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By *eebo OP Couple 10 weeks ago
basingstoke |
Looking to get back into things and the scenario Mrs C would like is to be blindfolded for a guy which would probably works best hosting at our house.
Will only meet verified people and who are willing to have a social with me first so i can get a feel for who we might be inviting into our home.
Any other advice or experiences of this and things to consider would be appreciated x |
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"Looking to get back into things and the scenario Mrs C would like is to be blindfolded for a guy which would probably works best hosting at our house.
Will only meet verified people and who are willing to have a social with me first so i can get a feel for who we might be inviting into our home.
Any other advice or experiences of this and things to consider would be appreciated x "
Only advice I have is veris mean nothing |
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By *ickD80Man 9 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
I think you’ve got everything covered there. Obviously you need to take precautions to stay safe and not invite someone to your house who you don’t know anything about so using verifications from this site and meeting them one time before hand will take away any element of risk. If someone has a verification here you can be sure they are a genuine and honest person and if they meet you and don’t act like a crazy person then you know you’re definitely safe to invite them to your house to have sex with your blindfolded wife. It would be impossible for a crazy, dangerous, perv to get past such a vigorous vetting process. |
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By *ickD80Man 9 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"Will there be anyone else in the house apart from the three of you?
What will you do it be over steps the mark with your wife and if he does how will you know?"
The man will be verified on this site and he’s going to meet him first so he will know that there’s no risk that the man will over step the mark and they will be safe with him. |
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"Looking to get back into things and the scenario Mrs C would like is to be blindfolded for a guy which would probably works best hosting at our house.
Will only meet verified people and who are willing to have a social with me first so i can get a feel for who we might be inviting into our home.
Any other advice or experiences of this and things to consider would be appreciated x
Only advice I have is veris mean nothing "
I agree. Veris just tell you it's a person. Someone could have 10 veris all saying great person but you may not get along, and i know that's why you meet before hand to gauge that but still, great verified people can still be arseholes
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"Will there be anyone else in the house apart from the three of you?
What will you do it be over steps the mark with your wife and if he does how will you know?
The man will be verified on this site and he’s going to meet him first so he will know that there’s no risk that the man will over step the mark and they will be safe with him. "
Verifications and talking with someone first does not mean that something unsafe could happen. That person could be a great talker but push their luck in the situation.
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By *eebo OP Couple 9 weeks ago
basingstoke |
Definitely some things to think about thanks.
In reality any one on one meet with another guy has the same concerns in my opinion so we don't take it lightly at all.
However many if them are true whether hosting at home or elsewhere.
We have been lucky or the right level of caution with the meets we've had so far so it's something to think very carefully about still. |
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"I think you’ve got everything covered there. Obviously you need to take precautions to stay safe and not invite someone to your house who you don’t know anything about so using verifications from this site and meeting them one time before hand will take away any element of risk. If someone has a verification here you can be sure they are a genuine and honest person and if they meet you and don’t act like a crazy person then you know you’re definitely safe to invite them to your house to have sex with your blindfolded wife. It would be impossible for a crazy, dangerous, perv to get past such a vigorous vetting process. "
Satire humour is the best. I love a guy with an IQ higher than a cheese sandwich that has a sense of humour xx
If you don’t get his point you need to understand that safety in public places is always best. So meeting in a sex club is safer than relying on your method xx
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By *jonesMan 9 weeks ago
south west |
"Looking to get back into things and the scenario Mrs C would like is to be blindfolded for a guy which would probably works best hosting at our house.
Will only meet verified people and who are willing to have a social with me first so i can get a feel for who we might be inviting into our home.
Any other advice or experiences of this and things to consider would be appreciated x
Only advice I have is veris mean nothing "
Definitely agree on the veris , tho if he has a bunch from clubs , organised socials etc you get a little comfort. Meeting him for a social , or ideally at a club will give you a good feel. |
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By *m3232Man 9 weeks ago
maidenhead |
"Looking to get back into things and the scenario Mrs C would like is to be blindfolded for a guy which would probably works best hosting at our house.
Will only meet verified people and who are willing to have a social with me first so i can get a feel for who we might be inviting into our home.
Any other advice or experiences of this and things to consider would be appreciated x "
Myself I would be happy to have a social first to show you I am not a time waster. |
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I would honestly play the long game with something like this - go to clubs/socials a few times and build up some contacts who later down the line could be ‘the guy’. It’ll give you way more peace of mind than just picking the type of guy who agrees to the type of scenario you want. |
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As others have said, verifications mean little. Aside from giving an indication if folk will actually meet for sex or not.
Veris aren't the be all and end all and it's only when you meet folk that you can get a better idea about them. Certainly not from the first meet either. We wouldn't bring folk to our home without knowing them very well that's for sure. |
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