Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms
After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.
16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her
She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up
Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now? |
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"Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms
After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.
16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her
She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up
Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?"
Batter in. You are 2 consenting adults |
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"Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms
After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.
16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her
She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up
Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?
Batter in. You are 2 consenting adults"
Agreed |
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"Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms
After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.
16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her
She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up
Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?
Batter in. You are 2 consenting adults"
That’s my thoughts but should we keep it quiet until it gets serious? |
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"Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms
After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.
16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her
She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up
Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?"
Enough time and more has passed.
You are adults so do what you want |
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"Has your ex moved on and seen other people?
Yes, there the family connection issue but you're all grown adults capable of making your own choices and decisions on who you see.
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Yes she’s with someone else, we can’t help who we’re attracted to I guess. If there wasn’t a family connection I’d have done something about it by now but I’ve held back because of it |
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"Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms
After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.
16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her
She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up
Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?
Batter in. You are 2 consenting adults
That’s my thoughts but should we keep it quiet until it gets serious?"
Just enjoy yourself. Do you have a family who might give you stick for screwing their Aunty? |
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Don't hide it, that makes people a bit miffed.
Women quite often don't feel the same sense of ownership towards a man the men do towards women but if I were you I'd mention it to your ex wife so she's not blindsided by it. |
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I'm sure I read in here about someone who married his ex wife's sister.
Couldn't begin to advise though sorry, the horn in me is saying go for it but the normal everyday me would be advising caution. |
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"Hi, looking for advice. I split with my kids mum 16 years ago and remain on good terms
After the split there was always flirting between me and one of her sisters but nothing happened because either one of us was dating or it felt too soon.
16 years on she’s revealed she’s very much into me and I’ve revealed I’m into her
She’s moving into the area soon and wants to meet up
Is it still a no go area or has enough time passed now?"
Not at all. You don't owe anything to your Ex. If this is a genuine mutual thing it would be stupid to not explore it and see where it goes. |
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