After some help ? I have an amazing sub who will do every task I ask her to complete which is great but I’m getting worried I’ll run out of ideas that will both push her but then give her a treat for completing a difficult one ?
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Have you tried temp tattoos or anything like that.
I used to task a long distance sub with putting one on her thigh (easily hidden) in the morning before work, something like "cumslut" or "whore", then send photo every 4 hours.
Then send a video playing with her self when she gets home.
Then make the tattoo harder to hide each time etc.
Worked well. |
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Have you learnt the Gorean poses. How about setting greating protocols?
It doesn't all have to be sex related either.
Can be health related, exercise, steps or drinking less alcohol or more water.
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Why not ask her if there's any self improvement she'd like help working on? See it as a collaboration between the two of you.
Perhaps she has a strength goal, or wishes to use her phone less, have consistent bedtimes, read more, can literally be anything. The gamification of making it a task to complete for someone else can be motivating. |
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What kind of stuff is she into ?
Or what makes her a sub ?
If you find what triggers the sub in her that should help.
Control, exhibition, humiliation ?
You have done the hard bit in finding your sub the rest is all just talking and seeing what works.
I love this sort of dynamic but once you trust each other just get her feed back and work with that. |
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"Why not ask her if there's any self improvement she'd like help working on? See it as a collaboration between the two of you.
Perhaps she has a strength goal, or wishes to use her phone less, have consistent bedtimes, read more, can literally be anything. The gamification of making it a task to complete for someone else can be motivating. "
As Wonder says.
Communication is key in D/s. Working together so you both get want you need.
"Completing a challengefor someone else can be a big motivator" think about the
Punishment of failing. I use to set a challenge and if she failed I might be punished! |
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