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By *eed999 OP Man 3 weeks ago
birmingham |
Be great if there was a little sign to let strangers know you are a fabswinger when out and about. A discteet keyring, or greeting. (Tongue out and blink three times kind of thing lol)
But seriously, be good to know when someone is as playfull as yourself? Ideas? |
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Well Char has "Hot Wife" tattooed on her upper arm, we both have upside down pineapples and I have the black ring on the right hand ring finger.
I'm often out with a t-shirt that says "CUCKOLD" or one that says "NOBODY KNOWS WE'RE SWINGERS" and yet still no-one seems to realise.
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What would it achieve to know that the person at the next self service till was on fab?
I wouldn't use a secret sign or display a swingers symbol for four reasons. I like to be discreet, I don't like being approached in person by people who I don't know, a lot of men on fab think women who are members are up for sex with anybody, anywhere and finally it would very soon become widely known what the signs are and every oddball on the no 99 bus would come and sit next to me. Wait! They do that already 🤦 |
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By *irsSubCouple 3 weeks ago
Darlington |
I think any couple or single female who has ever been in a club with a lot of single guys knows exactly why it would be a really bad idea to advertise it publicly. Id say 50% of guys don't know to act appropriately in a club, I doubt they could act appropriately out of a club. It would be a magnet for weirdos. |
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"Be great if there was a little sign to let strangers know you are a fabswinger when out and about. A discteet keyring, or greeting. (Tongue out and blink three times kind of thing lol)
But seriously, be good to know when someone is as playfull as yourself? Ideas?"
I think people would much rather be discrete in their public life. We have t/shirts we wear on beach holidays, saying “My Husband likes to watch”…. Etc. But, from here we’d rather pick and choose rather than being approached by ransoms in public |
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By *riciaWoman 3 weeks ago
Blaydon |
"What would it achieve to know that the person at the next self service till was on fab?
I wouldn't use a secret sign or display a swingers symbol for four reasons. I like to be discreet, I don't like being approached in person by people who I don't know, a lot of men on fab think women who are members are up for sex with anybody, anywhere and finally it would very soon become widely known what the signs are and every oddball on the no 99 bus would come and sit next to me. Wait! They do that already 🤦"
Absolutely this! The guy at the next check out decides to approach me because he sees my pineapple broach, or even worse, does not approach me, but decides to follow me and find out where I live.
I do think it comes down to many men thinking that because I am a swinger with a profile on Fab I am up for sex with anybody at any time. |
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By *hechonkyduoCouple 3 weeks ago
Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish. |
We have an upside down pineapple sticker on the car. Its subtle enough that nobody really knows what it is.
But having been approached by guys off here from our prior account, a nod or wink is fine but by and large out of a swinging setting we'd not want to be bothered. |
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Same as most people on this thread, I prefer to be discreet and not advertise I'm on Fab. Hence I don't even have a face pic on here, as I don't want every Tom, Dick and Harry to know exactly how I look like and think that, just because I'm on Fab, they have a right to approach me in public, when I'm out and about.
And just because I'm a swinger, it does not mean I'm up for sex anytime, with anybody. |
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