Hey I was just wondering has anyone else had a baby and struggled to get back into the swing of things but I'm so self conscious because I had an emergency c section so I don't really feel like me anymore but I know it's just my head anyone else struggle |
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"Hey I was just wondering has anyone else had a baby and struggled to get back into the swing of things but I'm so self conscious because I had an emergency c section so I don't really feel like me anymore but I know it's just my head anyone else struggle "
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After our first child it was me the male half who struggled, more in the sense of bringing up going again as I was convinced in my head she wasn't interested anymore, I was very wrong.
With number two that was a different story, as much as she wanted to return she was struggling. One of the biggest differences was she breast fed number 2, so she was conscious of milky boobs, so just over 28 months we have got back to clubs. Even still it takes a bit of convincing that she still looks amazing and others will find her sexy.
So op, I'm sure many people will find you amazing, and if one thing I've found in this lifestyle and that's it can be a massive confidence booster at times. |
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All of us are human and there not many of us on here who have picked up visible scars from life or things we find imperfect. Pretty much all of us on here. That's all well and good me saying that but still that reality is much help when you feel self conscious, I get that. But swinging is about freedom, accepting our bodies and sharing them with others as they are. We are all human, we all have our things and I guarantee you the only person who will see anything negative about your body is you. So that is your battle to get over something that you put on yourself. Love yourself, except yourself and be free again just as you are. We're all waiting for you 
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I had to have an emergency c-section years ago without having one I wouldn’t have my baby come out alive & I couldn’t imagine living without him so there is that to consider & I get having a hang up with your stomach after having a section so I sometimes wear a suspender belt with stockings I find they help to keep your stomach covered when you don’t want it exposed |
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