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First Club Visit ladies advice please
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Hi Fabbers,
We are visiting our first club night in March and I (E) am already overthinking about outfits and what to wear haha.
Any ladies want to give me some advice it would be much appreciated  x |
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By *elloWoman 23 weeks ago
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I take two outfits with me to clubs.
First outfit is something I'd wear on a normal date, like a little black dress.
After a couple of hours of mingling a seeing what other people are wearing I will then go to the changing area and wear something more revealing like a body stocking or a see through nightie. |
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"We are going to the first taste event at xtasia "
xstasia isn't mandatory dress down so I would wear a sexy dress and shoes .... underneath wear some lingerie that makes you feel sexy in case of getting undressed
Always take a few essentials.... wet wipes, deodorant, hairbrush, bobble, make up, perfume and maybe a change on lingerie just in case
On Top of condoms/lube/toys !!
I always take flip flops too for when I CBA with heels or when going home
K |
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"I take two outfits with me to clubs.
First outfit is something I'd wear on a normal date, like a little black dress.
After a couple of hours of mingling a seeing what other people are wearing I will then go to the changing area and wear something more revealing like a body stocking or a see through nightie."
Amazing thank you for the advice x |
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"We are going to the first taste event at xtasia
xstasia isn't mandatory dress down so I would wear a sexy dress and shoes .... underneath wear some lingerie that makes you feel sexy in case of getting undressed
Always take a few essentials.... wet wipes, deodorant, hairbrush, bobble, make up, perfume and maybe a change on lingerie just in case
On Top of condoms/lube/toys !!
I always take flip flops too for when I CBA with heels or when going home
K"
Perfect thanks for the tips we certainly didn’t think about the essentials haha x |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Be mindful of shoes
Not every floor is even or they can get slippery
Having done my best "Bambi on ice" impression in a club before and going arse over, it was not my sexiest moment. ...
And don't be as daft as I once was and went in a brand new out of the box pair that when I put them on quickly turned into Guantanamo bay level torture.
Try before you go |
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By *elloWoman 23 weeks ago
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"Be mindful of shoes
Not every floor is even or they can get slippery
Having done my best "Bambi on ice" impression in a club before and going arse over, it was not my sexiest moment. ...
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Lol I've done that , attending a new club, during the welcome tour they said mind your step here and I said yeah ok and then whoosh I've never been down on my knees that quick before . Also another time whilst wearing cute little open toed velvet covered sandals I stepped out of the car straight into a muddle puddle  .
I wear normal shoes whilst traveling, and change into heels once there and also I bring slipons for the wet areas |
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"Hi Fabbers,
We are visiting our first club night in March and I (E) am already overthinking about outfits and what to wear haha.
Any ladies want to give me some advice it would be much appreciated x "
First depends on the club you are visiting and their dress down code . (Straight away/later outside the lounge) So that is your first thing to do -check the club website not fab
If it's a later.. then go dressed for a night out/club and then take a piece of lingerie you are comfortable in , bra and pants/baby doll/body stocking
If it's dress down straight away again just take a couple of lingerie sets
Remember if your club has a jacuzzi or sauna and you intend using then realistically you might just end up in a towel |
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"Hi Fabbers,
We are visiting our first club night in March and I (E) am already overthinking about outfits and what to wear haha.
Any ladies want to give me some advice it would be much appreciated x
First depends on the club you are visiting and their dress down code . (Straight away/later outside the lounge) So that is your first thing to do -check the club website not fab
If it's a later.. then go dressed for a night out/club and then take a piece of lingerie you are comfortable in , bra and pants/baby doll/body stocking
If it's dress down straight away again just take a couple of lingerie sets
Remember if your club has a jacuzzi or sauna and you intend using then realistically you might just end up in a towel "
Thanks for this We are going to xtasia based on all the comments it will be a nice black dress and some lingerie for later on |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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You'll be great in that. L always goes dressed up as if for a night out then dresses down later in the evening. Just wear what you feel comfortable in is the best advice I can give. |
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We started this game 6 months ago
Started out with smart casual/dress to impress to arrive in and lingerie / negligee for dress down.
J has found her happy place in the clubs and now changes into revealing /sexy outfits on arrival then dress down to very scanty lingerie.
Dont over think it. Wear something you like yourself in.
Take choices thwy have changing areas and lockers everywhere we have been
Xxx |
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By *sRedbbwWoman 23 weeks ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
We are visiting our first club night in March and I (E) am already overthinking about outfits and what to wear haha.
Any ladies want to give me some advice it would be much appreciated x "
That was one of my first times in a club too, I wore a little black dress with sexy stockings/lingerie underneath |
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"We started this game 6 months ago
Started out with smart casual/dress to impress to arrive in and lingerie / negligee for dress down.
J has found her happy place in the clubs and now changes into revealing /sexy outfits on arrival then dress down to very scanty lingerie.
Dont over think it. Wear something you like yourself in.
Take choices thwy have changing areas and lockers everywhere we have been
Xxx "
Thanks for this i think the choice are getting larger and we will most likely take a range of outfits |
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"Hi Fabbers,
We are visiting our first club night in March and I (E) am already overthinking about outfits and what to wear haha.
Any ladies want to give me some advice it would be much appreciated x
That was one of my first times in a club too, I wore a little black dress with sexy stockings/lingerie underneath"
A black dress is definitely on the list |
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By *elloWoman 22 weeks ago
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"Never been myself I have a fear of just loads a guys walking about naked with an erection haha  "
I've been going to clubs for 23 years and I can assure you it's actually very rare to see an erection unless you're watching people actually playing, most men can control themselves  |
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"Never been myself I have a fear of just loads a guys walking about naked with an erection haha
I've been going to clubs for 23 years and I can assure you it's actually very rare to see an erection unless you're watching people actually playing, most men can control themselves "
This is great advice thanks |
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