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Have any of the guys here regretted asking to be cuckolded? Is that part of the process?
My partner is flirting with guys online and I know it is now just a mater of time. I asked for this, just nervous and second guessing... |
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We’ve been a cuckold couple for over 30 years, in reality if she hadn’t have cuckolded me over those years we’d have probably split up.
Whilst that sounds a bit like it was an ultimatum it never was, but my love for her overweighted the jealousy I had when she made it clear she wanted to cuckold me and have sex with other men.
Do I regret being a cuck, no, I’ve been lucky enough to be married to a beautiful, classy wife for over 30 years, but once you open the Pandoras Box and you allow her to cuckold you there is no going back ! |
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Been in two cuckold relationships, loved every minute of it there were two points where I initially had regret 1)when my gf wanted me in full time chastity rather than temporary and 2) when she wanted me to start pleasuring her bulls . She was right though and grew to enjoy it |
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By *DerryMan 8 weeks ago
Dublin/Derry/Belfast |
Strange to say as I’ve been with so many cuck couples but I’ve never experienced the cuck having any regret. In fact the only regret was that they didn’t let me stretch their partner sooner |
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"I certainly feel now I have asked, even that has changed the dynamic. I guess once she has sex with a guy it only goes further.
It's what wanted but I guess just nerves"
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"I certainly feel now I have asked, even that has changed the dynamic. I guess once she has sex with a guy it only goes further.
It's what wanted but I guess just nerves
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Would you mind elaborating? |
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"I certainly feel now I have asked, even that has changed the dynamic. I guess once she has sex with a guy it only goes further.
It's what wanted but I guess just nerves
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From your posts you sound anxious/unsure about this and it doesn't sound like your partner's 100% enthusiastic about it either.
It can be a world of great thrills & excitement but only if you're both emotionally ready for it otherwise it could cause more harm than good. Good luck to you both whatever you decide to do xx |
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I do want it, just a bit anxious as it gets closer I guess. Ive wanted it for 20+ years, even with previous partners.
She 100% wants it now that the idea has taken hold. When we met she hadn't much sexual experience, as she is very upper middle class and was school nerd at a prvt girls school then Oxford uni. So she very much is excited by being desired and enjoyed by other men.
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"I do want it, just a bit anxious as it gets closer I guess. Ive wanted it for 20+ years, even with previous partners.
She 100% wants it now that the idea has taken hold. When we met she hadn't much sexual experience, as she is very upper middle class and was school nerd at a prvt girls school then Oxford uni. So she very much is excited by being desired and enjoyed by other men.
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Glad to see this is progressing further. You may recognise my profile James. |
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Or the other thing is, don't put a name on it. If you fantasize about something and you want to do it, take parts of what you feel comfortable doing and embrace it. Talk about it before hand, set boundaries and explore it slowly together. It's invigorating to just enjoy sex. We as a species have made it complicated sometimes, but as adults it's a pleasure we can all enjoy. |
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Would you feel differently if it was a hotwife situation where we opposed to a cuck?
I love to watch my wife with other guys but the moment she or their play partner started to make comments which made me feel humiliated, I’d stop. |
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"Have any of the guys here regretted asking to be cuckolded? Is that part of the process?
My partner is flirting with guys online and I know it is now just a mater of time. I asked for this, just nervous and second guessing..."
Act in haste regret at leisure |
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"Have any of the guys here regretted asking to be cuckolded? Is that part of the process?
My partner is flirting with guys online and I know it is now just a mater of time. I asked for this, just nervous and second guessing..."
Be careful for what you wish for OP, I know a guy who constantly pushed his wife to meet BBC, she initially didn't want to but he was adamant in pushing her & encouraging her to do so, She eventually sucummed to her Hubbys request & guess what happened...........She Up & Left Him For A BBC  |
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"Would you feel differently if it was a hotwife situation where we opposed to a cuck?
I love to watch my wife with other guys but the moment she or their play partner started to make comments which made me feel humiliated, I’d stop."
I, sub, WANT to be humiliated while Miss is cuckolding me. |
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"Have any of the guys here regretted asking to be cuckolded? Is that part of the process?
My partner is flirting with guys online and I know it is now just a mater of time. I asked for this, just nervous and second guessing...
Be careful for what you wish for OP, I know a guy who constantly pushed his wife to meet BBC, she initially didn't want to but he was adamant in pushing her & encouraging her to do so, She eventually sucummed to her Hubbys request & guess what happened...........She Up & Left Him For A BBC "
I guess that is rare as a woman or a man that is going to cheat will
However, we started off going to a nudist beach, wife oeping up talking to nude guys then masssage then all the way - about
20 years into this and seeing on avearge about 10/15 different guys a year and we both agreeing she never met anyone more than twice- she had an affair at work. This was because she was a lot less she and able to take the lead but when push came to shove she was fearful of the family shame and apologized repeatedly and we are happy togther.
That put us both off as me being a cuk but about ten yrs later
she does agree to seeing new blokes for a nude massage intially and then makes my day by surprising me when she tels me she went all the way and we have really good sex for a few days after that
so if any couple are up for it, go for it as the risk of cheating imo is no less or greater if you are not doing 3-somes |
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Wasn't a cuck but years ago my wife started dressing in sexy clothes which turned me on and could see guys looking at her low cut tops split skirts no bra then she started getting fucked I never watched went in for about 5 years I loved it. |
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cuckold lifestyle here since i was 19 and hubs was 20 its the same with cuckold / swinging / other lifestyles if you dont talk and talk more and just rush in then its gonna fail these kkifestyles do not repair stuff both needs to be on the same page 100% other wise you just create more problems
have seen so many couples trie and fail /swinging/cuckolding that jealosy green eye monster has no place on this scene |
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If you're not jealous of your partner fucking another man then you should let a man who will be jealous be her partner.
If you weren't "unsure" or "nervous" then to me, that'd be a massive red flag about our relationship.
It's taken probably 2 years of her consistency and constant behaviour to essentially numb me to those negative feelings.
I know that she isn't going to leave me for a guy she fucks, or becotheir cock is bigger. I know this because 99.99% of the men she fucks are the polar opposite of what she desires in a partner.
Society has conditioned us to believe that sexual promiscuousness is related to disloyalty.
As long as you're strong in your relationship before you started this, enjoy the ups and downs and embrace it. |
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I think the problem fundamentally is when im horny i cant think of anything hotter than a man (and her to some extent) rubbing it in my face that im a cuckold. My worry is just how I will feel after... |
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"I think the problem fundamentally is when im horny i cant think of anything hotter than a man (and her to some extent) rubbing it in my face that im a cuckold. My worry is just how I will feel after..."
It’s a balancing act, if you love your hotwife so much that you’ll give her anything to make sure she’s happy and content you have to accept that if it’s her desire to ride other men’s cocks then you have to grin and bear it or not be together.
We have evolved for polyandry, where one woman has multiple husbands. Because of this, a woman who is forced to be in a monogamous relationship (by society’s rules that tell us she is “bad” for wanting to be with more than one man), she will always feel a desire to be with another man.
Since society doesn’t allow this, the healthiest adaptation is for her to cheat. So when a woman cheats, it’s a sign of mental and psychological health, and a healthy sexuality, and a positive thing.
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Perhaps consider both going to a Friday mixed night at a good club (Liberty Elite, Le Boudoir, VA etc). and watching, talking it through and see how you feel should you be in that position. If you’re enjoying it, invite a chap to join your lady. |
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What a fantastic post and thank you all for sharing what you have. I’m always looking for pointers to say the right thing to my wife. She gets a lot of attention when she’s out. She knows I enjoy when other guys chat her up and as you can see from my profile wearing her clothes she doesn’t know about. I would love to be a cuck husband to her and there’s so many lucky husbands and wives on this post. Thank you for sharing. Xx |
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"Have any of the guys here regretted asking to be cuckolded? Is that part of the process?
My partner is flirting with guys online and I know it is now just a mater of time. I asked for this, just nervous and second guessing..."
Just a wannabe at present. Have thought of this. But know it’s a risk that needs to accepted  |
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Got my first experience lined up.. Troy, from London, joining us at our hotel. Drinks at bar, public space, if there is chemistry and trust, he’s allowed to take her back to our room, to return her, no knickers and full if cum. He knows the score and sponsors she… excited by the scenario. Will be our first time |
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By *ayd100Man 7 weeks ago
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"Have any of the guys here regretted asking to be cuckolded? Is that part of the process?
My partner is flirting with guys online and I know it is now just a mater of time. I asked for this, just nervous and second guessing..."
get used to it |
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"I think the problem fundamentally is when im horny i cant think of anything hotter than a man (and her to some extent) rubbing it in my face that im a cuckold. My worry is just how I will feel after..."
It’s probably too late to be worried as you have set a ball rolling and even if you tell your partner you have had second thoughts, then the seed is already sewn in her mind. Maybe after 20yrs of fantasy you finally see it happen and you can deal with the consequences (if there are any). You may regret not doing it as much as you might regret doing it. |
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"I do want it, just a bit anxious as it gets closer I guess. Ive wanted it for 20+ years, even with previous partners.
She 100% wants it now that the idea has taken hold. When we met she hadn't much sexual experience, as she is very upper middle class and was school nerd at a prvt girls school then Oxford uni. So she very much is excited by being desired and enjoyed by other men.
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I was similar. Told her I wanted her to see other guys for years then she started an affair with a client. Hid it from me for a few months then told me. I said it was fine and I wanted her to continue. That was 15 years ago and she has had one offspring and regulars sinc3 then. Changed more recently as the guy she was seeing before we met got in touch. She was excited and saw him a few times just for sex. Then something changed and she started having feelings for him. Now she describes him as her boyfriend. She is open with lots of her friends about it and wants to be more open. |
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Yes you are right about it probably being too late. When we have fantasized during sex play I have already said some things I shouldn't, that emasculated me a bit in her eyes, and she told me in her mind she has already changed in terms of sexual desire for me vs other men. I guess it really is Pandora box |
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"Yes you are right about it probably being too late. When we have fantasized during sex play I have already said some things I shouldn't, that emasculated me a bit in her eyes, and she told me in her mind she has already changed in terms of sexual desire for me vs other men. I guess it really is Pandora box"
Yes that box is certainly fully open I'm sure. I'm confident I know why also |
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Thanks for sharing your views x
I shared my wife for 8/9 years and it started out as stag/vixen and evolved into full oral bi cuckolding for me and I can’t say I have regrets but I did realise she absolutely preferred bigger cock and fancied them more physically than me but our love is still as strong x
Happy to chat more privately x |
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Very much a case of being careful what you wish for ...
You have to have a solid emotionally secure relationship without hints of jealousy....in effect your entering a 3 way relationship of sorts ...
Whilst this may sound great and turn you on,the reality may chew you up ...
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By *omRachCouple 7 weeks ago
Wirral |
"Very much a case of being careful what you wish for ...
You have to have a solid emotionally secure relationship without hints of jealousy....in effect your entering a 3 way relationship of sorts ...
Whilst this may sound great and turn you on,the reality may chew you up ...
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Nail on head here!!! |
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Thank you everyone for your opinions. We are so far down the road it feels inevitable, and besides I do want it (as does she). I guess it is just last second nerves, which as she has none i guess makes me anxious |
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"Thank you everyone for your opinions. We are so far down the road it feels inevitable, and besides I do want it (as does she). I guess it is just last second nerves, which as she has none i guess makes me anxious"
Seems your fate is sealed so you need to accept your role and make the all important first step forward |
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I’m in a position with mine where I’m taking a baby step towards it, she is only allowed to do anything like that in a club and nothing beyond fondling/nipple play. If I struggle with that I know it’s not the life for me but at least it’s not gone all the way |
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I do not regret experiencing another guy with my lady but she says she feels emotional towards sexual play with another guy, as opposed to us guys enjoying sex for sex sake.
Which is causing her not to let her emotions go and enjoy the experience, again? |
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By *enelope2UWoman 7 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
"nothing better than having a wife that loves to fuck other guys and you get to watch"
Agreed!! And same for me getting to have him with other women.. their temporary joy burst is my permanent pleasure |
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"If you starting to regret it then you better stop because its not going to work if you have any doubts and it will end up in tears "
I think we would disagree with you there. The doubt is known as cuckold angst and is very common in men who are faced with having another cock stray onto their turf. The angst adds something delicious to it all in someway. The lady can sort of relish seeing this indecision in the cock she wants to cuck and for his part the cuckold gets an excitement from this 'wicked' behaviour in her. Just our opinion |
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By *imale46ukMan 7 weeks ago
chesterfield derbyshire |
Hello all you sexy people i was a cuckold for 12 yrs loved it my now x wife asked her boyfriend to live with us in my house a few weeks before 1st lock down so they was fucking most days i was a key worker after a night shift got home could her them fucking |
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"Don’t be nervous I couldn’t love my partner anymore than I do and seeing her look at me as another guy cums inside her is just impossible to describe. Go for it
This is a great reply"
I want to be kissing mine as she enjoys another man in her telling me how good he is |
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"Don’t be nervous I couldn’t love my partner anymore than I do and seeing her look at me as another guy cums inside her is just impossible to describe. Go for it"
What a great statement I just wish I knew the button to press to start my gorgeous wife up and running. I certainly wouldn’t have any regrets.  |
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I absolutely love watching Elle taking cocks - but more from a voyeuristic point of view than cuckold I guess. We generally play together in clubs, but I'm more than happy sitting back and watching her take several dicks and cum facials in a session, and maybe adding mine to the mix at the end. |
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I have no regrets for encouraging my wife to indulge my cuckold desires. We found an excellent bloke to initiate us into our cuckold journey and it lasted for a couple of years. It was an exclusive arrangement, he visited our home and took my wife away for the occasional night in a hotel, he also joined us during the occasional weekend break.
My regret is not keeping an eye on the full dynamic. The bi element was important to the man who fucked my wife. He wanted me present in the room, watching and performing cuckold duties when instructed. Over time I allowed my wife to spend too much time alone with him, in that she eventually preferred me out of the room.
The arrangement stopped suddenly because he was missing the bi element. So my mistake and regret was failing to listen to his needs as well as trying to manage my wife's needs.
Good luck to those who manage to maintain the dynamic. |
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"I have no regrets for encouraging my wife to indulge my cuckold desires. We found an excellent bloke to initiate us into our cuckold journey and it lasted for a couple of years. It was an exclusive arrangement, he visited our home and took my wife away for the occasional night in a hotel, he also joined us during the occasional weekend break.
My regret is not keeping an eye on the full dynamic. The bi element was important to the man who fucked my wife. He wanted me present in the room, watching and performing cuckold duties when instructed. Over time I allowed my wife to spend too much time alone with him, in that she eventually preferred me out of the room.
The arrangement stopped suddenly because he was missing the bi element. So my mistake and regret was failing to listen to his needs as well as trying to manage my wife's needs.
Good luck to those who manage to maintain the dynamic."
Wow, thank you for sharing your thoughts. It certainly puts things into perspective and I totally agree about the bi side of things it would be a major part indeed  |
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If you are uncertain then I wouldn’t open that door.
Being 100% sure it’s what you both want and that you are both totally secure needs to be a prerequisite.
By the fact the OP is asking doesn’t suggest the wife is the one driving this. |
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"If you are uncertain then I wouldn’t open that door.
Being 100% sure it’s what you both want and that you are both totally secure needs to be a prerequisite.
By the fact the OP is asking doesn’t suggest the wife is the one driving this."
Perhaps yes, but Paula was reluctant at the start and not driving it as such. But she absolutely blossomed and grew into it sexually. She loves preparing for her meet with her lover in front of me. The nails, dress choice, hair and makeup. She loves the freedom and sex. |
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"Got my first experience lined up.. Troy, from London, joining us at our hotel. Drinks at bar, public space, if there is chemistry and trust, he’s allowed to take her back to our room, to return her, no knickers and full if cum. He knows the score and sponsors she… excited by the scenario. Will be our first time "
I hope it goes well .. that first meet is so exciting |
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"If you are uncertain then I wouldn’t open that door.
Being 100% sure it’s what you both want and that you are both totally secure needs to be a prerequisite.
By the fact the OP is asking doesn’t suggest the wife is the one driving this.
Perhaps yes, but Paula was reluctant at the start and not driving it as such. But she absolutely blossomed and grew into it sexually. She loves preparing for her meet with her lover in front of me. The nails, dress choice, hair and makeup. She loves the freedom and sex. "
Truly amazing you certainly are a lucky husband, indeed thank you for sharing this xx |
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" Perhaps yes, but Paula was reluctant at the start and not driving it as such. But she absolutely blossomed and grew into it sexually. She loves preparing for her meet with her lover in front of me. The nails, dress choice, hair and makeup. She loves the freedom and sex. "
Our experience exactly. Seeing the lady prepare herself for another cock is one of the most intensely erotic spectacles that there is. The women, expectant of the pleasure to come, is very aroused by what her careful and intimate preparations are doing to her husbands mind/cock. Both derive an illicit thrill from it without doubt  Shaving her is a favourite of ours - being in so a close contact with the pink and pretty pussy of your lady, a pussy that you know another cock is soon to be enjoying is amazingly erotic! |
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"I don't know about regret but it's definitely a box you can't close once opened."
100% correct. My wife met a guy. Loved it. We agreed to try it again but I started to regret it so agreed it was a boxed ticked and an experience. She's cheated twice since. Thrill maybe. But be careful what you wish for.
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" Perhaps yes, but Paula was reluctant at the start and not driving it as such. But she absolutely blossomed and grew into it sexually. She loves preparing for her meet with her lover in front of me. The nails, dress choice, hair and makeup. She loves the freedom and sex.
Our experience exactly. Seeing the lady prepare herself for another cock is one of the most intensely erotic spectacles that there is. The women, expectant of the pleasure to come, is very aroused by what her careful and intimate preparations are doing to her husbands mind/cock. Both derive an illicit thrill from it without doubt Shaving her is a favourite of ours - being in so a close contact with the pink and pretty pussy of your lady, a pussy that you know another cock is soon to be enjoying is amazingly erotic! "
I love shaving My wife before a meet. The thrill of knowing the next time I see her pussy will be when another man is enjoying it. I also have to let her get dressed in private so he is the 1st to see her in her new lingerie bought especially for the meet.
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" Perhaps yes, but Paula was reluctant at the start and not driving it as such. But she absolutely blossomed and grew into it sexually. She loves preparing for her meet with her lover in front of me. The nails, dress choice, hair and makeup. She loves the freedom and sex.
Our experience exactly. Seeing the lady prepare herself for another cock is one of the most intensely erotic spectacles that there is. The women, expectant of the pleasure to come, is very aroused by what her careful and intimate preparations are doing to her husbands mind/cock. Both derive an illicit thrill from it without doubt Shaving her is a favourite of ours - being in so a close contact with the pink and pretty pussy of your lady, a pussy that you know another cock is soon to be enjoying is amazingly erotic! "
Love helping her bathe n shave, my big turn on is holding out her panties/thong for her to step into then pulling them up to cover her prepared pussy knowing another guy will soon be pulling them off |
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"Have any of the guys here regretted asking to be cuckolded? Is that part of the process?
My partner is flirting with guys online and I know it is now just a mater of time. I asked for this, just nervous and second guessing..."
Your relationship is a partnership of equals you should both agree what does and doesn’t happen. There is no such thing as no way back or unable to stop. |
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By *ubyRonCouple 6 weeks ago
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I think you need to think very carefully about it. It sounds like you're second guessing it and nothing has technically happened yet. Id potentially be ignoring all the wannabe bulls on here saying accept your fate etc and tell her you're not comfortable with it before it goes too far. |
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By *ubyRonCouple 6 weeks ago
Lancashire |
"I think you need to think very carefully about it. It sounds like you're second guessing it and nothing has technically happened yet. Id potentially be ignoring all the wannabe bulls on here saying accept your fate etc and tell her you're not comfortable with it before it goes too far."
The whole thing works on trust and you being listened to when it goes too far. If that goes out the window before the first meet then it's going to be a sad situation down the line. |
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By *olin PorterMan 5 weeks ago
Evesham Cheltenham Devon / Cornwall |
" Perhaps yes, but Paula was reluctant at the start and not driving it as such. But she absolutely blossomed and grew into it sexually. She loves preparing for her meet with her lover in front of me. The nails, dress choice, hair and makeup. She loves the freedom and sex.
Our experience exactly. Seeing the lady prepare herself for another cock is one of the most intensely erotic spectacles that there is. The women, expectant of the pleasure to come, is very aroused by what her careful and intimate preparations are doing to her husbands mind/cock. Both derive an illicit thrill from it without doubt Shaving her is a favourite of ours - being in so a close contact with the pink and pretty pussy of your lady, a pussy that you know another cock is soon to be enjoying is amazingly erotic!
I love shaving My wife before a meet. The thrill of knowing the next time I see her pussy will be when another man is enjoying it. I also have to let her get dressed in private so he is the 1st to see her in her new lingerie bought especially for the meet.
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By *olin PorterMan 5 weeks ago
Evesham Cheltenham Devon / Cornwall |
"cuckold lifestyle here since i was 19 and hubs was 20 its the same with cuckold / swinging / other lifestyles if you dont talk and talk more and just rush in then its gonna fail these kkifestyles do not repair stuff both needs to be on the same page 100% other wise you just create more problems
have seen so many couples trie and fail /swinging/cuckolding that jealosy green eye monster has no place on this scene"
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By *ickD80Man 4 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
My ex told me before our relationship started that she doesn’t want a sexual relationship and I would have to wear a cage 24/7 if i want to be with her. We discussed it all and she told me that occasionally she craves sex but when she does she’ll meet other men, she made it clear we would never have sex with each other. I entered the relationship knowing i would be her cuck and i never regretted it, i was very happy with her. |
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Well im now officially a cuckold
The guy just left. He was someone I vaguely knew so that made it easier as my mrs had also met him before, although a long time ago (was good compromise between not being stranger, and so potential weirdo, and also not a friend who we would see frequently).
I tried to take everyone's advice and not wank too hard and fast but obviously ejaculated way too quickly watching them have sex lol. The guy gently teased about it which was actually pretty hot and told me to try wanking again as he would be a while with her. And I actually managed too and cum a second time just after he did |
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It's definitely an emotional roller-coaster. Seeing another man put his penis in your wife, seeing her ride him and seeing then both climax is both horny but also churns your stomach. And it's very weird when the guy pulls out after sex. I had no idea what to do, I ended up saying thank you and shaking his hand lol |
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By *ean154Man 4 weeks ago
Salthill area |
"I certainly feel now I have asked, even that has changed the dynamic. I guess once she has sex with a guy it only goes further.
It's what wanted but I guess just nerves
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Be careful, very careful! x
Would you mind elaborating?
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From your posts you sound anxious/unsure about this and it doesn't sound like your partner's 100% enthusiastic about it either.
It can be a world of great thrills & excitement but only if you're both emotionally ready for it otherwise it could cause more harm than good. Good luck to you both whatever you decide to do xx"
Very sound and honest advice. |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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A great thread.
A wannabe stag more than a wannabe cuck here but it’s been great reading everyone’s thoughts and opinions.
Glad it happened for you, hope it does for me one day! |
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"A great thread.
A wannabe stag more than a wannabe cuck here but it’s been great reading everyone’s thoughts and opinions.
Glad it happened for you, hope it does for me one day! "
Weirdly, that lost on your profile just make me think, 'aww this guy is so into his wife' |
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"Cucks always have regrets..."
We overcame cuck regrets by the cuck arranging all the meets but not being allowed to be at the meets he arranges. That way the Wife is able to let go in the meets and not worry about the cuck seeing the Wife in action with guys and feeling threatened. The Cuck is fully ‘involved’ by simply organising his Wife’s pleasure…. |
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Im aware im very lucky to have been cuckolded, I dont want to sound ungrateful.
Its amazing that she was happy to indulge my fetish and come to find that she too enjoyed it.
But you can still question your why when you're sat on the sofa watching TV later after your mrs got shagged that morning lol |
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By *hechonkyduoCouple 4 weeks ago
Halloween Town, Dudleyish. |
"Im aware im very lucky to have been cuckolded, I dont want to sound ungrateful.
Its amazing that she was happy to indulge my fetish and come to find that she too enjoyed it.
But you can still question your why when you're sat on the sofa watching TV later after your mrs got shagged that morning lol"
Is this something you would do again OP? |
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It is something I "think" I would like to happen but like a lot of fantasies, is the reality going to match up with what I have built uo in my head?
We have had converstations (myself and my wife) and through them, due to my massive amount of lack of self confidence and anxieties, we are leaning towards my wish to be a cuck being a tool/outlet to beat myself up with rather than as a vessel of pleasure.
This site is testement that it can work but I am sure there are reationships that have broken down after trying the cuck route |
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" Is this something you would do again OP?"
Instinctively at the end of the meet the guy asked if she'd like to do it again and she agreed enthusiastically. We haven't yet talked but it seems likely. Im sure I will get used to the idea now its happened |
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Well, we have now dome it twice.
It still fears incredibly horny but when its over I still struggle with the fact it isn't what you're told growing up a normal relationship should look like, or how a man should act (but then again isn't that some of the thrill?). |
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"My ex told me before our relationship started that she doesn’t want a sexual relationship and I would have to wear a cage 24/7 if i want to be with her. We discussed it all and she told me that occasionally she craves sex but when she does she’ll meet other men, she made it clear we would never have sex with each other. I entered the relationship knowing i would be her cuck and i never regretted it, i was very happy with her. "
Pretty much the same as me and my gf BUT I told her what I was into when we met and we have never had piv sex and have been told I'll never have sex that way again. I'm locked in chastity 24/7. |
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My wifes a cuck. Didnt realise how rare it was for women to enjoy being cuck'd when we where young but she loves it (and obviously I do too).
I've enjoyed being the first for a few cuckold/hotwife couples in the past.
If there's any couples in the north east..say hi!
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"I certainly feel now I have asked, even that has changed the dynamic. I guess once she has sex with a guy it only goes further.
It's what wanted but I guess just nerves
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Be careful, very careful! x
Would you mind elaborating?
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From your posts you sound anxious/unsure about this and it doesn't sound like your partner's 100% enthusiastic about it either.
It can be a world of great thrills & excitement but only if you're both emotionally ready for it otherwise it could cause more harm than good. Good luck to you both whatever you decide to do xx"
Couldn’t agree more with this sound advice |
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"Cucks always have regrets...
We overcame cuck regrets by the cuck arranging all the meets but not being allowed to be at the meets he arranges. That way the Wife is able to let go in the meets and not worry about the cuck seeing the Wife in action with guys and feeling threatened. The Cuck is fully ‘involved’ by simply organising his Wife’s pleasure…."
I make all the arrangements for our meetings however my wife wants me there to clean up and stand in my cock cage to be humiliated |
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"Do as you are told little man ..when your wife tells you to suck her bulls cock before he enters your wife's soaking pussy ..bareback..you do it..without complaining."
You tell him faceless married man who cannot accommodate and gives no indication of being in a couple that’s honest and open. Oh wait. I misspelled Projection. My bad. Xx ms. |
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I’m a cuck and love it , I go through all the messages and profiles finding some that would interest my wife , then when she picks her next meet I set up a what’s app group between the 3 of us I’m not allowed to message can only read the messages sent between themselves , they arrange a date, then I book the hotel room ,
We will then meet the guy in the hotel bar as I watch them kiss touch feel each other in front of me , they will leave me caged at the bar , I don’t go back till he’s gone because wife can’t let herself go with me in the room ,
Sometimes I get a photo or video call while they are fucking while at the bar.
I go back once he’s gone she sits on my face takes my cage of and wanks me telling me everything I come in seconds as she humiliates me , we both love it she gets the big bbc she loves and I get the humiliation of knowing I am useless or can’t satisfy her like he has
We both still so much in love after 41 years of marriage and both love me being a pathetic cuck |
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"This went very quiet?"
Your posts in this thread are quite controlling and worrying- I’m not sure what your connection is with the OP but you’re clearly trying to make their concerns and experiences about yourself they didn’t reply to you once- so maybe back off |
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Ok so advice here please
I joined fab after I found my wife had an affair but she has shown no remorse for it if anything saying I deserve it and now I feel I’ve become a cuck (I think I’d really enjoy watching her I think it’d be like watching my favourite pornstar ) I just don’t know how to tell her I’d like to watch them together without her thinking she should leave me for him permanently |
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By *achUKMan 3 days ago
Billericay |
Every man here will say yes go for it, as it opens the gates for them. As a man, I'd say be very careful on opening the Pandora's box, yes it can give pleasure but it can also have adverse effects on your relationship especially if you are not comfortable...
Been there and will never open up to a Cuck scenario ever again... |
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Couple of regrets, mrs cheated on me and we stopped this was in our early 40's
i started sharing the mrs in our late 20's and stopped when she cheated
we started again a few years ago but just massage and one fuck
i regret not sharing my wife with more guys years ago as when she was left alone with the guy, mrs was much more comfy and sexy and then allowed me to use the bigger dildo on her
now older, i wish my wife was having more sex |
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