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Mrs agreed to soft swinging, now I'm nervous...
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By (user no longer on site) OP 50 weeks ago
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Mrs has actively shown interest and has bought up visiting a swingers club for some soft play.
I'm all for it but feel a little nervous, should I be worried? Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated |
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"Mrs has actively shown interest and has bought up visiting a swingers club for some soft play.
I'm all for it but feel a little nervous, should I be worried? Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated "
What exactly are you worried about?? |
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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"Mrs has actively shown interest and has bought up visiting a swingers club for some soft play.
I'm all for it but feel a little nervous, should I be worried? Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated "
First explain to her why you have a single guy profile. |
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"Mrs has actively shown interest and has bought up visiting a swingers club for some soft play.
I'm all for it but feel a little nervous, should I be worried? Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated
First explain to her why you have a single guy profile. "
My thoughts exactly. |
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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"Mrs has actively shown interest and has bought up visiting a swingers club for some soft play.
I'm all for it but feel a little nervous, should I be worried? Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated
First explain to her why you have a single guy profile. "
TBF to OP he does mention his partner in his profile. |
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Advice is to discuss boundaries beforehand and both agree not to overstep them.
Agree to stop immediately one of you says "stop".
Don't be afraid to ask for a five minute time out to chat to your partner.
Agree with her that if anything upsets either of you that you won't blame the other but will discuss it calmly and decide how to move forward.
At least one of you preferably both, remain 100% sober.
Never, ever take one for the team or assume you know what your partner is thinking.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 50 weeks ago
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"You really reeaallly need to have this convo with her rather than us!!! 
Totally agree with you on that one
Xx"
Have spoken to her she's absolutely fine with it |
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"You really reeaallly need to have this convo with her rather than us!!!
Totally agree with you on that one
Xx
Have spoken to her she's absolutely fine with it"
No, speak to her about your worries, not the idea in general. Tell her how you're feeling, maybe she can reassure you.
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I have had many so called soft swing meets ( all agreed beforehand) and all boundaries were adhered to, only on one occasion did the wife ask her husband if she could go further. |
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We almost visited a club for a similar aim in London, but nerves and a few bad reviews that we found put us off 
Would be genuinely interested in how you find the adventure and how the nerves work out if you do? |
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