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Ive crossdressed since my early teens and been fortunate enough to have had partners that didn’t mind and some that did. I enjoy wearing lingerie because it makes me feel nice. I would like to meet a girl for some casual friendship and fun who wouldn’t mind a man in lingerie. I know it’s a big ask but is there anyone out there who is open to the idea. |
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Hey..
Not on the market in that way but my reply is in response to the question in your title.
My husband enjoys cross dressing, or at least wearing sexy lingerie on the bottom half, maybe with a nice sheer top rather than anything with breast cups etc.
I think he looks great dressed up and find it a real turn on. Bit jealous he has better legs than me actually 😂
Personal preference for us both is that neither of us are keen on the full get up i.e makeup and wigs etc not unless the person dressing looks really feminine. But then it's nothing to do with us what another person enjoys.
I digress.
I hope you find the girl of your dreams that will love and accept you and all your quirks and kinks.
There's someone out there for everyone.
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By *enelope2UWoman 5 weeks ago
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It's a big no for me but that just makes me not your type and one less person that will lead you on or cause you resentment about what you enjoy...
Stay set on your joys and the right person will want all of you at every interval.. |
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You must be patient, i have never had a girlfriend, partner or wife that hasn’t liked it, even advertised for fun , boy who wants to be girl wants to meet girl who wants to be boy, with amazing results, even now in a long term relationship it works and if there have been one or two breakups, dressing wasn't the reason for them. |
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By *ickylouCouple 5 weeks ago
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I am very lucky as Vicky encourages me to dress. She will take me shopping or suggest charity shop days out to look for some clothes for Lou.
She does Lou’s makeup and enjoys it when we have girly days when we are away from home. I am sometimes Fully dressed and we are just pampering each other or watching a chick flick eating popcorn on the sofa.
For me when I am dressed I feel more sexy and desirable. But also more relaxed and peaceful.
I am less angry and my male brain sort of goes more soft and loving. I also feel more confident in myself.
Yes I know I have one in a million and I am in a really fortunate place. We like to play together as either Vicky and Chris. Or Vicky and Lou.
So don’t give up. There are ladies who enjoy it. Follow your dreams x
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Mrs N doesn't like me doing it but does accept it's part of me so turns a bit of a blind eye to it.
Having said that we have played occasionally with me dressed and for me it's a fantasy come true.
I am a very very lucky man but I think the key to it has been her able to trust me and secondly we communicate our needs. |
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"Hey..
Not on the market in that way but my reply is in response to the question in your title.
My husband enjoys cross dressing, or at least wearing sexy lingerie on the bottom half, maybe with a nice sheer top rather than anything with breast cups etc.
I think he looks great dressed up and find it a real turn on. Bit jealous he has better legs than me actually 😂
Personal preference for us both is that neither of us are keen on the full get up i.e makeup and wigs etc not unless the person dressing looks really feminine. But then it's nothing to do with us what another person enjoys.
I digress.
I hope you find the girl of your dreams that will love and accept you and all your quirks and kinks.
There's someone out there for everyone.
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It's the make up and wigs that transform. I've done and I'll send you the pics if you like  |
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Would this not just come down to attraction triggers ?
A straight woman who’s attracted to masculinity might not find any trigger in a cross dresser.
Worse still reject the idea of the masculine traits she would find attractive being feminised ?
I have seen a cross dresser and thought “hot” but that might be because they were very good at it and conveyed high levels of femininity so hit my attraction triggers ?
Even rarer might be a woman cross dressing as a man and a straight guy being triggered by a sudden attraction to masculinity.
I probably am massively over thinking this but good thread, it got me thinking 🤔 |
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Everyone has different tastes.
There's plenty of gorgeous women with utterly beautiful souls that are very much into gender fluidity.
There's also plenty of women (and men) that will rule out a whole category of people without seeing all of them, due to the label they have.
 Each to their own
I'll carry on with the beautiful souls of this world 🥰 |
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"Everyone has different tastes.
There's plenty of gorgeous women with utterly beautiful souls that are very much into gender fluidity.
There's also plenty of women (and men) that will rule out a whole category of people without seeing all of them, due to the label they have.
Each to their own
I'll carry on with the beautiful souls of this world 🥰"
You have some gorgeous pictures!
Donna x |
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"Everyone has different tastes.
There's plenty of gorgeous women with utterly beautiful souls that are very much into gender fluidity.
There's also plenty of women (and men) that will rule out a whole category of people without seeing all of them, due to the label they have.
Each to their own
I'll carry on with the beautiful souls of this world 🥰
You have some gorgeous pictures!
Donna x"
Thank you very much lovely 😍 x |
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"Everyone has different tastes.
There's plenty of gorgeous women with utterly beautiful souls that are very much into gender fluidity.
There's also plenty of women (and men) that will rule out a whole category of people without seeing all of them, due to the label they have.
Each to their own
I'll carry on with the beautiful souls of this world 🥰"
It's nothing to do with "labels" as far as I'm concerned. I love playing with both men and women, and have known several cross dressers,but I don't find the concept of cross dressing where one sex attempts to look like the other the slightest bit erotic or in any way commensurate with my own sexual fantasies. I'm sure there must be several sexual proclivities that don't turn you on, and it's probably nothing to do with the label they carry. |
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How many straight men would find a woman who crossdresses as a man attractive ?
As a Tgirl I shave all of my body hair off, what if she allowed hers to grow. I wear makeup and a wig, she cuts her hair short into a manly style and adds facial hair.
As time goes on wouldn’t you fear her wanting to be masculine all of the time, all of her femininity disappearing ?
Once we see it from the opposite side it’ll help to understand why a straight woman would prefer to find a ‘normal’ bloke and not have to deal with a crossdressing partner.
There are women who would accept a partner who occasionally dresses up, maybe even in time join them at social gatherings or events, but they need to know the man and trust him first before they can accept his feminine side.
Good luck with your search i truly hope you find that special person.
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By *ickylouCouple 3 weeks ago
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"How many straight men would find a woman who crossdresses as a man attractive ?
As a Tgirl I shave all of my body hair off, what if she allowed hers to grow. I wear makeup and a wig, she cuts her hair short into a manly style and adds facial hair.
As time goes on wouldn’t you fear her wanting to be masculine all of the time, all of her femininity disappearing ?
Once we see it from the opposite side it’ll help to understand why a straight woman would prefer to find a ‘normal’ bloke and not have to deal with a crossdressing partner.
There are women who would accept a partner who occasionally dresses up, maybe even in time join them at social gatherings or events, but they need to know the man and trust him first before they can accept his feminine side.
Good luck with your search i truly hope you find that special person.
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Definitely.
I am one of the lucky ones.
Lou  |
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For me I like my man to be masculine to balance my feminine, therefore a CD/TV/Trans wouldn't be for me. Each to their own. Whatever brings you joy without hurting another (unless you have permission of course). |
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"How many straight men would find a woman who crossdresses as a man attractive ?
As a Tgirl I shave all of my body hair off, what if she allowed hers to grow. I wear makeup and a wig, she cuts her hair short into a manly style and adds facial hair.
As time goes on wouldn’t you fear her wanting to be masculine all of the time, all of her femininity disappearing ?
Once we see it from the opposite side it’ll help to understand why a straight woman would prefer to find a ‘normal’ bloke and not have to deal with a crossdressing partner.
There are women who would accept a partner who occasionally dresses up, maybe even in time join them at social gatherings or events, but they need to know the man and trust him first before they can accept his feminine side.
Good luck with your search i truly hope you find that special person.
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I find a lady in a nice suit and tie, very sexy |
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