"So I'm new to all of this, as the name suggests shy, and very nervous. Ive just started being brave and sharing pics, as im self conscious of how I look and my size.
Haven't been short of offers but as a single female it's very overwhelming. How can I get over the hurdle of meeting someone? There are lots of pushy people who get grumpy with me, despite me explaining my situation and that I have a personal life and commitments away from here.
I was supposed to meet someone this weekend but sod's law ive been very poorly.
Sorry for the long post I welcome any responses ☺️"
Welcome to the world of wonder that is swinging and Fab.
Where "you" can find exactly what (and who) "you" want.
Where to start....
If you haven't already, filters. Use them to suit exactly who and what you want.
As a single female you'll be inundated. Filters will be a huge help.
Men will do a lot to help you, unwittingly, but they have a knack of ruling themselves out. FAF messages, dick pics, etc, block button.
Any abuse, report and block. Any attempts to guilt you into meeting, block button.
Be certain of what you're looking for and stick to it. You may find what you want evolves, adjust your filters and profile to suit.
Social first. Public place, ideally somewhere you'd likely be anyway, if they no show you've not wasted your time. Let someone know where you're meeting, maybe even get a friend to call you, that gives you an excuse to bail out if you're getting bad vibes.
Try group socials, even if you're shy there'll be people there to make you feel welcome, probable introduce you to a few people.
Join in the forums, let people get a feel of who you are.
And don't rush to meet, do your due diligence, follow the veri trail can help.
Don't settle.
Be you.
Enjoy Fab, but don't take it too serious, it's supposed to be fun.
M and J
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