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Since I joined Fab there’s been a few encounters with women/couples, but not as many as I’d thought. Bear in mind none of these have led to anything. I was just wondering if there was any tips for a guy my age that might help get noticed. I know I’m young but surely that can’t be it?
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If people aren't looking for younger guys then there isn't a lot you can do. Most people are looking for older more experienced guys to fulfill their needs so the age can be off putting. Just reach out to people who don't have age filters, thats your best bet. |
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"Totally understand that, to be honest a lot of guys around my age aren’t very mature so it makes sense that others wouldn’t be looking for someone my age"
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"Totally understand that, to be honest a lot of guys around my age aren’t very mature so it makes sense that others wouldn’t be looking for someone my age
Hey OP. Just to say if you press reply+quote then we will know who you’re replying to on the thread.
Welcome to the forums 🌈"
Thank you, sorry I wasn’t aware.  |
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"I suppose you make a valid point, maybe I should dye my hair grey lol"
Bro, you're 20 and a good looking dude, you should be drowning in it. You don't need this place, or the effect it has on men who can't get a look in.
You should have no problem getting dates more conventional ways. |
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"Totally understand that, to be honest a lot of guys around my age aren’t very mature so it makes sense that others wouldn’t be looking for someone my age
Hey OP. Just to say if you press reply+quote then we will know who you’re replying to on the thread.
Welcome to the forums 🌈
Thank you, sorry I wasn’t aware. "
It’s no problem. We were all new once 😘 |
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"Since I joined Fab there’s been a few encounters with women/couples, but not as many as I’d thought. Bear in mind none of these have led to anything. I was just wondering if there was any tips for a guy my age that might help get noticed. I know I’m young but surely that can’t be it?
Thanks you lot"
Try and see it from the customers side... Oh and set your expectations lower than you ever imagined. It can be a bit bruising on the ego. |
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"Hey OP, are you ok for me to comment on your profile as part of this thread?
Of course, any feedback is appreciated."
Ok thanks. On your profile section you don’t say anything about you - what you’re into, what you’re looking for, what you think you can bring etc etc you just list contact info. Write about *you* the person she will meet.
It’s good you have face and body pics. Your two face pics are basically identical, if you’re feeling bold put one up from a different angle and without the hat.
Good luck! |
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"Since I joined Fab there’s been a few encounters with women/couples, but not as many as I’d thought. Bear in mind none of these have led to anything. I was just wondering if there was any tips for a guy my age that might help get noticed. I know I’m young but surely that can’t be it?
Thanks you lot"
Be careful you don't get sucked down a rabbit hole.
If you did get lots of meets you may find it difficult to transfer to a vanilla relationship when the right person comes along.
Can you imagine trying to explain to your next partner you have been out shagging anything with a pulse in the years before you met, maybe it could cause problems.
I just don't think a nice young guy like yourself needs a place like FAB.
Whatever you decide have a great journey.
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Honesty.
Hold in mind that most men of all ages struggle to get established. And that most people are not mutually compatible. Thus messages will reach dead ends.
Sell yourself and what you bring to others. Don't be whiney and ensure that your maturity is clear. |
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"I get dick itch just looking at her glazed face.
Why's it always so shiny? ..
Actually never mind
It’s got to be that new L’Oréal moisturiser surely 😉"
try not to join in discussions that denigrate or shame women for having sex..... or relate it to sti's ( she will have caught that from a man ) or imagine it's attractive to talk about her facial features or skin.
Just stick to seeking sex on here. Be awre that women on the forum read the comments you make and make decisions accordingly |
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"I get dick itch just looking at her glazed face.
Why's it always so shiny? ..
Actually never mind
It’s got to be that new L’Oréal moisturiser surely 😉
try not to join in discussions that denigrate or shame women for having sex..... or relate it to sti's ( she will have caught that from a man ) or imagine it's attractive to talk about her facial features or skin.
Just stick to seeking sex on here. Be awre that women on the forum read the comments you make and make decisions accordingly"
Also what Granny says, please don't be shaming women. |
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"I get dick itch just looking at her glazed face.
Why's it always so shiny? ..
Actually never mind
It’s got to be that new L’Oréal moisturiser surely 😉
try not to join in discussions that denigrate or shame women for having sex..... or relate it to sti's ( she will have caught that from a man ) or imagine it's attractive to talk about her facial features or skin.
Just stick to seeking sex on here. Be awre that women on the forum read the comments you make and make decisions accordingly
Also what Granny says, please don't be shaming women."
I don’t believe I did? 🤔 |
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"I get dick itch just looking at her glazed face.
Why's it always so shiny? ..
Actually never mind
It’s got to be that new L’Oréal moisturiser surely 😉
try not to join in discussions that denigrate or shame women for having sex..... or relate it to sti's ( she will have caught that from a man ) or imagine it's attractive to talk about her facial features or skin.
Just stick to seeking sex on here. Be awre that women on the forum read the comments you make and make decisions accordingly
Also what Granny says, please don't be shaming women.
I don’t believe I did? 🤔"
If you get told you did... Best just accept it |
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By *ucka39Man 3 weeks ago
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Hiya op
Tbh set your age preferences, and remember are women around your own age who use this site as well
A little intro about you, what makes you tick and what interests you sexually and none sexually and if anything you'd like to explore
Even a little scenario, little humour
Plus are women who do prefer people around your age
Once you've made steps with your bio explore the cam chat rooms as if you are good at communicating you'll pull some interest |
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"Since I joined Fab there’s been a few encounters with women/couples, but not as many as I’d thought. Bear in mind none of these have led to anything. I was just wondering if there was any tips for a guy my age that might help get noticed. I know I’m young but surely that can’t be it?
Thanks you lot"
You’re in a massively talent pool my guy. So it can literally be anything, but not particularly you, which puts someone off. Just be genuine, have chat, be honest and you’ll be fine. But don’t expect everything to happen now. |
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"I get dick itch just looking at her glazed face.
Why's it always so shiny? ..
Actually never mind
It’s got to be that new L’Oréal moisturiser surely 😉
try not to join in discussions that denigrate or shame women for having sex..... or relate it to sti's ( she will have caught that from a man ) or imagine it's attractive to talk about her facial features or skin.
Just stick to seeking sex on here. Be awre that women on the forum read the comments you make and make decisions accordingly
Also what Granny says, please don't be shaming women.
I don’t believe I did? 🤔
If you get told you did... Best just accept it"
Ermm... No he shouldn't.
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"Also what Granny says, please don't be shaming women.
I don’t believe I did? 🤔
If you get told you did... Best just accept it
Ermm... No he shouldn't.
Mr F. "
Insults, shaming, compliments and all are determined both by intent and interpretation.
He may not have intended for it to be taken that way, that doesn't mean it wasn't 💜 |
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"If people aren't looking for younger guys then there isn't a lot you can do. Most people are looking for older more experienced guys to fulfill their needs so the age can be off putting. Just reach out to people who don't have age filters, thats your best bet."
Great advice |
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"Also what Granny says, please don't be shaming women.
I don’t believe I did? 🤔
If you get told you did... Best just accept it
Ermm... No he shouldn't.
Mr F.
Insults, shaming, compliments and all are determined both by intent and interpretation.
He may not have intended for it to be taken that way, that doesn't mean it wasn't 💜"
Depends how sensitive you are I suppose? Just because you're offended by someones unintentional comments, doesn't mean you're correct!
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By *im le2Man 3 weeks ago
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"Since I joined Fab there’s been a few encounters with women/couples, but not as many as I’d thought. Bear in mind none of these have led to anything. I was just wondering if there was any tips for a guy my age that might help get noticed. I know I’m young but surely that can’t be it?
Thanks you lot"
On days you want to meet post a full body naked photo make it public so ppl can see it. Update your status at the same time letting ppl know you want to meet today. The best time to post is 7am .
No point adding photos if ppl can't see them. Your after sex they want to see what's on offer. |
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I'm 42, and I've had women who are nearly 10 years younger say I'm a bit young for them.
I look younger than I am, which as a man has always been a disadvantage, hopefully it will become and advantage soon lmfao |
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"Depends how sensitive you are I suppose? Just because you're offended by someones unintentional comments, doesn't mean you're correct!
Mr F. "
There isn't really a correct when it comes to it.
It's about both interpretation and intent.
And if several women are telling someone that they're being insulting towards women, maybe it's something they should consider as a common interpretation of their behaviour, while they're asking how to get sex with women 💜 |
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"Depends how sensitive you are I suppose? Just because you're offended by someones unintentional comments, doesn't mean you're correct!
Mr F.
There isn't really a correct when it comes to it.
It's about both interpretation and intent.
And if several women are telling someone that they're being insulting towards women, maybe it's something they should consider as a common interpretation of their behaviour, while they're asking how to get sex with women 💜"
It's also about sensitivity too. The Mrs just read that quote and didn't find it in the slightest offensive, you however did, so you're clearly more sensitive than she is toward things, again it doesn't mean you're right, that's just yours and other sensitive peoples interpretation of it.
So going back to the original comment, no people shouldn't just best accept they've done wrong, not all people think they have.
Mr F. |
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Granny's advice was correct and meant well.
Any guy hoping to understand women and eventually meet them should know that if they talk down other women on a personal level they are shooting themselves in the foot. |
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"Depends how sensitive you are I suppose? Just because you're offended by someones unintentional comments, doesn't mean you're correct!
Mr F.
There isn't really a correct when it comes to it.
It's about both interpretation and intent.
And if several women are telling someone that they're being insulting towards women, maybe it's something they should consider as a common interpretation of their behaviour, while they're asking how to get sex with women 💜
It's also about sensitivity too. The Mrs just read that quote and didn't find it in the slightest offensive, you however did, so you're clearly more sensitive than she is toward things, again it doesn't mean you're right, that's just yours and other sensitive peoples interpretation of it.
So going back to the original comment, no people shouldn't just best accept they've done wrong, not all people think they have.
Mr F. "
When did it become about right or wrong rather than tips for if OP wants to have a better chance of attracting women in general?
I don't recall expressing any feeling about the comment. Just the dismissal of effect 💜 |
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"Depends how sensitive you are I suppose? Just because you're offended by someones unintentional comments, doesn't mean you're correct!
Mr F.
There isn't really a correct when it comes to it.
It's about both interpretation and intent.
And if several women are telling someone that they're being insulting towards women, maybe it's something they should consider as a common interpretation of their behaviour, while they're asking how to get sex with women 💜
It's also about sensitivity too. The Mrs just read that quote and didn't find it in the slightest offensive, you however did, so you're clearly more sensitive than she is toward things, again it doesn't mean you're right, that's just yours and other sensitive peoples interpretation of it.
So going back to the original comment, no people shouldn't just best accept they've done wrong, not all people think they have.
Mr F.
When did it become about right or wrong rather than tips for if OP wants to have a better chance of attracting women in general?
I don't recall expressing any feeling about the comment. Just the dismissal of effect 💜"
You told the OP he was "one of those" what is 'one of those' by the way?
And someone else said "If you get told you did... Best just accept it"
No he shouldn't, he made no 'intentional deragotory comment' at all but was called out for one, so it is about being right/wrong, because you're wrong to do that in my opinion, I believe you're being over sensitive.
I'm not actually bothered what anyone thinks of me, so I call this out whenever I see it.
Mr F. |
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"You told the OP he was "one of those" what is 'one of those' by the way?
And someone else said "If you get told you did... Best just accept it"
No he shouldn't, he made no 'intentional deragotory comment' at all but was called out for one, so it is about being right/wrong, because you're wrong to do that in my opinion, I believe you're being over sensitive.
I'm not actually bothered what anyone thinks of me, so I call this out whenever I see it.
Mr F. "
Someone who makes obviously unpleasant comments then acts like they didn't. The 'it was just a joke' or 'you're too sensitive' crowd aren't my scene. You'll note I didn't say anything mean or unpleasant about it, people can be whoever they are, I simply wished good luck because it was obvious there was no advice I could give that would be useful to that mindset.
I can joke to my sex worker friends about being riddled undiscovered STIs because of the relationship we have and knowing the audience. If I said that to or about a random sex worker with who I had zero relationship, I wouldn't expect them or random strangers to find it funny, and if they told me to fuck off, I'd think that was a fair call.
As much as it sucks for those people with edgy humour or whatever they want to call it, interpretation is relevant. Check your sexual harassment policy at work if you're unsure how much intent Vs interpretation matter in various circumstances 💜 |
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"You told the OP he was "one of those" what is 'one of those' by the way?
And someone else said "If you get told you did... Best just accept it"
No he shouldn't, he made no 'intentional deragotory comment' at all but was called out for one, so it is about being right/wrong, because you're wrong to do that in my opinion, I believe you're being over sensitive.
I'm not actually bothered what anyone thinks of me, so I call this out whenever I see it.
Mr F.
Someone who makes obviously unpleasant comments then acts like they didn't. The 'it was just a joke' or 'you're too sensitive' crowd aren't my scene. You'll note I didn't say anything mean or unpleasant about it, people can be whoever they are, I simply wished good luck because it was obvious there was no advice I could give that would be useful to that mindset.
I can joke to my sex worker friends about being riddled undiscovered STIs because of the relationship we have and knowing the audience. If I said that to or about a random sex worker with who I had zero relationship, I wouldn't expect them or random strangers to find it funny, and if they told me to fuck off, I'd think that was a fair call.
As much as it sucks for those people with edgy humour or whatever they want to call it, interpretation is relevant. Check your sexual harassment policy at work if you're unsure how much intent Vs interpretation matter in various circumstances 💜"
I rest my case with your reply. This is why HR departments are getting busier and the general person going about their daily lives are hailed up in front of them allthe time.
The 'political correct brigade' on here do my nut in.
I'll take your advice next time I'm out shopping though, I won't randomly listen to anyone's conversations just to be safe, i wouldn't want to hear something i wouldn't like 👍
All the best!
Mr F. |
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Lately, for some reason I have been contacted by really young men, about your age, OP. I will engage in cjat if I am attracted and I have gone on to meet a couple of them for a social but things have fallen through.
I don’t know who you’re actually interested in - as to what your target market is, but you have to keep in mind that the great majority of women on here will be older than you.
What has put me off seeing really young guys is that they don’t accommodate and they automatically assume I will. Many of them can’t/won’t split costs for a hotel. They want risky situations- in woods, parks, cars- and whilst that can be thrilling for many, I cannot think of anything more off-putting.
Many young men are pretty much just looking for their next fuck fix. I get it. You’re wired to fuck, to spread your seed. You’re horny. But in my case for example, I am not looking for a fix. I’m looking for experiences. So that involves constant contact, a social drink etc, chats. Many chats. Many guys don’t have the patience and that is ok too! But you cannot force the other person to aquiesce to your wants and needs. I met a really young guy last week in a park for a social. He said he was really horny and needed release. I suggested he rubbed one out in a secluded area and left. 🤣 so it’s a matter of finding people who are as horny as you are and need release too, at the same time!
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"You told the OP he was "one of those" what is 'one of those' by the way?
And someone else said "If you get told you did... Best just accept it"
No he shouldn't, he made no 'intentional deragotory comment' at all but was called out for one, so it is about being right/wrong, because you're wrong to do that in my opinion, I believe you're being over sensitive.
I'm not actually bothered what anyone thinks of me, so I call this out whenever I see it.
Mr F.
Someone who makes obviously unpleasant comments then acts like they didn't. The 'it was just a joke' or 'you're too sensitive' crowd aren't my scene. You'll note I didn't say anything mean or unpleasant about it, people can be whoever they are, I simply wished good luck because it was obvious there was no advice I could give that would be useful to that mindset.
I can joke to my sex worker friends about being riddled undiscovered STIs because of the relationship we have and knowing the audience. If I said that to or about a random sex worker with who I had zero relationship, I wouldn't expect them or random strangers to find it funny, and if they told me to fuck off, I'd think that was a fair call.
As much as it sucks for those people with edgy humour or whatever they want to call it, interpretation is relevant. Check your sexual harassment policy at work if you're unsure how much intent Vs interpretation matter in various circumstances 💜"
I've just had a quick read through this young guys multiple posts and for me, as a woman, I cannot see anything whatsoever that would upset me.
I may have missed something and if so please direct me to his offending post.
This is not a criticism of your comment just curiosity.
Thanks.
Liz x |
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By *agic.MMan 3 weeks ago
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"...if only Bonnie Blue was on fab 👀
😂
The weird fascination guys have with that woman's activities speaks to have they view women imo"
Being aware of someone's activities doesn't make it a fascination...and it was just a sarcastic joke. Would you equally say a woman making a sarcastic joke about someone like Andrew Tate, having a fascination for them? 🙄 ...relax friend...no need to be that serious all the time. |
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"You told the OP he was "one of those" what is 'one of those' by the way?
And someone else said "If you get told you did... Best just accept it"
No he shouldn't, he made no 'intentional deragotory comment' at all but was called out for one, so it is about being right/wrong, because you're wrong to do that in my opinion, I believe you're being over sensitive.
I'm not actually bothered what anyone thinks of me, so I call this out whenever I see it.
Mr F.
Someone who makes obviously unpleasant comments then acts like they didn't. The 'it was just a joke' or 'you're too sensitive' crowd aren't my scene. You'll note I didn't say anything mean or unpleasant about it, people can be whoever they are, I simply wished good luck because it was obvious there was no advice I could give that would be useful to that mindset.
I can joke to my sex worker friends about being riddled undiscovered STIs because of the relationship we have and knowing the audience. If I said that to or about a random sex worker with who I had zero relationship, I wouldn't expect them or random strangers to find it funny, and if they told me to fuck off, I'd think that was a fair call.
As much as it sucks for those people with edgy humour or whatever they want to call it, interpretation is relevant. Check your sexual harassment policy at work if you're unsure how much intent Vs interpretation matter in various circumstances 💜
I've just had a quick read through this young guys multiple posts and for me, as a woman, I cannot see anything whatsoever that would upset me.
I may have missed something and if so please direct me to his offending post.
This is not a criticism of your comment just curiosity.
Thanks.
Liz x"
There isn't one, that's why you couldn't see it. |
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Well OP you have plenty of information and opinions to hand now. You can decide for yourself if you want to be sensitive to women's feelings or not.
I'm sure you can figure out what kind of behaviors will increase the pool of people that might like to have sex with you.
Going by past experiences posted by guys around your age, you are unlikely to get laid on fab through messaging alone no matter how well you tune your profile.
You could consider going to a club or an organized social event.
Personally I find day time social events to be the least intimidating.
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"...if only Bonnie Blue was on fab 👀
😂
The weird fascination guys have with that woman's activities speaks to have they view women imo"
I see a mention not so much a weird facsination but even if it is a weird fascination, whatever that may be. I'm intrigued what you think it speaks to how they view women. Someone fucking a 1000 guys in a gang bang is a little unusual at the least and probably really speaks to how they may view soneone who fucks a 1000 guys in one sitting. I'm going out on A limb but guessing not many women are doing that. |
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"Since I joined Fab there’s been a few encounters with women/couples, but not as many as I’d thought. Bear in mind none of these have led to anything."
Curious as to what you expected tho! Tbf the reality of searching for suitable casual sex partners is generally disappointing 😁 What were the encounters, why do they account to nothing? What kind of experience are you hoping to get from fab, was it something specific? The more you define your desire the easier it'd be to go after it. |
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"Since I joined Fab there’s been a few encounters with women/couples, but not as many as I’d thought. Bear in mind none of these have led to anything. I was just wondering if there was any tips for a guy my age that might help get noticed. I know I’m young but surely that can’t be it?
Thanks you lot
Be careful you don't get sucked down a rabbit hole.
If you did get lots of meets you may find it difficult to transfer to a vanilla relationship when the right person comes along.
Can you imagine trying to explain to your next partner you have been out shagging anything with a pulse in the years before you met, maybe it could cause problems.
I just don't think a nice young guy like yourself needs a place like FAB.
Whatever you decide have a great journey.
Good luck. "
Concerning approach, if you think swinging is so detrimental to one's moral character and/or life potential why are you partaking? 🤔 |
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By *ugby 123Couple 3 weeks ago
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"I get dick itch just looking at her glazed face.
Why's it always so shiny? ..
Actually never mind
It’s got to be that new L’Oréal moisturiser surely 😉
try not to join in discussions that denigrate or shame women for having sex..... or relate it to sti's ( she will have caught that from a man )
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"...if only Bonnie Blue was on fab 👀
😂
The weird fascination guys have with that woman's activities speaks to have they view women imo
I see a mention not so much a weird facsination but even if it is a weird fascination, whatever that may be. I'm intrigued what you think it speaks to how they view women. Someone fucking a 1000 guys in a gang bang is a little unusual at the least and probably really speaks to how they may view soneone who fucks a 1000 guys in one sitting. I'm going out on A limb but guessing not many women are doing that. "
Unfortunately crass jokes about the ultra promiscuous are the thin end of the wedge and yes indicative of how someone views sex in general and promiscuous sex in particular. Denigrating porn actresses and sex workers is a kind of modern-day pillory for the women seen to do "too much". While I get your point that most of us haven't done a 1000, most of us also have direct experience of being shamed for however many (or even none). Trying to evaluate the level of someone's slutphobia and whether your level of activity will be hitting their limits or not is a tedious and potentially dangerous process. |
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"...if only Bonnie Blue was on fab 👀
😂
The weird fascination guys have with that woman's activities speaks to have they view women imo
I see a mention not so much a weird facsination but even if it is a weird fascination, whatever that may be. I'm intrigued what you think it speaks to how they view women. Someone fucking a 1000 guys in a gang bang is a little unusual at the least and probably really speaks to how they may view soneone who fucks a 1000 guys in one sitting. I'm going out on A limb but guessing not many women are doing that.
Unfortunately crass jokes about the ultra promiscuous are the thin end of the wedge and yes indicative of how someone views sex in general and promiscuous sex in particular. Denigrating porn actresses and sex workers is a kind of modern-day pillory for the women seen to do "too much". While I get your point that most of us haven't done a 1000, most of us also have direct experience of being shamed for however many (or even none). Trying to evaluate the level of someone's slutphobia and whether your level of activity will be hitting their limits or not is a tedious and potentially dangerous process."
Who denigrated anyone though? I know we all see what we want to see but I didn't see anyone pilloried or any slut phobia. |
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"Since I joined Fab there’s been a few encounters with women/couples, but not as many as I’d thought. Bear in mind none of these have led to anything. I was just wondering if there was any tips for a guy my age that might help get noticed. I know I’m young but surely that can’t be it?
Thanks you lot
Be careful you don't get sucked down a rabbit hole.
If you did get lots of meets you may find it difficult to transfer to a vanilla relationship when the right person comes along.
Can you imagine trying to explain to your next partner you have been out shagging anything with a pulse in the years before you met, maybe it could cause problems.
I just don't think a nice young guy like yourself needs a place like FAB.
Whatever you decide have a great journey.
Good luck.
Concerning approach, if you think swinging is so detrimental to one's moral character and/or life potential why are you partaking? 🤔"
Is your comment directed to me, I'm getting more and more confused...
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"Since I joined Fab there’s been a few encounters with women/couples, but not as many as I’d thought. Bear in mind none of these have led to anything. I was just wondering if there was any tips for a guy my age that might help get noticed. I know I’m young but surely that can’t be it?
Thanks you lot
Be careful you don't get sucked down a rabbit hole.
If you did get lots of meets you may find it difficult to transfer to a vanilla relationship when the right person comes along.
Can you imagine trying to explain to your next partner you have been out shagging anything with a pulse in the years before you met, maybe it could cause problems.
I just don't think a nice young guy like yourself needs a place like FAB.
Whatever you decide have a great journey.
Good luck.
Concerning approach, if you think swinging is so detrimental to one's moral character and/or life potential why are you partaking? 🤔"
We love swinging, it's our secret life.
Could it create problems if family, friends or work colleagues were informed, I would think so, but rather not put it to the test, part of the fun is the secret life.
Pillars of society during the week and so on.
You say "detrimental to one's moral character" for us, don't see it that way.
The initial post was from a young man and we commented about any new vanilla girlfriend finding out about his past or present hobby could cause problems.
For us, at our age and being actively in the scene for over 25 years in all it's different forms, it's far too late for us to worry about a moral compass, it's long gone, we lost the compass and rudder many moons ago. |
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