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Best way to exchange details in a club?
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Hey,
What are some of the best ways to exchange stuff like Fab usernames in clubs? Going back to the changing rooms to swap details feels like you're going to lose what you had in the moment.
Any other ways people use? Is there something in looking into easier for people to swap details? On that note, is there an easier way to identify/spot people you have spoken to on Fab?
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We have "business cards". Not expensive to get 250 printed and we have our phone numbers and names on one side and a QR code to our website with links to our socials and profile here in them.
We've been known to give them out in supermarkets, too 🤣
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You only have to remember part of their user name. As an example if you put "Naomi" into a user name search we show up. Personally we find it easy to find people as long of we know part of their username. |
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"You only have to remember part of their user name. As an example if you put "Naomi" into a user name search we show up. Personally we find it easy to find people as long of we know part of their username."
Some people's user names though....lost count of the number of "curious couple" names we've seen 🤣
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Normally it's just a case of getting a pen and paper from the bar. However we're terrible at losing things like bits of paper and card (as well as often items of clothing ).
Therefore it seems like the most suitable solution would be a stamp with your details on in semi-permanent ink. That way surely we won't lose them of they're stamped somewhere on our body  |
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I either usually just tell people my username or ask for theirs. If we’ve hit off and they’ve made a good impression on me, I’m highly likely to remember theirs.
If all else fails, I have business cards with my username, my couples profile and my partner’s solo profile on them. |
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"Hey,
What are some of the best ways to exchange stuff like Fab usernames in clubs? Going back to the changing rooms to swap details feels like you're going to lose what you had in the moment.
Any other ways people use? Is there something in looking into easier for people to swap details? On that note, is there an easier way to identify/spot people you have spoken to on Fab?
W (Male)"
We just usually ask bar staff for pen and paper and write our fab name down when asked for it |
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I find the best way is to hang out around the play areas in a club and openly display my penis to any couple that might pass by me.
If I then see a couple enter a playroom then i constantly try to open the locked door in the hope that they find my attention so irresistible that I’m invited into play.
If this tactic doesn’t work then I will stalk the couple all night until they come to leave the club when i follow them out to their car and beg them to exchange telephone numbers.
As you might expect, I have had very little success with ever coming anywhere close to any actual action with any people in a club…..
Can anyone help explain what I’m doing wrong. 😉 |
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I have a small pencil type case with my fab name printed on the front. A couple from fab does them and there are 3 types of bags so I bought one for my kit and another smaller one to take into the club. Most clubs are fine with these and they inspect all bags going into the dress down areas or when you arrive. In my small pencil case type bag are condoms, lube, etc. |
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We went to a social event a couple years ago and I was literally typing everyone’s usernames down in my phone of who we’d met as I’m crap at remembering and was having too much of a good time to be searching on fab at the time  |
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"We have "business cards". Not expensive to get 250 printed and we have our phone numbers and names on one side and a QR code to our website with links to our socials and profile here in them.
We've been known to give them out in supermarkets, too 🤣
You have a QR code and a website! I struggle with fab and emails lol
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"You have a QR code and a website! I struggle with fab and emails lol"
Genuinely thinking of getting the QR code tattooed on my arm then when someone wants out details they can just scan me 🤣
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"We have "business cards". Not expensive to get 250 printed and we have our phone numbers and names on one side and a QR code to our website with links to our socials and profile here in them.
We've been known to give them out in supermarkets, too 🤣
(Bry)"
I just got my link done as a QR code with some extra special additions ha ha ha but now at least I can share the image with airdrop ans they can have a look |
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"Hey,
What are some of the best ways to exchange stuff like Fab usernames in clubs? Going back to the changing rooms to swap details feels like you're going to lose what you had in the moment.
Any other ways people use? Is there something in looking into easier for people to swap details? On that note, is there an easier way to identify/spot people you have spoken to on Fab?
W (Male)"
We've printed some little cherry cards in colour to hand out as often have the issue of remembering names and keeping in contact after a visit. You can write on the back too . Must try and upload one here... |
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It is always a struggle, I have swapped fab names, FLife names before only to forget them later on, most people don't use there really names and have some obscure name, so remembering the name or spelling it to find them after is a pain. Mainly as I'm terrible with names in the best of times. |
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