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By *ature Spice OP   Couple 2 weeks ago

Ramsbottom

What are your thoughts and emotions on the day of a meet or when you realise your wife is going to be fucked.

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By *anchesterTaurusMan 2 weeks ago

Prestwich

I don't share so I would be fuming mate

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By *entative_CuckMan 2 weeks ago

Cirencester

Excited but also hugely nervous. Turned on but sick in stomach a bit

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By *estgalwayguyMan 2 weeks ago

Galway

She's fit

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By *irsSubCouple 2 weeks ago

Darlington

For us the emotion is purely sexual excitement. If there were any negative emotions I doubt we'd do it as it's not about negative emotions for us

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By *ature Spice OP   Couple 2 weeks ago

Ramsbottom


"For us the emotion is purely sexual excitement. If there were any negative emotions I doubt we'd do it as it's not about negative emotions for us"

Correct thats how I feel, Im hard all day thinking of different scenarios of how the evening will pan out, but also hoping the guy can perform and even turns up.

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By *alley cpl 69 uCouple 2 weeks ago

Bridgend

We only ever soft swapped till our last meet. My Mrs asked his Mrs can your hubby fuck me which I didn't know about. Before I knew it she was on all fours and he was in her. It turned me on so much I took his Mrs in same position while both women were kissing. All I can say is WOW it was awesome. Claiming her back and when we got home taking her for hours both enjoying what we done. Can't wait to see and do it again. I love my Mrs with all my heart but boy we were both so horny after. So no jealousy just excitement and horny

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By *ipi2001Couple 2 weeks ago

Birmingham

See your wife having sex with others is a mix of positive and negative feeling, where the positive dominates.

Your doubts are normal as you face a new experience.

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By *um n raisinWoman 2 weeks ago

taunton


"For us the emotion is purely sexual excitement. If there were any negative emotions I doubt we'd do it as it's not about negative emotions for us"

one hundred million % this ... we live the cuckold swinging lifestyle with zero negatives zero jealousy and just 100% pure fun and yes even as a real cuckold couple where extreme humiliation to cuck is used its still 100% what we like want and get extreme pleasures from ..

ive seen over the years many couples split or disappear from the scene because they done this lifestyle for the wrong reasons like patching up sex life / marridge been jealousy or one wants more than the other these never last in swinging ... thats my take anyway

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By *irm and TenderCouple 2 weeks ago

north west


"For us the emotion is purely sexual excitement. If there were any negative emotions I doubt we'd do it as it's not about negative emotions for us

Correct thats how I feel, Im hard all day thinking of different scenarios of how the evening will pan out, but also hoping the guy can perform and even turns up. "

100% this

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By *hechonkyduoCouple 2 weeks ago

Halloween Town, Dudleyish.

Usually massively turned on because firstly watching my girl get eaten/fucked is incredibly hot and second, I'll be the other side of the spitroast.

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By *helroyCouple 2 weeks ago

Skegness

No negative for us

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By *esparate danMan 2 weeks ago

glasgow


"For us the emotion is purely sexual excitement. If there were any negative emotions I doubt we'd do it as it's not about negative emotions for us

one hundred million % this ... we live the cuckold swinging lifestyle with zero negatives zero jealousy and just 100% pure fun and yes even as a real cuckold couple where extreme humiliation to cuck is used its still 100% what we like want and get extreme pleasures from ..

ive seen over the years many couples split or disappear from the scene because they done this lifestyle for the wrong reasons like patching up sex life / marridge been jealousy or one wants more than the other these never last in swinging ... thats my take anyway

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Is it really humiliation though if it completely bypasses him and it has no effect

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple 2 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire


"I don't share so I would be fuming mate"

Have you considered that you might be on the wrong site, then?

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By *arlo56Man 2 weeks ago

Newcastle


"I don't share so I would be fuming mate

Have you considered that you might be on the wrong site, then?"

My thoughts exactly.

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By *ll 4 HerCouple 2 weeks ago

Bolton


"What are your thoughts and emotions on the day of a meet or when you realise your wife is going to be fucked. "

Thoughts are is it nearly time yet?

Emotions are horny and excited, need we say more.

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By *inkycdxxxTV/TS 2 weeks ago

wrexham

Love watching my Mrs getting fucked hard by big cocks xxx

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By *astradamossWoman 2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I don’t have a wife but if I did I’d hardly be able to contain my excitement

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple 2 weeks ago

Redditch


"I don't share so I would be fuming mate"

Is she even know you are here?

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By *neeyedwillieMan 2 weeks ago

Darlington


"I don't share so I would be fuming mate

Is she even know you are here?"

Mine knows. She shares me. Different strokes for different folks.

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By *ayd100Man 2 weeks ago

clitheroe

Fear, trepidation, excitement

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By *urious_male1982Man 2 weeks ago

aylesbury

Overall, Massive excitement. Big nerves if it’s a new guy too but if we meet the same guy a few times those go.

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By *ikerdevil2025Man 2 weeks ago

Surrey

Hoping to experience it soon

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By *um n raisinWoman 2 weeks ago

taunton


"For us the emotion is purely sexual excitement. If there were any negative emotions I doubt we'd do it as it's not about negative emotions for us

one hundred million % this ... we live the cuckold swinging lifestyle with zero negatives zero jealousy and just 100% pure fun and yes even as a real cuckold couple where extreme humiliation to cuck is used its still 100% what we like want and get extreme pleasures from ..

ive seen over the years many couples split or disappear from the scene because they done this lifestyle for the wrong reasons like patching up sex life / marridge been jealousy or one wants more than the other these never last in swinging ... thats my take anyway

Is it really humiliation though if it completely bypasses him and it has no effect "

oh trust me its a 100% humiliation as im consented to %100 to do as i please and total control of cuck as thats the lifestyle we live in real life no roleplay and yes its still posative to be in a real cuckold lifestyle and have no negative thought as we know loads of cuckold couples who are the same

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By *ootloversheff92Man 2 weeks ago

Sheffield

Very new to it but a mix of nerves and excitement

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By *otfunx1Man 2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I can't wait I know how excited she will be to meet him

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By *yeSureMan 2 weeks ago

Glasgow

It would be exciting

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By *ragsterMan 2 weeks ago

Blackburn

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By *esparate danMan 2 weeks ago

glasgow


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Is it really humiliation though if it completely bypasses him and it has no effect

oh trust me its a 100% humiliation as im consented to %100 to do as i please and total control of cuck as thats the lifestyle we live in real life no roleplay and yes its still posative to be in a real cuckold lifestyle and have no negative thought as we know loads of cuckold couples who are the same"

What?

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By *atador...Man 2 weeks ago

Aylesbury

Meeting couples I've only ever seen sexual excitement never anything negative, surely if they have got as far as inviting someone into their house that's all they are feeling

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple 2 weeks ago

West Suffolk

Mr doesn’t share me and I don’t want to be shared, we couldn’t imagine anything worse than another man with me

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By *inkyones200Couple 2 weeks ago

leeds

Mr gets very sexually excited when am about to see Hur with another love hearing hur moan as she gets taken unfortunately she has yet to see Mr with another female as most are not into just been watched as this is a massive fantasy of hurs to watch him with a female

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By *amsoonMan 7 days ago

Stornoway

Love it when she goes to his p!ace for the night, gives me space for gay sex

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By *otfunx1Man 7 days ago

Edinburgh

She squirted over me last night while using her dildo fantasizing about another man fucking her then we both sucked her dildo

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By *armandwet50Couple 7 days ago

Out of UK

A feeling of great excitement and wishing the day away till it's time to meet

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By *otandDashCouple 7 days ago

Farnham

Nervous excitement and high arousal levels .

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By *unover40Couple 7 days ago

yeovil

Nothing quite compares

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By *ickedwillyCouple 7 days ago

Bangor

Mind blowing

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By *ice_couple2012Couple 7 days ago

Leicester


"Nervous excitement and high arousal levels ."

This ^^^

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By *loscouplegl3Couple 7 days ago

Gloucester

Massive adrenaline rush! The imagination goes absolutely nuts as well.

Insanely horny

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By *ee And MikeCouple 6 days ago

Cannock

As a cuck, a mixture of emotions, from excitement to stomach churning jealousy, thoughts running through your head about how she wants and going to enjoy that other guys cock !

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By *andb69Couple 6 days ago

leeds

We started our swinging journey relatively slowly, ensuring we were both comfortable with every step we took. When it came to full swap we both felt safe and secure so it happened naturally without trauma or jealously. For us it's only ever been extremely positive, both erotic and exciting - particularly when she takes three or four guys (and me) at a time.

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By *bz biMan 6 days ago

Aberdeen

Just love the anticipation and electric atmosphere before a meet . She fucked a black guy on holiday while I sat in the bar . My cock was dripping thinking about her being fucked

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By *herrybakewellCouple 6 days ago

Staffordshire

Were slightly different. We love knowing each other are going, it is a mixture of emotions but we keep doing it.

The only thing we don't really like is watching each other.

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By *omRachCouple 5 days ago

Wirral


"Excited but also hugely nervous. Turned on but sick in stomach a bit"

Sums my feelings up perfectly.

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By *randMrsLPCouple 3 days ago

london

i wank thinking about it

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By *eacock1221Couple 3 days ago

Bedfordshire

I look forward to watching her, it's like watching your favourite porn star live.

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By *teveanddebsCouple 3 days ago

Norwich

I like seeing Debs enjoying herself.

We've never played separately so I don't know how I'd feel if we did. I think I'd find it quite horny but who knows.

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By *un couple 2Couple 3 days ago

Tynemouth.

can be very exciting for all involved, especially the build up, sitting socialising in a pub over a few drinks, knowing what may cum at the end of the evening.

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By *ilva69Man 2 days ago

stockport

Very strange feeling watching for the first time, even more so when she’s enjoying it that much your almost the forgotten party

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By *yeSureMan 2 days ago

Glasgow

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By *ifesharing coupleCouple 2 days ago

Huntingdon

A whole mix of emotions:

Arousal because it turns me on to see her be herself and be free sexually.

Anxiety - will he turn up, will they have chemistry and enjoy themselves. What part of the meet will play out in public, who will see that.

Uncertainty - what will they expect of me during the meet.

Certainty - that she loves me and I love her and we will always be together.

Overall it’s a fabulous contradiction of feelings, but ultimately one that gives us both pleasure and excitement, and deepens our love for each other.

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By *rotic_pleasureMan 2 days ago

South East

Bookmarked

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By *omRachCouple 2 days ago

Wirral

Try involving a friend, see what that then does to your brain lol

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple 23 hours ago

bedford

Get extremely horny before during and after , my erections at so much harder and love to fuck wife after she has had a good seeing too , she definately notices the difference in how hard I get

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By *ynergyMan 23 hours ago

Manchester

Experienced it last night was amazing.

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By *haron StonerTV/TS 22 hours ago

Haywards Heath


"What are your thoughts and emotions on the day of a meet or when you realise your wife is going to be fucked. "

Hope the battery on the video camera doesn't run out.

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By *i married coupleXCouple 22 hours ago

Bellshill

We had had arrangement with his couple were i met his wife and he met mine, we took vids and pics for each other. There was obvious nervous feeling must rest was pure sexual feelings and after we got back to our house after the meets we watched the vids while we were fucking, it was a night of pure wild sex. We couldn't keep our hands off each other.

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By *un couple 2Couple 22 hours ago

Tynemouth.

i wish Sam would meet guys on her own, go out on dates with them etc.

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By *estinysswingersCouple 20 hours ago

Worsley

Anxiety.

Cause if they’re shit (which sometimes/often they are) I’ll have to pick up the slack late when I’m tired.

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By *yeSureMan 16 hours ago

Glasgow

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By *olds CoupleCouple 15 hours ago

Louth Lincolnshire


"I don't share so I would be fuming mate"

That sounds hypocritical to say the least. So your saying what's yours is mine but what's mine's my own !

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By *effdelightMan 14 hours ago

Grimsby

When I've been bull for cuck couples I thought it'd bother me and I'd feel bad initially but I found myself being relentless and enjoying it even more, getting them watching up close as their wife comes on my cock. Wouldn't wanna be a cuck but it's fun on the other side

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By *estiswestMan 13 hours ago

glasgow

Arousal, jealousy

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By *andy IanMan 10 hours ago

cheshire/Preston

After many moths of talking about it my ex gf said she would try it providing the guy was a stranger and she chose him. She didn’t have a type as in tall young big cock just someone she liked the look of was comfortable with but had no physical attraction too. We had both had active sex lives before we met she told me of some of her experiences so sex with another guy wasn’t a problem but sex with another guy while in a relationship was. We chatted to a few of them on here then phone calls and finally she chose a guy to meet for a social. Although we all understood it was a no contact meet other than a hello goodbye kiss the tension was terrific. We had a good sex life but the days leading up to the meet were especially sexually active. She didn’t want to talk about what might be said or asked just see what happens. She asked me what I thought she should wear don’t know why my suggestions were dismissed straight away. She chose a fairly tight fitting dress that showed off her curves, low enough to show some cleavage and just above the knee when standing finished off with high heels. She had had her nails done in the afternoon and bought a new white bra and thong which made me laugh and say I didn’t think he was going to get to see them. Her reply she had to look and feel right if we were going to do this or we could call it off. She took ages doing her hair and makeup but I have to say she looked terrific. It was raining so she had to put a coat on then we left to meet the lucky guy. I drove us to the meet there was silence she just looked straight ahead. Her dress had ridden up showing about 6” of thigh it had certainly caught my attention and I remember thinking if she sat like that in the wine bar it would attract his too. I reached out putting my hand on her knee but was told no don’t you’ll have to wait. I did as I was told thinking to myself if she had worn the stockings or hold ups I’d suggested maybe he could see the top of them. We were early I got us a drink and we found a table in a quiet corner two chairs either side facing each other we sat together she held my hand. Are you sure about this she asked? I said I was it was only a chat nothing is going to happen I could tell she was nervous and tense very quiet. He arrived on time sending me a text message to say he was here. I told him where we were sat. He came over asked if he could get us another drink then sat down opposite us. There was no greeting kiss just a hand shake the conversation starting slow just passing time. My gf kept fidgeting pulling the hem of her dress down. I took the chance to change the subject to what we were here for. Most of the questions and answers were what we had chatted about anyway it just felt more sensual actually talking in person. Two glasses of wine in and my gf was talking more freely not as nervous her legs were crossed showing the same amount of leg as in the car. I put my hand on her leg and slid it up moving her dress higher. She tried to stop me but I told her no he wanted to see her legs. She gave in and let me flash her legs to him making him smile as he stared at her legs. I whispered to her I was going to get another round of drinks to tell him to sit next to her by the time I returned. To be sure as I stood up I nodded with my head for him to take my place a look of fear & uncertainty on my gf’s face. When I returned he was sat next to her his arm around her shoulder she had pulled her dress down again. They were chatting freely smiling the conversation was about how she was dressed and what he liked a lady to wear for him. No surprise to me his thoughts were the same as mine she laughed adding typical kinky men. Drinks finished meet over her gave her a goodbye kiss and we walked holding hands back to the car. Well? I asked. Urhmm if you want me too but get me home quick. The ride home was eventful she admitted she would like to have sex with him my hand had her dress pulled up her legs open her thing was soaking wet. We had sex the minute we got home her coat off in the hall dress on the lounge floor as I slid my trousers off and fucked her on the sofa. The build up to the actual night of sex was even more erotic, cautious, questions, doubt.

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By *ootloversheff92Man 9 hours ago

Sheffield

The biggest mix of emotions my mind is racing from start to finish

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By *otwife Snowy and MeCouple 9 hours ago

Carshalton


"I look forward to watching her, it's like watching your favourite porn star live.

"

This

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By *even15Couple 1 hour ago

Aberdeen

We can’t wait to try, hope it’s as good as we imagine it will be. Find out this weekend 😊

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By *randMrsLPCouple 1 hour ago

london


"We can’t wait to try, hope it’s as good as we imagine it will be. Find out this weekend 😊"

goodluck and how did it go

mrs was shy but when left alone she was not the first time she went all the way when i left her alone to my pleasant surprise this was close to 40 yrs ago

i find it a bigger tun on imo than the mrs - she just wants to climax after the intial shyness is over and is very shy always to start with when i am there - these days its massage and a bit more with the right bloke and attitude

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