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By *hatsthestatus OP   Man 5 weeks ago

Farnborough (Visiting)

Do you guys have any advice on how to stand out from the crowd or any improvements I can make to my profile?

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By *iss KinkWoman 5 weeks ago

Up North

It’s honestly not that bad. I would look at your photos as 2 are the same. Maybe add a couple more

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By *ucka39Man 5 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

You are already standing out, good bio as for photos try making each one different

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By *ikesEmBigMan 5 weeks ago

Herts


"Do you guys have any advice on how to stand out from the crowd or any improvements I can make to my profile?"
offer 2 for 1 cake on a Tuesday

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By *hatsthestatus OP   Man 5 weeks ago

Farnborough (Visiting)

Following some really good advice, I have made some amendments. Let me know if there's anything more I should do, also thank you to all who reached out

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By *r SensualMan 5 weeks ago

London

Best way to “stand out” is to do so offline - get yourself to parties, clubs and organised socials. Let people see you’re real and not just another “profile”

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By *hatsthestatus OP   Man 5 weeks ago

Farnborough (Visiting)

I think my only issue with that is that I get anxious around too many people. I know it's a bit of a stupid thing to say but it's something I do struggle with.

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By *r SensualMan 5 weeks ago

London


"I think my only issue with that is that I get anxious around too many people. I know it's a bit of a stupid thing to say but it's something I do struggle with."

What about it would you say you struggle with?

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By *hatsthestatus OP   Man 5 weeks ago

Farnborough (Visiting)

Just large groups in general, I don't do well in crowds

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By *randMrsShebaCouple 5 weeks ago

Birmingham

I think you have a great profile and nothing needs to change.

You need to make similar profiles on other sites.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 5 weeks ago

Central

Ultimately, just a very tiny minority of people are going to be mutually compatible, so it's about a man showing who he is, so that others can decide if he's right for them.

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By *r SensualMan 5 weeks ago

London


"Just large groups in general, I don't do well in crowds"

Maybe worth looking to finding a smaller social event then? I don’t know of any in and around London where you’re based but I’m sure there’s some floating about. Or if you’re adventurous maybe look at ones further afield

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By *hatsthestatus OP   Man 5 weeks ago

Farnborough (Visiting)


"Just large groups in general, I don't do well in crowds

Maybe worth looking to finding a smaller social event then? I don’t know of any in and around London where you’re based but I’m sure there’s some floating about. Or if you’re adventurous maybe look at ones further afield "

I'm definitely open to it

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By *partharmonyCouple 5 weeks ago

Ruislip

Your profile is better than most singles men's.

I would suggest that bit of humour could help you put a bit.

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By *ickD80Man 5 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Your bio tells us that you’re easy going, you can accommodate or you can travel, you like sci-fi, you listen to all kinds of music, you can be either sub or Dom, you like oral, you don’t have a huge cock, personality is key……there’s absolutely nothing there that makes you stand out from the crowd in any way, you make yourself sound like a very middle of the road, uninteresting, unoriginal, bland man. I’m not saying that you are any of those things but that is the impression you’re giving.

Your bio already says your age and that you can accommodate and travel so you don’t need to repeat those in your bio. No one on this site cares what films or music you’re into so it’s pointless saying it, and even more pointless when you’re saying you like all music….saying you’re switch is way too vague, i’m sub and like dominate partners but i’m not suited to everyone who’s dominant as it’s such a broad ranging description. Maybe be a bit more specific about what you’re into, what specific things you’ve done and enjoyed, what specific things you want to try. Nearly everyone enjoys oral so it’s pointless saying that you do, it’s like saying i like sex or i like drinking water….personality is key for everyone, no one will meet up with someone who they’ve been chatting with and hated their personality…but different people like different personalities. Personally i like chatty, honest, funny, confident people who don’t take life too seriously and look for positives in everything but some people prefer someone who’s more reserved, cautious, serious, thinker rather than a talker etc…no one ever says ‘I’m like for someone who considers personality to be key’….people are looking for someone who’s personality matches theirs so tell us what your personality is like (saying the types of films and music you’re into isn’t describing your personality) and what personality traits you’re attracted to.

Basically, be less vague and more specific if you want to stand out from the crowd. Hope this helps…

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By *eviant-DesiresMan 5 weeks ago

Mid Cornwall


"Do you guys have any advice on how to stand out from the crowd or any improvements I can make to my profile?"

It's far from easy for single guys on here! You're profile is fine maybe the advice about more and different kinds of photos could help as well as the humour one.

My advice would be to hold on in there, keep looking and just know you are not alone!

George Clooney would struggle as a single guy on here unless he revealed his name!

Oh and lastly try not to listen too much from anyone that's been on here over a year without a single verification but seems to know it all. ☝️

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By *ucka39Man 5 weeks ago

Newcastle

Op

Try using more of the site as well don't just rely on messages,seriously explore the site

Good luck

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By *onMogsMan 5 weeks ago

Lincoln

I’m the same OP my advice given to me was to go to clubs and meet people offline. I haven’t done that yet only because of availability however, do believe that will help

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By *teveanddebsCouple 5 weeks ago

Norwich

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By *teveanddebsCouple 5 weeks ago

Norwich

Go to an organised social or club, you're then automically standing out from th other 95-97% on here.

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By *asygoingcouple1000Couple 4 weeks ago

North Manchester

Ditch the pic of the woman's arse with your dick in her.

I'll bet my life you didn't ask her permission to put it on here.

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By *DCQMan 4 weeks ago

South East


"Your bio tells us that you’re easy going, you can accommodate or you can travel, you like sci-fi, you listen to all kinds of music, you can be either sub or Dom, you like oral, you don’t have a huge cock, personality is key……there’s absolutely nothing there that makes you stand out from the crowd in any way, you make yourself sound like a very middle of the road, uninteresting, unoriginal, bland man. I’m not saying that you are any of those things but that is the impression you’re giving.

Your bio already says your age and that you can accommodate and travel so you don’t need to repeat those in your bio. No one on this site cares what films or music you’re into so it’s pointless saying it, and even more pointless when you’re saying you like all music….saying you’re switch is way too vague, i’m sub and like dominate partners but i’m not suited to everyone who’s dominant as it’s such a broad ranging description. Maybe be a bit more specific about what you’re into, what specific things you’ve done and enjoyed, what specific things you want to try. Nearly everyone enjoys oral so it’s pointless saying that you do, it’s like saying i like sex or i like drinking water….personality is key for everyone, no one will meet up with someone who they’ve been chatting with and hated their personality…but different people like different personalities. Personally i like chatty, honest, funny, confident people who don’t take life too seriously and look for positives in everything but some people prefer someone who’s more reserved, cautious, serious, thinker rather than a talker etc…no one ever says ‘I’m like for someone who considers personality to be key’….people are looking for someone who’s personality matches theirs so tell us what your personality is like (saying the types of films and music you’re into isn’t describing your personality) and what personality traits you’re attracted to.

Basically, be less vague and more specific if you want to stand out from the crowd. Hope this helps…"

Quite an unnecessarily brutal critique of this guys profile, especially from someone who hasn’t managed to meet anyone! 🤔

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By *ntelligent_tall69Man 4 weeks ago

mums cellar


"Do you guys have any advice on how to stand out from the crowd or any improvements I can make to my profile?"

The issue is everyone is looking for different things, I asked the same question and some of the advice I got was to remove stuff that had previously been the reason people HAD contacted me. At the end of the day just be yourself and accept its always going to be a lot harder on here for a guy than a girl, just as it is in real life

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