I’m going to an all ladies evening this evening (Ruby Slippers at TH in case anyone has been!). I’ve never been to an all female event before, and the butterflies are really kicking in. I’ve only played with one woman before and not all the way, but I enjoyed it a lot. I have no expectations for tonight, but I’m starting to stress about what to wear and worrying about being with all women. Not for any reason in particular, but I’m already feeling very self-conscious and feeling like I’m just going to stick out like a sore thumb. Any advice? |
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Ok.
Just so its not some guy responding, if you want to go down the rabbit hole, my couples account (with my wife) is listed in my profile and her solo account is listed there (though most of all our veri's are on our couples account anyway). I'd have my wife reply but shes sound asleep and I'm not.
So my wife is doing her "Girls Only Night" on the 31st of March (at Club F in Stanley if any ladies feel like going). She's looking forward to it as shes not shy at all. She's had a few all girl orgies at the club and isnt shy in the least and loves the ladies. So this wouldnt be new territory to her.
I can promise you this much, both the club and regulars will be expecting at least one or two few nervous first timers. I'm assuming it not your first club visit? If its not then it might differ a little from previous visits as more often than not, men will try approaching you. Even a couple it might be the male half striking up a conversation and his partner following his lead. And that is the main difference.
Even if it is your first visit, its the same for both situations. Just strike up conversations and be honest that's its your first time. If you're feeling the vibe with the person your chatting with, just go from there. Everyone tends to be shy till they are not and you and every other woman there is there for the same reason. Just look out for obvious signs of flirting. good chance whatever you do when you are flirting she or they will be doing as well.
As for what to wear...well my wife likes her lingerie and so do the other ladies. Its also a talking point / opener for my wife like "where did you get that lingerie" sort of thing. What you choose to wear is up to you at the end of the day and it's all about personal comfort but just think about what you like to see on other women and do that yourself. Be what you want to attract sort of thing.
But good luck and dont be nervous...just go have a wild time!
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"I’m going to an all ladies evening this evening (Ruby Slippers at TH in case anyone has been!). I’ve never been to an all female event before, and the butterflies are really kicking in. "
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Thank you so much for the replies.
I almost chickened out, even though I’ve been to TH on a number of occasions before, but this is a side of myself I really wanted to explore so I quelled the nerves as much as possible.
It went well! I didn’t quite know what to expect, but everyone was super friendly and I was put at ease almost straight away. The main difference is that everyone was dressed down in lingerie almost straight away by the time I got there at 8:15, and doors had only opened at 8pm. It was really relaxed, and I really enjoyed it. Apparently I am very good at fisting - who knew! A brand new skill I didn’t even know I had. I had a lot of fun, so needless to say I’ll be aiming to attend the next one in May.
Thank you again for the advice and comments  |
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Thought I'd pop this on the thread, it may be of interest to you...
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Wednesday 3rd July
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