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By *eeman1200 OP Man 6 weeks ago
Paulton Nr Bristol |
Who’s talking with a couple last week and they were very happy to speak to me when they come online five days later they start deleting every message that I send them despite having befriended me. I don’t know what to do yet. |
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"Who’s talking with a couple last week and they were very happy to speak to me when they come online five days later they start deleting every message that I send them despite having befriended me. I don’t know what to do yet."
Do you mean they're deleting them without responding to them? If so, I hate to break it to you, but they're probably no longer interested. Maybe leave them alone for a while and come back to it at a later date? |
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"Who’s talking with a couple last week and they were very happy to speak to me when they come online five days later they start deleting every message that I send them despite having befriended me. I don’t know what to do yet."
It could also be that one of them was messaging you and the other has decided they no longer wish to. It's best to just leave it |
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"If they added as a friend ,keep them OP,may just be busy as doubtless get a lot of messages "
This is great advice but I hear your pain.
Had a couple contact me earlier this year, we exchanged a few messages then she asked to take it to wat sapp. Chatted all day on there. I couldn't believe my luck.
Told her I couldn't message the next day which was Sunday as had to go to London.
Messaged on the Monday, unread for days, left it a few days messaged her again, same again.
Tried 3 times on wsapp and 2 on here before i gave up.
I know I did nothing wrong but uve concluded they've since found someone who ticks more boxes than I do.
Tough to take but can't dwell too long. |
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"No reply or a delete is often a reply.
Don't keep messaging them, take it as a no. "
But what about them being into you and planning a meet then days later when they come online how the dynamics change? |
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"No reply or a delete is often a reply.
Don't keep messaging them, take it as a no.
But what about them being into you and planning a meet then days later when they come online how the dynamics change? "
They're not that into you any more...or they've got cold feet, or weren't what they say they are, or never intended to meet in the first place...it's complex and brutal on here sometimes |
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"Who’s talking with a couple last week and they were very happy to speak to me when they come online five days later they start deleting every message that I send them despite having befriended me. I don’t know what to do yet."
Move on, something has changed and sadly you’re not working for them anymore |
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