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By (user no longer on site) OP 7 weeks ago
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Hi fabbers
I’m looking for a bit of guidance, support, or just a place to talk things through. Lately, I’ve had some thoughts and feelings around my sex life with my wife that I find difficult or even a little embarrassing to bring up with people close to me. I’m hoping to share here because I feel like I need some clarity or just someone to talk to who won’t judge.
I’m not looking to vent or overshare—just to have an honest conversation in a space where others might relate or offer some advice. Thanks in advance for the understanding.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 6 weeks ago
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I’ve been slowly opening up to my Mrs about my desires and fantasies, and while she’s been amazing so far, there are still parts of me I’m scared to share. Mainly because I don’t know how she’ll take it — and I don’t want to damage the trust we’ve built.
One of the biggest things I’m struggling with is this:
I still get strong sexual urges and kinks when I’ve used, even though she thinks I’ve stopped. Truth is, I haven’t fully — and I don’t feel like I can stop on my own. I’ve tried. I want to, but I keep slipping.
It’s hard because some of the best sex we’ve had was when we were both on something. There was a connection, a rawness, an openness. I miss that, but I don’t want to keep going down this road. I want to figure out how to get that same level of intensity and honesty without needing anything extra.
I’m not proud of hiding it. I feel guilty. But I also know I need help — both with the substance side and understanding what’s really going on with my kinks and desires.
Has anyone else been through this? How do you talk to your partner about this without wrecking everything? |
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