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As a single lady account on here I’m after everyone’s opinion!
If a hotel meeting is arranged with a man or a couple, who should be paying for it ?
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"If it's a man and woman then equal split.
If it's a couple and single then the couple pay 2/3rds"
We always pay the full amount when we meet a single man at a hotel. It doesn’t seem fair to ask for a contribution when we are staying the whole night and he’s leaving. |
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If the man is charging the room to business expenses I wouldn't expect to pay anything. If I was just popping in for a few hours I wouldn't expect to pay if the couple or single were staying overnight. Otherwise I would pay 50/50 with a solo and hopefully 1/3 with a couple. |
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The people staying or arranging pay, IMO. The third who is joining shouldn’t. If it’s a jointly arranged and agreed or if a higher category hotel is required the person needing the extra pays the difference. |
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"If it's a man and woman then equal split.
If it's a couple and single then the couple pay 2/3rds
We always pay the full amount when we meet a single man at a hotel. It doesn’t seem fair to ask for a contribution when we are staying the whole night and he’s leaving. "
Totally agree with this exactly what we do the reason we get a room Is so wife can have some fun in a hotel |
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If we arrange , then we pay
Then they usually offer to pay for drinks at the bar
Things change of it's a more regular meet , with someone you know
We think of it as a night out / away for us
So it's down to is to pay |
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If you book the hotel specifically for a meet between two party’s it’s fair to say a 50/50 split
I’ve been staying in certain hotels before and posted a meet but I wouldn’t ask for a donation as I was already booked |
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Depends on the meet. If they are already made arrangements to be staying in the area they have covered the cost, or they have insisted they are covering the cost. I like to contribute by buying drinks or similar in those scenarios. I have also paid or gone 50/50. |
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We always pay mainly as we’re using the room anyway if a meet happens or not. But also no pressure or expectation on us to play if the other turns out not to be what we’re looking for if they’ve made a contribution |
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"We always pay mainly as we’re using the room anyway if a meet happens or not. But also no pressure or expectation on us to play if the other turns out not to be what we’re looking for if they’ve made a contribution "
exactly that. We do the same.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single lady also
If im meeting a man he usually pays
If its a couple they pay
If im staying at the hotel inviting others i pay
Me and my fuck buddy sometimes go halves depends really |
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ive had hotel meets , ive always paid as in general after the said meet and the guests have gone i usually stay the night.
if its just a casual afternoon or evening meet ive booked paid had fun and just driven home |
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If the hotel is being specifically arranged for the meeting then I will offer to pay half and have done several times when I couldn't accommodate.
If they are here for work and getting the hotel on expenses anyway then I wouldn't offer as they won't be out of pocket. |
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Personally I think it has to do with who is taking the lead on the arrangements and if its overnight or day use.
If you're booking a day use room I think totally split the bill.
If you're staying overnight and there is no arrangement or intention for the other person/people to stay the night with you then you pay the bill. However I'd probably be a little miffed if there was no offer to contribute even though I intended to pay. If you've arranged to stay the night together that's more of a justification to split the bill.
From my experience back as a single if I was arranging I'd pay regardless of if they were staying the night or not (although they always did stay the night to be fair). Likewise when they were arranging (as also happened) I'd have no problems with them paying the bill. It just always seemed a bit uncouth to get hung up over who is paying for the room and where more than a one off it became a reciprocal thing anyways like doing rounds at the bar.
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"If it's a man and woman then equal split.
If it's a couple and single then the couple pay 2/3rds
We always pay the full amount when we meet a single man at a hotel. It doesn’t seem fair to ask for a contribution when we are staying the whole night and he’s leaving. "
Yeh we do this, it's our hotel room and we invite people.
Otherwise things get messy  |
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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago
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If 2 parties want to use a service equally, then it's reasonable to split the cost 50/50. It's not about gender but fairness.
If it's not going to be shared equally, then negotiate.
I stay in hotels and invite guests but they don't get half use, so pay nothing. I'd be happy with someone already known to get more use but I'd not entertain it with a man I didn't know.
The greater the proportion of use, the higher proportion of payment.
Some of us need to protect our security and having unknown people with full access to our bedroom 24/7 isn't a good idea always. |
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