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Ladies going to clubs on their own
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I spent over 19 years going to clubs as a single female. I'd recommend it , unless an actual couple
Advertise your going, I used to often message new single female and offer to meet them at the door or bar area... and show them around, Introduce them to people etc.
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"Hello Ladies,
What are your experiences of going to clubs on your own?
I'm struggling to find a guy to go with, so I thought I might go solo. I'm in Norwich so it would be one fairly close to me.
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When I was a single fem I much preferred going alone, I was always looked after by any club and their staff very well as a single fem. If you don't know anyone in the club you can always ask the staff to introduce you to people and they will happily oblige  |
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Its liberating - you go when you want, leave when you want, change your mind about going, no obligations say if you went with a fella who may expect action, people are friendly to solo women.
The bad bits (my own personal experience) - being quizzed by the cabbie on the way home, people being pushy because you're alone, ladies can be a bit unfriendly, leaving the club safely as you're on your own.
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Mrs goes occasionally on her own to clubs she knows. She has a perfectly good time and feels safe. Likewise I'm happy with her being in clubs solo because I know she'll be safe and in good company.
I would say pick a good club and go. You'll be safe and have the total freedom to do things on your terms without having to be conscious of the needs of any partner you bring. It's true freedom.
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I’m single female in the lifestyle and I been going clubs all m my own never go with no one they use you and dump you there so past experiences have taught me go Alone and your fre do what you want not what others want you do when you with them the fear them leaving you spoils your night so I go on my own don’t have worry about no one leaving me or dumping me because am not playing with them they can’t handle rejection and they dump you |
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I’m single female in the lifestyle and I been going clubs all m my own never go with no one they use you and dump you there so past experiences have taught me go Alone and your fre do what you want not what others want you do when you with them the fear them leaving you spoils your night so I go on my own don’t have worry about no one leaving me or dumping me because am not playing with them they can’t handle rejection and they dump you |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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I prefer going by myself. I’m not dependent on anyone for what time I go, what I do there and what time I leave.
I’ve made many friends.
I’m finally coming out of hibernation this month after a long break from Fab and clubs . Very much looking forward to it 😊 |
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By *urora1912Woman 21 weeks ago
Norfolk East anglia |
"Hello Ladies,
What are your experiences of going to clubs on your own?
I'm struggling to find a guy to go with, so I thought I might go solo. I'm in Norwich so it would be one fairly close to me.
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Would you be looking to go to the annex as that's the nearest from Norwich.
Newbie night is a good option as a single female
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By *elloWoman 21 weeks ago
alpha centauri |
I prefer going on my own.
I found it more difficult to approach others when I was in a couple but as a single, especially a single woman it's really easy.
I just find a friendly looking group of about 5 or 6 couples and just walk up to them and say '_ello, I've never been here before and I'm on my own, do you mind if I talk to you?!'. That approach works a treat, couples really seem to admire the confidence. |
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