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By *ochaMan OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Moorgate

Posting in the correct forum this time 😅

Hi all, Mocha Man aka Nick coming here in peace. ✌️

Thanks to fab, I've enjoyed some incredible meets & received a fair few verifications.

I'd be grateful if the lovely people of fab could take a few minutes to look at my profile and provide their thoughts to highlight areas for possible improvement.

I think the kind of people I'm looking for, and the things I'm into, is covered well in my profile. What could you suggest that would allow me to engage better with women & couples who are friendly, sex positive and have a nice personality?

Thanks a bunch in advance! 😘

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By *issmorganWoman 3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, the action shots put me right off I'm afraid, I didn't even read the text.

When I'm looking at a single male account, I only want to see pics of him, not the ladies he's slept with or pics of their bits.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman 3 weeks ago

Gloucester


"Hi op, the action shots put me right off I'm afraid, I didn't even read the text.

When I'm looking at a single male account, I only want to see pics of him, not the ladies he's slept with or pics of their bits. "

I second this when looking for a meet I don’t want to see others they have met with in their gallery.

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By *ogandher1962Couple 3 weeks ago

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"Hi op, the action shots put me right off I'm afraid, I didn't even read the text.

When I'm looking at a single male account, I only want to see pics of him, not the ladies he's slept with or pics of their bits.

I second this when looking for a meet I don’t want to see others they have met with in their gallery.

"

Agree entirely, mind you OP seems to bedoing ok so no idea why he's asking for a profile review. If it ain't broke....

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By *eroLondonMan 3 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...thoughts to highlight areas for possible improvement."

I would politely enquire "possible improvement" for what? What is your objective above and beyond what you've already achieved and are currently achieving? I think you're doing quite well on here and your profile serves you equally so. 🩶


"What could you suggest that would allow me to engage better with women & couples?"

You've asked for critique. I'll be candid and promise you it's not a character assassination. I read your profile. It gave me a wry smile. I don't pretend to say that I have the perfect profile and I'm not suggesting that you necessarily have an imperfect one...but my profile narrative is a million miles from yours, thankfully.

You comes across as a 'pleasure droid', effusing satisfaction guarantees, prone to hyperbole that you will do this and that to your partner. It comes across as a form of 'sexual manifesto'. Personally, I would never come across as obsequious, nor would I suggest that my partner's pleasure is paramount and above my needs. It isn't. (I'm here looking for mutually-fulfilling experiences and reciprocal sensuality and passions, on an equal level)

Those 'debatable' photographs and videos, action shots and gratuitous content: most women (not all) will find them off-putting and possibly make them reticent in engaging with anyone who has them displayed.

Without bordering into hypocrisy my profile is long but yours is garrulous to say the least. I think you could say more with fewer words and narrative. It looks cluttered.

Aside from the type/quality of people you're already meeting are you experiencing issues in engaging and meeting with a 'different' type of demographic in regards to women and couples? As I've said I think you're doing exceptionally well overall. You have a method and a particular approach and it clearly and positively works for you.

Good luck OP. 🩶🌈🩶

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