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By *andS69 OP Couple 11 weeks ago
Great Yarmouth |
Well due cancer and having now had a mastectomy removal of one breast and reconstruction. I there any lady on fab had similar? and managed to get back into having a swingers lifestyle again? Are there any men/couples out there who understand and do not find it a turn off.x |
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"Well due cancer and having now had a mastectomy removal of one breast and reconstruction. I there any lady on fab had similar? and managed to get back into having a swingers lifestyle again? Are there any men/couples out there who understand and do not find it a turn off.x "
There is a lady who I believe is a regular at The Annex who is a cancer survivor.
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Anyone who would judge you post-treatment, didn't deserve you pre-treatment either.
I (L) had cancer too, which left me with only one testicle.
I now feel like it's a shield to filter out the shallow people and save me wasting time on them.
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"Well due cancer and having now had a mastectomy removal of one breast and reconstruction. I there any lady on fab had similar? and managed to get back into having a swingers lifestyle again? Are there any men/couples out there who understand and do not find it a turn off.x "
We have played with a woman (and her partner) post reconstruction and it was awesome. It simply wasn’t an issue and certainly not a turn off.
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"Well due cancer and having now had a mastectomy removal of one breast and reconstruction. I there any lady on fab had similar? and managed to get back into having a swingers lifestyle again? Are there any men/couples out there who understand and do not find it a turn off.x "
It wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. It’s the person inside that’s important. Best wishes to you. |
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"Well due cancer and having now had a mastectomy removal of one breast and reconstruction. I there any lady on fab had similar? and managed to get back into having a swingers lifestyle again? Are there any men/couples out there who understand and do not find it a turn off.x "
Years ago a lady that I used to see vanished from the scene for a while
Later I got a message from her that she'd had a mastectomy and was to shy to play anymore. Long story short we kept in touch and eventually she asked to meet me in a hotel on the understanding we could stop at any time. I felt honoured that she put that trust in me and it took a few meets before she even let me see the scar.
She was gorgeous before the op and after it she was gorgeous and undeniably brave. She has stopped swinging due to other medical issues but I'll always remember her. |
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Good evening so sorry to hear you have gone through this. M did around five years ago and we have had no problems enjoying all the fun there is to be had.
Most people don’t worry and if they do it’s on them! My advice would be go out there proud of your body and enjoy all that life has to offer 
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"Well due cancer and having now had a mastectomy removal of one breast and reconstruction. I there any lady on fab had similar? and managed to get back into having a swingers lifestyle again? Are there any men/couples out there who understand and do not find it a turn off.x "
I wouldn't find it a turn off. |
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"Well due cancer and having now had a mastectomy removal of one breast and reconstruction. I there any lady on fab had similar? and managed to get back into having a swingers lifestyle again? Are there any men/couples out there who understand and do not find it a turn off.x "
Absolutely its not a turn off,ur a survivor and u should wear that badge proudly, scars and all |
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"Well due cancer and having now had a mastectomy removal of one breast and reconstruction. I there any lady on fab had similar? and managed to get back into having a swingers lifestyle again? Are there any men/couples out there who understand and do not find it a turn off.x "
Best wishes to you, I don't think anyone you'd actually want to meet would find it a turn off. Nobody (AFAIK) finds Episiotomy scar(s) or Ceasarian scars a turn off. Like breast cancer scars, they are just part of peoples' history. |
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"Well due cancer and having now had a mastectomy removal of one breast and reconstruction. I there any lady on fab had similar? and managed to get back into having a swingers lifestyle again? Are there any men/couples out there who understand and do not find it a turn off.x "
Wouldn’t be a turn off-for me if I liked a woman and we clicked |
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"Good evening so sorry to hear you have gone through this. M did around five years ago and we have had no problems enjoying all the fun there is to be had.
Most people don’t worry and if they do it’s on them! My advice would be go out there proud of your body and enjoy all that life has to offer
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And thankyou for sharing content of that fabulous post trauma body with us.
We always look foward to new content from yourselves.
Xxx
Scars and marks are life stories that we love to learn about in a sensual way. |
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By *donielMan 9 weeks ago
Liverpool |
Hi there, sorry you had to go through what you did and glad you are on the mend physically and hopefully mentally.
I had a friend and lover for several years before she fell victim to breast cancer. She had mastectomy and reconstruction and found it difficult to get back to meeting up again. But I am stubborn bugger eventually we returned step by step to full intimacy. The first few occasions she would only make live while wearing a thick bra. Ashamed to say I got angry eventually that she didn't trust my feelings for her, and told her I wouldn't make live with her half dressed. YES it was a shitty thing to do. But we got back to as we had been. Yes she was different physically but the beauty and allure of her body had not changed in my eyes. The woman, the person I was in love with was still what had captured me in the first place. Mentally she found it easier when her nipple was tattooed to colour match her other breast.i suppose the biggest battle was for her to like herself again before accepting that men could/would and do find her beautiful regardless |
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By *mizhereMan 9 weeks ago
Carmarthen Area Tuesday 29th |
My ex had a full mastectomy and never stopped her playing eventually had a full reconstruction
I did meet a lady recently who was similar but no reconstruction we had a wonderful evening of fun so I'm happy as long as all happy
Keep
Smiling through it all and good luck |
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By *wiggy2112Woman 9 weeks ago
some where in Yorkshire |
I have recently had both breasts removed and this is the first time I have openly said it in the forum
I have found that some men are fickle and don't understand how I can still have pleasure without boobs ...but what they mean is how do THEY get pleasure...im found most Sundays at Pandora's where enjoy chatting to people in the spa. It's building my Confidence and if others get offended .. tuff
I'm not have construction cos I'm actually happy having none...just having one really affected my mental health...im happy to chat to anyone who is struggling with breast cancer 🎀 x x |
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"I have recently had both breasts removed and this is the first time I have openly said it in the forum
I have found that some men are fickle and don't understand how I can still have pleasure without boobs ...but what they mean is how do THEY get pleasure...im found most Sundays at Pandora's where enjoy chatting to people in the spa. It's building my Confidence and if others get offended .. tuff
I'm not have construction cos I'm actually happy having none...just having one really affected my mental health...im happy to chat to anyone who is struggling with breast cancer 🎀 x x "
When I read things like this then I can fully understand why some men have the reputation that they gave on here. |
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By *wiggy2112Woman 3 weeks ago
some where in Yorkshire |
"I have recently had both breasts removed and this is the first time I have openly said it in the forum
I have found that some men are fickle and don't understand how I can still have pleasure without boobs ...but what they mean is how do THEY get pleasure...im found most Sundays at Pandora's where enjoy chatting to people in the spa. It's building my Confidence and if others get offended .. tuff
I'm not have construction cos I'm actually happy having none...just having one really affected my mental health...im happy to chat to anyone who is struggling with breast cancer 🎀 x x
When I read things like this then I can fully understand why some men have the reputation that they gave on here."
I really don't mind talking to anyone about it either here or privately |
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It's all about the connection for me I had a fwb last year who had been through the same thing she embraces it and had a tattoo covering and I find her just as beautifull now as I did the day I met her |
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"Well due cancer and having now had a mastectomy removal of one breast and reconstruction. I there any lady on fab had similar? and managed to get back into having a swingers lifestyle again? Are there any men/couples out there who understand and do not find it a turn off.x "
Definitely not a turn off, very much wishing you both all the best.
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I can only speak on behalf of a friend and his wife.
Poor lass was in a state. Good body. In her late 40s. Holiday soon. Bikini time. Me..yeah me probably boring the crap out of her, determined to convince her, she can wear her bikini top etc.
Well she's all good. Well. From my view.
Bound to be shit. No doubt horrible feeling. As my Uncle once said " If a fella had a spot on his face that was it. But for a woman? It's the physical look too. Well let's say she looks bloody cracking and she's smiling.
Good luck. You'll get there |
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By *sexman1Man 3 weeks ago
north oxfordshire |
I Had a very good lady friend who had both breasts off and we went to clubs and house parties and had lots of fun with people at both so do not worry if you want to play go for it and the best of luck |
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