Yes. If you don't enjoy it, you are not going to be relaxed and that makes it less pleasurable no matter how much lube etc he uses.
The answer is simply don't do it. Plenty of other sexy pleasurable things you can do that you with both like and enjoy. |
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"Yes. If you don't enjoy it, you are not going to be relaxed and that makes it less pleasurable no matter how much lube etc he uses.
The answer is simply don't do it. Plenty of other sexy pleasurable things you can do that you with both like and enjoy. "
That's not what I asked |
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I play with my wand when we do anal, I feel it helps me to relax and that makes it more fun. If not im screaming the house down lol  also found that different positions work better for me aswell. Experimentation is what we done to figure out what was best for us
C x |
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I'd recommend adding clit stim during. Play with positions to find the easiest.
I love anal and can cum from that alone but alot of ladies need the additional stimulation. Perhaps a DP with a dildo if clit stim isn't your thing |
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"Yes. If you don't enjoy it, you are not going to be relaxed and that makes it less pleasurable no matter how much lube etc he uses.
The answer is simply don't do it. Plenty of other sexy pleasurable things you can do that you with both like and enjoy.
That's not what I asked
It's my opinion to you question happy for you to ignore it. I personally don't do anything I get no enjoyment from and won't try to make myself enjoy it for anyone else. "
I didn't ask for your opinion, I asked for advice, I want to enjoy it and I want something to treat my husband with on occasion. |
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"I play with my wand when we do anal, I feel it helps me to relax and that makes it more fun. If not im screaming the house down lol also found that different positions work better for me aswell. Experimentation is what we done to figure out what was best for us
C x"
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"I'd recommend adding clit stim during. Play with positions to find the easiest.
I love anal and can cum from that alone but alot of ladies need the additional stimulation. Perhaps a DP with a dildo if clit stim isn't your thing "
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"I play with my wand when we do anal, I feel it helps me to relax and that makes it more fun. If not im screaming the house down lol also found that different positions work better for me aswell. Experimentation is what we done to figure out what was best for us
C x
Thank you, will have to give that a try "
Dp with a toy is another good one too. Honestly experiment and you'll get it. We're all individuals and what works for one might not for a other but for me my wand or dp is the way forward lol
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"I play with my wand when we do anal, I feel it helps me to relax and that makes it more fun. If not im screaming the house down lol also found that different positions work better for me aswell. Experimentation is what we done to figure out what was best for us
C x
Thank you, will have to give that a try
Dp with a toy is another good one too. Honestly experiment and you'll get it. We're all individuals and what works for one might not for a other but for me my wand or dp is the way forward lol
C x"
Thank you  - few ideas now to try, sure hubby won't mind  |
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Ask you husband to have wet you pussy the more juicy ask him to take his finger towards your anal ask him to rub some juices from you pussy on it the he plays with both then slowly he fingers your anal with the other hand and one hand in your pussy your orgasam will be out of this world then he will enter you in the anal you will thank me later try n enjoy my dear |
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Ask you husband to have wet you pussy the more juicy ask him to take his finger towards your anal ask him to rub some juices from you pussy on it the he plays with both then slowly he fingers your anal with the other hand and one hand in your pussy your orgasam will be out of this world then he will enter you in the anal you will thank me later try n enjoy my dear |
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Definitely clit stimulation is key. I'm a recent convert to it, and being very turned on beforehand and keeping that going through clit stimulation while he's pumping makes it much much better. Experiment with angles too, I started doing it doggy and it wasn't great. On my back and spread wide hits a different spot for me, and is much more pleasurable. |
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"Are there any tips to enjoy anal, I can take anal, but I don't get any enjoyment from it, my husband does enjoy it, but doesnt like it when I'm not enjoying myself.
Any tips ? "
Really? It is probably not for you. I wanted things up my bum before I enjoyed having things up my bum. |
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"Are there any tips to enjoy anal, I can take anal, but I don't get any enjoyment from it, my husband does enjoy it, but doesnt like it when I'm not enjoying myself.
Any tips ? "
You also have to bear in mind that women have something like half the nerve endings in that area than men. |
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"Yes. If you don't enjoy it, you are not going to be relaxed and that makes it less pleasurable no matter how much lube etc he uses.
The answer is simply don't do it. Plenty of other sexy pleasurable things you can do that you with both like and enjoy.
That's not what I asked"
Keep going. Perseverance is the key. |
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"I'd recommend adding clit stim during. Play with positions to find the easiest.
I love anal and can cum from that alone but alot of ladies need the additional stimulation. Perhaps a DP with a dildo if clit stim isn't your thing "
Don’t have a clit. Just love the feeling of a cock in my arse. Is that weird? |
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"Yes. If you don't enjoy it, you are not going to be relaxed and that makes it less pleasurable no matter how much lube etc he uses.
The answer is simply don't do it. Plenty of other sexy pleasurable things you can do that you with both like and enjoy.
That's not what I asked
It's my opinion to you question happy for you to ignore it. I personally don't do anything I get no enjoyment from and won't try to make myself enjoy it for anyone else.
I didn't ask for your opinion, I asked for advice, I want to enjoy it and I want something to treat my husband with on occasion."
Rein it in. You can’t enjoy it if you don’t enjoy it and your man needs to be involved. You can’t enjoy it all by yourself. |
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"Are there any tips to enjoy anal, I can take anal, but I don't get any enjoyment from it, my husband does enjoy it, but doesnt like it when I'm not enjoying myself.
Any tips ? "
Good advice (re clit stimulation)
However, maybe it is simply a gift... dress up, play a scenario which climaxes with him penetrating you...
....but on the agreement he fulfills a fantasy of yours in return... |
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"Are there any tips to enjoy anal, I can take anal, but I don't get any enjoyment from it, my husband does enjoy it, but doesnt like it when I'm not enjoying myself.
Any tips ? "
try laying on your back
Legs wide open so your man can do anal plus play with your tits or clit at the same time |
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"I play with my wand when we do anal, I feel it helps me to relax and that makes it more fun. If not im screaming the house down lol also found that different positions work better for me aswell. Experimentation is what we done to figure out what was best for us
C x"
This is definitely a good tip. I usually enjoy anal because I find it pretty intense, but recently when I wasn’t sure if I was gonna enjoy it or not I just got my wand on my clit and made myself cum repeatedly while he fucked my ass and we both loved it. |
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"Are there any tips to enjoy anal, I can take anal, but I don't get any enjoyment from it, my husband does enjoy it, but doesnt like it when I'm not enjoying myself.
Any tips ?
You also have to bear in mind that women have something like half the nerve endings in that area than men. "
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Eh?!  |
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"Are there any tips to enjoy anal, I can take anal, but I don't get any enjoyment from it, my husband does enjoy it, but doesnt like it when I'm not enjoying myself.
Any tips ?
You also have to bear in mind that women have something like half the nerve endings in that area than men.
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Eh?! "
Spewed that interesting fact without thinking. Had it floating around my head and I have no idea how it got in there. Male and female bums are basically the same. Women don’t have a prostate though. |
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"No pain no gain "
Nope, it's not meant to be painful and if it is it won't feel good.
OP the advice above is good. You need to be very turned on and find a position where his dick is stimulating your clitoris from the back IYSWIM. Definitely try missionary, it's easier to control for you and he can't get in so deep. |
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Start wearing a butt plug during the day when out and about. Enjoy knowing you have it in when shopping and talking to the checkout person. Wear it when around friends. You'll feel mega horny about it all and then transfer that to how you feel when with your fella. Experiment with dojng it with you on top or missionary with legs way up high |
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"Yes. If you don't enjoy it, you are not going to be relaxed and that makes it less pleasurable no matter how much lube etc he uses.
The answer is simply don't do it. Plenty of other sexy pleasurable things you can do that you with both like and enjoy.
That's not what I asked"
Excellent response. You want to try and make it pleasurable not stop doing. Quitting seems to be a default response. I hope you find something that works. |
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Play around and experiment is genuinely the best advice.
I had an ex who was keen to try it and enjoy it and she found through the experimentation was the only way for her was lots of lube and riding me, so she could control the penetration and the speed. Once she worked that out there was no stopping her! |
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Any tips ? "
Warm up first lots of fingers and baby oil but our top tip is a little spot of lidocaine gel in anus. My man can take my strap on and dildos all day with that little bit of help. I get balls deep literally with him pulling me as far as possible. I do love making love to his gorgeous bum it’s my thing. |
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By *ailor75Man 1 week ago
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My ex never got enjoyment out it , but did it for me , we found doing it gentle with her playing with herself worked , and also found certain angles were better so she would let me know when I found the right angle ' if that makes sense, tbf she did end up loving it , hope this helps x |
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"We find plenty of warm up helps, using beads or a plug have it in during foreplay letting yourself get used to the sensation then plenty of lube "
This, I was going to say practice with butt plugs it has really helped me with anal over the years |
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"Are there any tips to enjoy anal, I can take anal, but I don't get any enjoyment from it, my husband does enjoy it, but doesnt like it when I'm not enjoying myself.
Any tips ? "
Tip we found was for me to focus on her pleasure first yes anal was talked about and the ‘end result’ but it was what she loves from playing with nipples as my fingers played with her to orgasm (she can orgasm a lot) to licking her out, dildo in her pussy all of which makes her orgasm and squirt multiple times before lube and anal sex and she orgasms and enjoys anal when done that way.
Another tip and less practical was we first tried anal successfully whilst on holiday abroad - both off work, relaxed, sun drenched all day few drinks meal and that evening it worked which was when she first found out she liked it
Explore and try different things for both to have fun, don’t be afraid to stop and pivot and try something to make you both enjoy |
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There maybe a psychological block you need to overcome to let go.
Not being clean or the fear of accidental poop are big ones some struggle to get over.
Stimulation and relaxation will definitely help but ensuring the fundamentals are in place will go along way.
Deep clean and be happy, confident and self assured that their are no chances of spoiling the fun. It will definitely go a long way to increasing your enjoyment.
You could go the full anal porn star. Make it an event, a ritual even.
Good fibre diet. Stay of the alcohol for a few days before.
Deep enema on the day a good few hours before.
Lube syringe inside. Fingers and toys to relax and prepare.
Gummy sweets for energy and water for hydration only.
Douche 30mins before the action.
Lube syringe inside again.
Grab you favourite wand, lube, anal toys, sexy lingerie and shake your booty ready for his throbing cock.
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