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Aye I’m the same as most, it’s 50/ 50 if I cum from oral alone.
Absolutely love it though even if I don’t cum. And Instant rock hardness as soon as it goes in the mouth, but it’s more I prefer to cum in the pussy than in the mouth, unless there’s a reason, why waste it in her mouth. |
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"Ladies have you had guys who can't cum from oral?
Guys.... seriously now! is/are there guys who dont cum from oral alone? "
Me. In fact, apart from wanking, the ONLY way I'm likely to get off is if Char uses her flashlight/ball on me and that only works half the time at most.
Some of us are just broken and people assuming that every guy can be brought off by someone else just makes the anxiety worse.
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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I wouldn't necessarily come from every BJ I'm given, and that's not down to the woman performing oral. It would be down to me amd how I'm feeling at that particular time, have I had a stressful day am I distracted or I may just not be feeling it. But the journey is more important than the destination. |
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Nearly always cum from oral alone. The only times when hands have been used as well is when we have been rushed.
Now…. Giving oral to a man for them to cum without any other stimulus, still working that one out 😁
I will keep trying |
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The results are in...
Not everyone can or does. Seems like a split decision.
Not everyone is the same. Stimuli is different depending on who is involved etc.
Personally I don't cum from a bj it just doesn't do it for me. |
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I was reading a post elsewhere and women were saying guys say they dont/can't so new women would show them. Then other Women were saying they never met a man that didn't. So I wondered, I've had 2 guys who couldn't and other who lasted seconds. We are all different. |
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"Cant get my head round men who can't cum from a blowjob..love it me"
That last bit "love it me" says it all. What works for one person doesn't work for all.
That's like someone who loves big breasts saying I can't understand guys who like smart pert ones. You get the gist. |
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"Yes plenty can't ..too much porn .too old..dietary..health..not used to realness..gay...
list goes on on the whys...
Impatient women with halfhearted techniques….. 
Didn’t like to say lol"
Why not? Honesty is the best policy…..  |
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My first gf could make me cum from oral every time as her technique has more been matched.. spent ages working it and balls always included … but other people not so much … mix of technique and patience BUT always nice prelude to sex anyways .. |
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By *renzMan 14 weeks ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I rarely cum from oral, never have, nothing to do with age or porn etc, not for me anyway. I've always thought of it as foreplay, a lead up to the main event. I don't always cum from fucking either. It's never bothered me, but unfortunately it has some partners. Never their fault, it's just the way I am. |
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My husband can cum just as easily whether it's from a blowjob, sex or a handjob. Quute flatteringly, he comes faster with me and takes a little longer to cum with other ladies which suits us just fine! He says it's because he is much closer to me than anyone else. That's what 24 four years of marriage done right does for you.
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"My husband can cum just as easily whether it's from a blowjob, sex or a handjob. Quute flatteringly, he comes faster with me and takes a little longer to cum with other ladies which suits us just fine! He says it's because he is much closer to me than anyone else. That's what 24 four years of marriage done right does for you.
Mrs x"
Lucky Mr  |
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By *igad999Man 14 weeks ago
wolverhampton |
Treated to an impromptu one by the wife this afternoon started licking round the helmet but then full on hard sucking
Was feeling horny all morning and quickly felt the sap rising
Think about 4-5 mins and shot down the throat
Not embarrassed to say I didn’t last long it was amazing and led to a good bit of fun after |
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Rhi and I have been together for 16 years and it's only 5 years ago that I came from oral for the first time ever. Was a hell of a shock. Now she can do it every so often but no one else has managed it. |
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For me it depends on the person. I had an ex who was awsome in bed but her bj skills where terrible if she was still sucking now I’d still not cum. The only way I could come if she was sucking was if she wanked me aswell |
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The only time I couldn't was when I started taking Sertraline. Couldn't cum even from a sloppy deepthroat as I was complete devoid of any sensations of pleasure (nor depression).
With that reversed, I would last longer after drinking some alcohol.
But otherwise I will always be able to cum from a bj if I need to finish that way. |
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"Ladies have you had guys who can't cum from oral?
Guys.... seriously now! is/are there guys who dont cum from oral alone? "
No. Never.
They always say they can’t, but always do.
I wouldn’t be offended either way though. I hate receiving oral so never cum from it.
I use condoms for oral too and never struggled haha |
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I have no problem cumminhg when my wife sucks me if she plays with my nipples at the same time. If she sucks my balls that speeds the process up. We used to play with one of her friends who used to swallow my cum very time. |
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"I was thinking of organising a club night just for guys who experience this.
But I'm worried nobody would come......🤔🤷♂️"
Get the unsung Bonnie Blue hero; the solitary fluffer of over 1000 cocks. I mean; she really must be a legendary cocksucker! As long as she’s passed a recent sti test, I’d do my best to hold back (seeing as all men only say this to get their cocks sucked ) |
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"Depends on the situation, there is nothing worse than when you are really close and they stop to take breath which messes the rhythm up.  "
Or the poor women could simply die so you can cum in her mouth .. |
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I think men who can't cum from oral and women who can't cum from penetration are on similar footing and my response is always the same - You haven't yet.
Not implying I'm necessarily the person to make either of those things happen; but for everything there is a first time; and it can surprise you when you least expect it.
Lucy had never cum from penetration or squirted before we met. Now both are commonplace.
I am still a man who very rarely cums from oral with anyone else; with her, if she wants to she can make it a 5 minute deal. |
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By *over.Man 12 weeks ago
North West Travel |
I think when I was younger I used to cum from oral quite easily. Now I haven't cum from oral in years, except for when I mentally will myself to cum.
It's awesome! When I've got a partner that's up for it I can get sucked for ages and still be ready for a shag after it haha. |
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"Ladies have you had guys who can't cum from oral?
Guys.... seriously now! is/are there guys who dont cum from oral alone? "
I’ve had several guys visit my gloryhole who told me they had never cum from oral.
They all blew their load. One has since become
a regular and cums every time. Never blown a guy who can’t cum from oral. Where are these unicorns? They need saving lol. |
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By *dnxyzMan 12 weeks ago
LondonX |
"Ladies have you had guys who can't cum from oral?
Guys.... seriously now! is/are there guys who dont cum from oral alone? "
This is a serious one.. I have never cum from oral alone! ever! there is nothing more that I would like to experience than that!
I guess there are a few men like me around as well... |
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By *pandjMan 12 weeks ago
Sparkford |
"I rarely cum from oral, never have, nothing to do with age or porn etc, not for me anyway. I've always thought of it as foreplay, a lead up to the main event. I don't always cum from fucking either. It's never bothered me, but unfortunately it has some partners. Never their fault, it's just the way I am. "
Never cum from a BJ either and feel the same as this guy except I always cum from shagging unless there's a hint that she's not enjoying herself then I'll stop.
Have had two ladies off fab make me feel like I was going to blow but I really wanted to have sex with them so stopped before I exploded.
Pre being circumcised I didn't actually like it and it would make me hurt after a while. Now it's ok but nothing like the feeling of fucking someone.
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I've had it where it hasn't 'worked' for whatever reason that I'm unaware of.... possibly technique but mostly I can control when I cut from a bj to a degree.... if I'm out with someone and it's gets naughty then I can cut quite quickly other times I want to save it until she's ready to.cum also. |
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"I was reading a post elsewhere and women were saying guys say they dont/can't so new women would show them. Then other Women were saying they never met a man that didn't. So I wondered, I've had 2 guys who couldn't and other who lasted seconds. We are all different."
I have commented on many of the 173010 threads about not being able to cum from oral, but after being in here for over 13 years, I’ve only received one offer from a woman to suck me off. She is in the South East though, so I’m sure she only offered because she’s at a safe enough distance there’s no way I will ever call her bluff…..  |
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By *utualMan 12 weeks ago
Bawtry |
Reading this thread, then I guess I am very fortunate - I can always cum - always.
Oral, penetrative sex, hands, feet, boobjob, etc. There are always differences in techniques, skill levels and sexual chemistry.
Maybe it is because I always choose a partner where I have an attraction and a connection? Or maybe I am just a lucky sod? |
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By *vSaraTV/TS 12 weeks ago
manchester |
Looking at this from both sides, I've never had a man who couldn't cum from oral, most do it very quickly. But personally I find it difficult to cum from oral, it happened twice but when it's more of a hand job. No problem cuming during sex though. |
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"Looking at this from both sides, I've never had a man who couldn't cum from oral, most do it very quickly. But personally I find it difficult to cum from oral, it happened twice but when it's more of a hand job. No problem cuming during sex though."
I'm exactly the same no problems making men cum in my mouth but only ever cum in someone's mouth a couple of times in a whole life time |
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By *igad999Man 12 weeks ago
wolverhampton |
"Ladies have you had guys who can't cum from oral?
Guys.... seriously now! is/are there guys who dont cum from oral alone? "
Sometimes takes longer than normal but also I’m cut and very sensitive under the helmet.
Wife licks that and runs tongue round it and brings me to the point quickly |
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By *elix85Man 11 weeks ago
Peterborough |
Yes, I have had trouble - I think it’s in part due to my antidepressants but it’s also a mental block… I suffered greatly with PE when younger and perhaps overcompensating for it now haha… I can still come quite quickly through penetration, though.
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By *elix85Man 11 weeks ago
Peterborough |
"Ladies have you had guys who can't cum from oral?
Guys.... seriously now! is/are there guys who dont cum from oral alone?
Sometimes takes longer than normal but also I’m cut and very sensitive under the helmet.
Wife licks that and runs tongue round it and brings me to the point quickly "
I’m cut too and a lot of people (of all genders) don’t know how to apply the right pressure when sucking a circumcised dick. Sucking or wanking too hard is too overstimulating for me… not in a good way!
Funnily enough Americans are more adept - which is probably as more guys are cut there than here. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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Went to york last weekend and mrs had towel below her breasts and sat on me and started with a bj i gave her about 5 mins to which i said id stop if i was you or your mouths full. She carried on so i cum all over myself so yes bjs make me cum.
Mmmmmm the thoughts now in my head lol |
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Very rarely I will orgasm from oral alone without some other stimulation.... however that doesn't mean the sensation isn't enjoyable!
If however it is after some initially play, sex, then it's likely to happen haha... we just need warming up sometimes x |
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By *uper SaiyanMan 11 weeks ago
Birmingham (Currently in Sheffield) |
Generally I dont cum from a blowjob. I do enjoy cumming in a womans mouth, and seeing her swallow the load is amazing, but she needs to have good technique for that to happen i.e. lots of tongue while its in her mouth  |
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By *dnxyzMan 11 weeks ago
LondonX |
"Went to york last weekend and mrs had towel below her breasts and sat on me and started with a bj i gave her about 5 mins to which i said id stop if i was you or your mouths full. She carried on so i cum all over myself so yes bjs make me cum.
Mmmmmm the thoughts now in my head lol"
sounds amazing ! Wish I could try |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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Nah ive had a girl who sucked that good I couldn’t help but cum, possible the best blow job of my life, but I’ve never cum from oral since or before, I personally think it’s all down to how good the woman is |
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It's only within the last couple of years I have discovered that not all guys cum from oral. I was always very confident about my oral skills, but when it first happened, that knocked my confidence a lot. Its taking a while to understand that it's not a judgement on my skills. |
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Bizarrely I used suffer this all my life maybe once or twice I came, since we started really talking about sex and our actual sexual desires now she can my me shaking like a shitting dog in minutes, last year I came more times from her blow jobs in a month than my whole life now she loves doing it |
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I was always made to feel as though it was a chore and that they didn't enjoy it so I would tell them to not even bother.
Then I met someone who REALLY enjoyed doing it. Deep throat, varied speed, swallowing and it just became the absolute best.
As Randy from Southpark put it...
You don't give a blowjob with your mouth you give it with your heart....
Now put that heart to work!!
I took a page out of her book and now love giving them to completion, deep throat and swallowing!
She would be proud of me 😀 |
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If a BJ feels ‘ mechanical’ just going through the motions then it actually turns me off. If there is a spark of personal contact & a connection in a sensual way then a bj as part of the play can be amazing. The main turn on for meis exciting my brain before excitement of body contact |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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"Ladies have you had guys who can't cum from oral?
Guys.... seriously now! is/are there guys who dont cum from oral alone? "
I haven’t cum from oral since we first got together 27 years ago.
I always used to cum from Hotwife sucking me, until one day I caught her by surprise, a massive load shot all over her face and mouth when she wasn’t ready, it made her cry, she was 17 lol
From that day, I never cum from oral again.
Many many people have tried, but it won’t happen!!! |
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