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Very.....always the same excuse (lost my password or account got deleted) but we can't help thinking that either the partner found out, or they ended up getting banned due to their behaviour on here.
So many guys we've met once have messaged us from a new account, not even a similar name and with no photos and expect us to know who they are. They always ask for a verification and we always say no, not unless we meet then again on their new account.
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"If there was only a way you could log out and login again when you wanted.
Or even a way to make your profile hidden whilst you have a break.
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You can log out..if on phone click account and its on the bottom boxes  |
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"Does anyone find it suspicious when people keep rejoining. There are a few locals that seem to have a new profile every few months. "
Very. It's always the same ones, every few days/weeks. Almost always using the same username or slight variations of it.
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I always think it's because they get blocked a lot.
There a profile I always block as soon as I see him rejoin, due to the graphic messages he sends. He's always back on every few weeks.
Or some just join when they are horny and want a meet, I've seen that said on a few profiles before.
Who knows why, but the ones who regularly leave and rejoin a couple of weeks later, aren't for me. |
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"Some of us, like ourselves, take time out from the lifestyle and return after the break"
And that's understandable the ones I'm talking about are literally back on within a couple of days. They are on there 3rd profile this year. |
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And that's understandable the ones I'm talking about are literally back on within a couple of days. They are on there 3rd profile this year."
Totally agree with this...I wish it was like Instagram where if you block someone it's all their future profiles
There's a guy who is rejoining every few days with a new profile at the moment, blocking him is just exhausting  |
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"I don't find it suspicious.
They might have no intention of returning but circumstances change.
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There's a hide profile option that's has no time limit 
It's annoying when they message with
We spoke before/hi I'm back
Zero information
Zero photos don't actually say who they were before
They are all red flags |
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Depends what they use the site for.
I’m a single girl and don’t class myself as a “swinger” or part of the life style. So come and go as I please.
Just using it to hook up every now and then and going back to “normal” life is fine too  |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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From a personal perspective, I find that months of messaging, winking, fabbing pics being nice to people, sending compliments etc without a reply or acknowledgement a bit frustrating...So I'll delete my profile and come back at a later date and try again... |
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By *ucka39Man 13 weeks ago
Newcastle |
"If there was only a way you could log out and login again when you wanted.
Or even a way to make your profile hidden whilst you have a break.
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Use the privacy settings and hide your profile
Did you think you were trapped once joining the site 😂 no body gets out a person can log out when they decide to if you care to look by clicking account and scrolling down |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"If there was only a way you could log out and login again when you wanted.
Or even a way to make your profile hidden whilst you have a break.
Use the privacy settings and hide your profile
Did you think you were trapped once joining the site 😂 no body gets out a person can log out when they decide to if you care to look by clicking account and scrolling down "
These instructions are in Chinese... |
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By *bi HaiveMan 4 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Does anyone else have experience of someone who leaves and rejoins every single week? I'm so fed up "
If they're doing it to get around blocks then report to admin. People can come and go as they please, but if the same person is repeatedly contacting you after being blocked on a previous profile then it's worth dropping them a line. |
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Totally agree! I get messages from guys with a terrible approach to wooing me! After a while I block them as they can’t take no for an answer! Guarantee three weeks later a new profile will appear with the same corny lines! |
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We are going to have to leave and set up a new profile as the site admin has blocked us from updating our status. Been her ten years without incident as a site supporter and then this. Seems very harsh for the length of time we’ve been here and never had a problem. |
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"If there was only a way you could log out and login again when you wanted.
Or even a way to make your profile hidden whilst you have a break.
You can log out..if on phone click account and its on the bottom boxes "
I think that's sarcasm |
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Some folk take a break for whatever reason, and that we can understand having done it ourselves. However those who keep creating and deleting their profiles, or make multiple profiles, just come across as dodgy. We do our best to avoid those sorts. |
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I left and rejoin not too long ago, for some reason I didn't have full access to my account despite telling admin dozens of times to fix my profile which they never did! Couldn't post messages, or reply to posts, saw it as the only option  |
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"We are going to have to leave and set up a new profile as the site admin has blocked us from updating our status. Been her ten years without incident as a site supporter and then this. Seems very harsh for the length of time we’ve been here and never had a problem. "
Yep similar problem with ours too, admin makes our couples profiles single and won’t change it back!
Our only crime meeting as singles too! |
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There is a guy who every fortnight or so will make a new profile with the same name, same picture, same everything.
He will then wink us and send a friend request.
We have blocked him everytime but he keeps on trucking. |
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One thing I’ve noticed. A lot of the “new” members that said they are experienced and have been on here before ask you for money when you send them a message about meeting. I feel that with tough economic times alot of people are trying to use this site for a way to make money from meets |
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By *bi HaiveMan 2 days ago
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"One thing I’ve noticed. A lot of the “new” members that said they are experienced and have been on here before ask you for money when you send them a message about meeting. I feel that with tough economic times alot of people are trying to use this site for a way to make money from meets "
Report the messages. Admin will deal with them and they can't do anything if they don't know. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 2 days ago
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"We are going to have to leave and set up a new profile as the site admin has blocked us from updating our status. Been her ten years without incident as a site supporter and then this. Seems very harsh for the length of time we’ve been here and never had a problem.
Yep similar problem with ours too, admin makes our couples profiles single and won’t change it back!
Our only crime meeting as singles too!"
If people break site rules then access to some elements of the site can be restricted. It's all there in the FAQ's.
And admin don't change profiles just for the sake of it and without reason. There's never an issue with couples who also meet separately having a couples profile. The key is 'also'. If only one is meeting then yes, it's likely a profile will be adjusted. Thats why many couples will also have their own single profiles to meet apart as it stops (predominantly men) using a couples profile to meet others when there's either no partner at all or one that no longer meets. It's unfair on other site users looking to meet couples to only find one person operating a couples profile. |
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