
If you think about cock you're curious.
If you do something about it you're bisexual.
Try not to worry about the labelling and concentrate on the fun aspect of it.
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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I could have wrote that describing myself 100% what I do find very frustrating on here is most couples think I’m only saying I’m bi to get a free pass at female ! |
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"I could have wrote that describing myself 100% what I do find very frustrating on here is most couples think I’m only saying I’m bi to get a free pass at female ! "
Your profile only states looking for females  |
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"Not quite sure why that emoji keeps popping up in the middle of the word, but I'm sure you get my drift  "
As far as I can understand this, there’s..
Straight
Fab straight/bicurious/het exible?
Bisexual
I have a bit of the fear about couples and what the M might be, as I’m not for the Willy play
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"Good thought R. Maybe Fabswingers will take note "
If I could type het ro flexible without the emoji it’d be a start.
I dunno, there’s straight and there’s ‘straight’ from what I see and I suppose it’s different if you’re there with man and woman which I haven’t yet |
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By *luttTV/TS 9 weeks ago
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"I find the sexual categories of Straigt Bi-curious and Bisexual a bit confusing particularly considering how others categorise themselves.
I am predominantly interested in females and female porn. But I do find some cocks interesting and arousing. I have played with cock particularly in mmf scenarios. And I have enjoyed sucking cock especially when covered in female juices and during fucking. I have swallowed cum when very aroused. However. I'm not interested in kissing men or having anal sex. I do get very aroused discussing naughty and even forbidden fantasies about women but never about men. I do get aroused looking at convincing CDs and TVs with impressive cocks in lingerie or under skirts.
Am I Straight Bi-curious or Bi-Sexual. Help! PM me if you prefer not to comment on open forum. I'm sure I'm not alone in my quandary. "
Bisexual, with fairly tight boundaries |
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"You make it sound very simple Daniel "
It kind of is though tbh hence my comment. If you never intend to follow up on your thoughts/feelings towards involving a male then I'd say that you are curious. Once you do something about it physically you are then bisexual. The problem comes when you don't find men attractive but still enjoy the idea of playing with a male in maybe a group situation. This is the stage I'm at, I am with males but only in mmf+ situations never one on one. So in this case I consider myself as hetero-flexible. When I'm at a club on bi night if it happens it happens I don't think about the what ifs I just go with the flow and my enjoyment of the situation hence my ending statement in my other post about not worrying about labelling yourself. |
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"I find the sexual categories of Straigt Bi-curious and Bisexual a bit confusing particularly considering how others categorise themselves.
I am predominantly interested in females and female porn. But I do find some cocks interesting and arousing. I have played with cock particularly in mmf scenarios. And I have enjoyed sucking cock especially when covered in female juices and during fucking. I have swallowed cum when very aroused. However. I'm not interested in kissing men or having anal sex. I do get very aroused discussing naughty and even forbidden fantasies about women but never about men. I do get aroused looking at convincing CDs and TVs with impressive cocks in lingerie or under skirts.
Am I Straight Bi-curious or Bi-Sexual. Help! PM me if you prefer not to comment on open forum. I'm sure I'm not alone in my quandary. "
None of that is a problem for most people. Men love cock, kissing is optional as is anal, just fuck the right boxes and get on fab guys.  |
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"I find the sexual categories of Straigt Bi-curious and Bisexual a bit confusing particularly considering how others categorise themselves.
I am predominantly interested in females and female porn. But I do find some cocks interesting and arousing. I have played with cock particularly in mmf scenarios. And I have enjoyed sucking cock especially when covered in female juices and during fucking. I have swallowed cum when very aroused. However. I'm not interested in kissing men or having anal sex. I do get very aroused discussing naughty and even forbidden fantasies about women but never about men. I do get aroused looking at convincing CDs and TVs with impressive cocks in lingerie or under skirts.
Am I Straight Bi-curious or Bi-Sexual. Help! PM me if you prefer not to comment on open forum. I'm sure I'm not alone in my quandary.
None of that is a problem for most people. Men love cock, kissing is optional as is anal, just fuck the right boxes and get on fab guys. "
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I am listed as bi-curious. Like you I have no interest in kissing men or anal sex with men or any romantic involvement - but I do like cocks. I like to watch men cum, I like to wank and suck cocks and as a couple we want to share cock. Bi-curious seemed the best option. |
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Very pragmatic
I'm beginning to get the idea, but so many mainly male oriented men listed bi-curious contacted me that I was thinking Bi-curious was a category more gay than gay!
In other words the bi-curious label seems to be used by many who are really gay. And that's not me. |
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Well, before our first meet, I thought I was straight. No intention of touching a cock in any way. During that first meet, I ended up sucking him off, enjoying it when he came in my mouth, then, I was bi, because I enjoyed it, and I'd do it again. I'm not interested in relationships with men at all, but in a sexual sense, then fuck yeah. If you're the same, you're bi. If not, you're straight. It's pretty simple for me haha. |
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You can confuse yourself even further with androsexual (attracted to masculinity) and gynosexual (attracted to femininity) no matter what the person gender is.
There’s romantic bi, bi playful, bi experimenting or even bi in the moment.
Personally just go with what you think fits, putting your sexuality as straight but within your profile you are up for being bi playful with the right guy/ tv or couple is at least being honest with those who may consider you as a future meet. |
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"I am listed as bi-curious. Like you I have no interest in kissing men or anal sex with men or any romantic involvement - but I do like cocks. I like to watch men cum, I like to wank and suck cocks and as a couple we want to share cock. Bi-curious seemed the best option."
I share your likes and dislikes |
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I learnt that I was bi, about 35 years ago- when I was at a close friends home one night, both our partners were on a girls night out, we had been to the pub but were not that d*unk - we were sat on the sofa and he said that he would love to fuck my GF, and asked me question after question about her and at the same time moved closer to me, and began to touch me, I enjoyed the feeling and he just began to kiss me and started to remove my clothes, soon we were both naked and the rest they say is history. |
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"Why do you have/need to categorise yourself? Just be you and enjoy what you are, what you do & what you like x."
Came here to say this but here you are.
Play with what you like. Experiment even.
Try it, don't deny yourself pleasure because you think you have to adhere to a category. |
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"My answer is this….. you’re enjoying yourself! Why do you need a label ? X"
I agree with you on the “enjoying yourself” term, which is fine, life is for living, and people should just do whatever they enjoy, as long as all concerned are consenting.
It does niggle me a little though, that I have to state I am ‘actually straight’, more and more these days. Simply stating straight on my profile is not enough anymore, and I have chatted with several couples who have said “Shame you’re not bi”……. I mean, if I was bi I would have selected that option right?  |
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