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"I seem to be struggling to get some replies, or even get like 1 or 2 messages then nothing, i am reading profiles to make sure i am there type, i send a face pic every first message, dunno what it is, conversation when they reply is flirty and flowing, but like i say a few messages then nothing, if its been a few hours and i see they have been online, i drop a hope your okay message but thats it, any advice" The profile pic might just be a bit much | |||
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"I seem to be struggling to get some replies, or even get like 1 or 2 messages then nothing, i am reading profiles to make sure i am there type, i send a face pic every first message, dunno what it is, conversation when they reply is flirty and flowing, but like i say a few messages then nothing, if its been a few hours and i see they have been online, i drop a hope your okay message but thats it, any advice" OP. That last line about not receiving a reply, seeing they’re online and then messaging again is absolutely a red flag too. I agree with the above poster that starting your profile again would be an excellent idea. The reason I don’t like single profiles sharing pics of others is to do with consent and lack of it. If you share that of someone you are more than likely to share one of me without consent too. Hope this helps 🌈 | |||
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"Have you tried having a profile pic? That would seem like a good start." He did have one, he has put all the pics into friends only as well. | |||
"Have you tried having a profile pic? That would seem like a good start. He did have one, he has put all the pics into friends only as well." That definitely isn’t going to help. | |||
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"Have you tried having a profile pic? That would seem like a good start. He did have one, he has put all the pics into friends only as well. That definitely isn’t going to help. " You obviously didn't see what was there before. Trust me, it helps. A reasonably new profile with no pictures and no verifications might get a pass if the profile text and message are good. Someone without any verifications and a gallery of his penis in women who probably don't know they're on here is a much harder no for many people I think 💜 | |||
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"I ent taking anything wrong way, i am just tweaking and taking what you lot said on bored, i have reached my limit on pics so cant do no more today, i will be taking some down, not cus of lack of consent, there is only 3 girls there, they all know, hence why i don't show there faces, actually one of them sent there gay mate one of our videos and apparently he wanked over it, that was a new one for me, the roses are red thing could do with some work, i have got better in the locker " The majority of women seeing those pictures without context will half assume that they'd become your next bit of advertising material for more pussy and not engage at all 💜 | |||
"I often wonder how that conversation goes… ‘Hello, you know those pics we took of our private sex session, do you mind if I use them to entice other women on a sex site? It’ll just be mainly your body and my cock - don’t worry, your face isn’t on show’. 🤔 K Exactly this. Or if that conversation happens at all 🤷♂️ " | |||
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"Look i wouldn't post without them knowing, the one i still see now, she knows of this and is even half interested in a threesome, the other was someone i planned to do of with or a couple profile on here with, like i say, the other one shared the video with her gay friend, i even remember saying, what if i sent it or posted it on pornhub, she said she wouldn't care cus of how good she looked vein i know " If you say so. They all claim the consent is there when questioned, but I'm well aware of people using images of me and claiming the same when it was never consented to. And if someone is only looking at you photos, they're not going to see any explanation, just women who aren't tagged. Consent arguments aside, the majority of women aren't interested in who you've fucked before. Images should be of you, the person that is trying to get their interest. Not some complete other person irrelevant to the situation 💜 | |||
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""be lucky to get ten minutes if your lucky" This line on your profile would stop me replying to your message" "Be lucky to get 10 minutes, I say try your luck" I see you have now changed your profile.  | |||
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"Think i just kinda misunderstood what fab is " What did you think it was? | |||
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"I seem to be struggling to get some replies, or even get like 1 or 2 messages then nothing, i am reading profiles to make sure i am there type, i send a face pic every first message, dunno what it is, conversation when they reply is flirty and flowing, but like i say a few messages then nothing, if its been a few hours and i see they have been online, i drop a hope your okay message but thats it, any advice" Yeah……..they don’t do that here. Welcome to your single male profile and fab 😂 | |||
"OP you have received some excellent advice on this thread. Take heed of it. Single guys are heavily outnumbered and the odds are stacked against you. Have you looked at the profiles of some of the male contributors on this thread? Perhaps you should? I recently received some advice from a lovely lady on this thread regarding my profile. Tbf she told me that my profile was good and well written but it was missing a couple of details that she would find more appealing. So I changed it. What harm can it do but listen to the advice you have been given. Rethink your approach to fab. Spelling, grammar and punctuation are also important in my opinion. You certainly couldn’t do any worse than you are, right? Good luck OP " I appreciate that mate thank you | |||
"Think i just kinda misunderstood what fab is What did you think it was?" I think he thought if he posted pics of his dick in another woman and messaged FAF we'd all drop our pants and come running. Unfortunately for him women need a bit more than that and those kind of pics are a huge turn off not a turn on. | |||
"I ent taking anything wrong way, i am just tweaking and taking what you lot said on bored, i have reached my limit on pics so cant do no more today, i will be taking some down, not cus of lack of consent, there is only 3 girls there, they all know, hence why i don't show there faces, actually one of them sent there gay mate one of our videos and apparently he wanked over it, that was a new one for me, the roses are red thing could do with some work, i have got better in the locker " You’re not understanding women, they are wonderful creatures but are incredibly self critical compared with men - minging men who don’t look after themselves, mimimum effort, look in the mirror, suck in their beer belly and think ‘yeah.. looking fucking gooood…’ No mate, you’re a pasty, unfit, unkempt, careless piece of crap with an entitled attitude. You’re not a sex god. Women look in the mirror after their entire lives being expected by society to look pretty all the time and see cellulite, big thighs, stretch marks, wrinkles, a tummy they hate.. (even though us men don’t notice, don’t care or actually find these ‘life markers’ attractive and sexy). Pictures of you ‘in action’ are a tightrope to be negotiated carefully, as women will be comparing themselves to the ‘competition’. There’s a difference between arousing and interesting and balls deep intimate snaps that are mostly just off-putting to a lot of women. There aren’t many on Fab that would find pictures of you fucking another woman a turn on and will not feel like messaging you in particular versus the hundreds of other guys in her inbox. Same goes for cock pics - just don’t unless it’s spectacular, like… pornstar quality, really handsome dick. General rule of thumb… Send one if she asks for one. I think I’ve only been asked twice for a cock pic in 7 years on Fab and I’ve got a nice one… ☺️ | |||
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"I ent taking anything wrong way, i am just tweaking and taking what you lot said on bored, i have reached my limit on pics so cant do no more today, i will be taking some down, not cus of lack of consent, there is only 3 girls there, they all know, hence why i don't show there faces, actually one of them sent there gay mate one of our videos and apparently he wanked over it, that was a new one for me, the roses are red thing could do with some work, i have got better in the locker " Ofcourse you are going to say they women in your pictures know  | |||
"OP, your profile sounds rather childish and quite generic, despite the length of it. Particularly the sentence regarding what you're here for- be more specific, be brave and specify what you're looking for. You say you like to dress up for comic con - show us the photos! The "belieber" thing I don't get, but I guess it's because we are from very different generations. Remember, though, there aren't that many women on here who are below 35, most may not understand that reference (or maybe it's just me). " Ive only been comic con once, i just wore a white top that said marvel on it, hence why i say i need new friend that will do that, yeah belieber is what they call fans of justin bieber, obv different generations, but i am aiming for around my age | |||
"OP, your profile sounds rather childish and quite generic, despite the length of it. Particularly the sentence regarding what you're here for- be more specific, be brave and specify what you're looking for. You say you like to dress up for comic con - show us the photos! The "belieber" thing I don't get, but I guess it's because we are from very different generations. Remember, though, there aren't that many women on here who are below 35, most may not understand that reference (or maybe it's just me). Ive only been comic con once, i just wore a white top that said marvel on it, hence why i say i need new friend that will do that, yeah belieber is what they call fans of justin bieber, obv different generations, but i am aiming for around my age" But your profile says looking for 18-50! | |||
"OP, your profile sounds rather childish and quite generic, despite the length of it. Particularly the sentence regarding what you're here for- be more specific, be brave and specify what you're looking for. You say you like to dress up for comic con - show us the photos! The "belieber" thing I don't get, but I guess it's because we are from very different generations. Remember, though, there aren't that many women on here who are below 35, most may not understand that reference (or maybe it's just me). Ive only been comic con once, i just wore a white top that said marvel on it, hence why i say i need new friend that will do that, yeah belieber is what they call fans of justin bieber, obv different generations, but i am aiming for around my age But your profile says looking for 18-50!" I will change that now, see working on it bit by bit I mean just cus say a 42 or 47 year old dont know or like justin bieber doesnt mean we wouldnt get along | |||
"Oh, and mentioning the celebrity reminds me of an older guy who lives near my workplace who tells anyone who wants to listen that he met Mick Jagger- that was years ago, when that guy was very young, yet he is still dining on it. It's up to you, OP, if you want to mention it on your profile." My only claim to fame, gotta milk it for what its worth | |||
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"I often wonder how that conversation goes… ‘Hello, you know those pics we took of our private sex session, do you mind if I use them to entice other women on a sex site? It’ll just be mainly your body and my cock - don’t worry, your face isn’t on show’. 🤔 K "   | |||
"If there were a few more pics we might well get in touch...." He had a few more but took them down after the replies he got. Look at the thread and you'll get the idea. | |||
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"The first lines would be an automatic “no” from us " That and the 'p.s.' line are a bit much. The rest is a significant improvement though | |||
