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By *odmin53 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Bristol

Well, yes 70+ I was lucky enough to have met a fantastic lady, 25 years younger than I, yes, she had terminal cancer, but she was very sexually active, and we enjoyed a further 10 years of intense sex, before sadly Cancer won the day. We had just sampled the club scene, as we were so happy with our 1.1 sex, 3somes ffm,etc etc So after a difficult 2 years am back on Fab, have enjoyed 4 meets, 2 were recommended by my first on here as I quote, yes he is 70 but like a 50 , not my words. But am finding it difficult now as most females, and couples put 70 as age limit, thus unable to message. Also going to a club as mature single not top of list by some clubs, would love to meet a fwb female mature willing to enjoy fun and clubbing...So seriously, do I keep trying or hang up my underwear, I am mobile willing to travel

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By *icecouple561Couple 2 weeks ago
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East Sussex

Keep trying I'd say but accept graciously that those of us in our late sixties and 70s are not as popular as younger people. It's the natural order of things

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By *odmin53 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Bristol

Thanks, oh well, keep at it might be the order of things,. He says hopefully.cheers

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple 2 weeks ago

Watford

Interesting discussion as we are now in our early sixties and just wouldn't feel right at a swinger night club type place, so we've migrated over to the naturist scene which has a much older demographic.

Places like Silverleigh and Eureka are still very much visited by the older age group, and we definitely aren't always the oldest people there, so maybe the answer is to get into the naturist scene.

We've had quite a bit of fun at both of those places!

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple 2 weeks ago

Watford

Oh, and there are parties advertised on here with older groups, so that's another option!

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By *lice AgainTV/TS 2 weeks ago

Bristol

I have a friend on here who I meet who's 72. These meets are never boring...

My new regular guy is 65.

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By *avrick180Man 2 weeks ago

Pontypool

I would not say that mate as I'm 53 been on here for 6 years and only had one meet so I would not say it's a age thing it's just people

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By *eakgent53Man 2 weeks ago

Buxton

Well I've just been looking at the photos on here and wow , don't put yourselves down at all as your pics are amazing , look so sexy , if I was at a club I know where I would be looking ,

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple 2 weeks ago

Middle England


"Interesting discussion as we are now in our early sixties and just wouldn't feel right at a swinger night club type place, so we've migrated over to the naturist scene which has a much older demographic.

Places like Silverleigh and Eureka are still very much visited by the older age group, and we definitely aren't always the oldest people there, so maybe the answer is to get into the naturist scene.

We've had quite a bit of fun at both of those places!"

In our 60s now. We only go to clubs and so far it's not even an issue. Age doesn't really come up in conversation. Mrs still gets plenty of compliments and attention.

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By *tacie-JaneTV/TS 2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Turned 60 last year and I continue to enjoy myself here…don’t give up…🙂

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By *shford_5Man 2 weeks ago

Ashford

Most definitely not. There are many who absolutely love more mature people

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By *ature bi masseurMan 2 weeks ago

London and elsewhere

I'm mature and having more and more fun at clubs and meets.

It's all to do with attitude.

Enjoy.

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By *igoldbobMan 2 weeks ago

Wantage

Not missed the boat yet. There are a fair few willing to play on here. I have a couple of prospects I'm talking to at he moment. You will be fine at a club like Chams. No one really bothers about age.

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By *issmorganWoman 2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Whatever age milestone you reach, you'll be filtered out to some ladies and couples age filters.

I don't meet anyone too young either,but that doesn't mean you won't still appeal to some people.

Get to a club if you can, as others said, age seems to be less of a barrier there.

Good luck.

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By *odmin53 OP   Man 2 weeks ago

Bristol

Yes , thanks all, will definitely try clubs, ,

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By *reenline49Man 2 weeks ago

Southam

Age is just a number. Enjoy life whilst you can!

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By *ace400Man 2 weeks ago

Ballyhaunis

I’m 55 and finding it hard to meet anyone. I’m reserved, not know what to say in the first message without sounding rude or stupid is one of the big things for me.

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By *oppingcanMan 2 weeks ago

Stockport

Keep trying mate i've been on here over a year not one reply or message and im 30 years younger then you

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By *ee And MikeCouple 2 weeks ago

Cannock

Depends on the lady or the couple, some like the experienced older male that is respectful and knows how to pleasure a lady.

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By *allipygousMan 2 weeks ago

Leicester

For a single man age certainly does plays a part but it's also depends on how well maintained you are and what your overall vibe is.

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By *ilverfox for youMan 2 weeks ago

Hull

I think once we get past 60 we become invisible on here !!! Very few women into older guys ! I just live in hope !

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By *un and Frolics 1Woman 2 weeks ago

Lincoln

I was just going to say something about myself I'm 71 do you think I it's too old for fab.

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By *allipygousMan 2 weeks ago

Leicester


"I was just going to say something about myself I'm 71 do you think I it's too old for fab. "

For a site like this no age is too old for someone who has breasts and a vagina.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple 2 weeks ago

Coventry

You've not missed the party although it maybe a bit more difficult to find. I think your best focus would be the club scene. Its far more about people just connecting with people without the gate keeper of a maximum age setting. Ideally clubs/parties which have a more mature age group and vibe. Which is not a bad thing because it the more mature swingers that tend to be carefree and have best fun.

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By *eavenscentitCouple 2 weeks ago

barnstaple

I met my gorgeous at Naked Occasions - a club that does a Wednesday afternoon spa session. He was a regular going as a single guy and, I went along as a single woman. We are both in our early sixties.

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By *umalotagainMan 2 weeks ago

a town called malice

Hang in there fella, age is a number ( unfortunately a number that people use as a barrier)

It seams when you pass 50 we are all put on the scrap heap by many

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By *icecouple561Couple 2 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Age is a number but it's a number that signifies your likely experience, cultural references, what you'll look like and to a small extent your fitness.

People are less likely to want to meet us when we get to 65 and over. It is as an old colleague of mine used to say 'perils of the game'.

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By *usie pTV/TS 2 weeks ago

taunton

I would say never stop trying but the reality is that opportunities are going to be very limited, but being single and available maybe you can find a partner closer to home. It never fails to surprise me how many folks who have been in long term relationships where one partner passes away they very soon have meet someone else. Casual meetings are OK but they are not going to give the compaionship most of us desire.

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By *r shyguy.Man 2 weeks ago

Down by the river.

Hi all, i surpose i am in my late 60s and sunce the mrs illnesses its been over 16 years since we have had any form of sex, so now i am coming to terms that i probably never will any more. Such is the order of things as they say.

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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago

Never hang up your holster my man, keep on posting and fabbing and generally being involved and good luck to you

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By *un guy300Man 2 weeks ago

Swansea


"Oh, and there are parties advertised on here with older groups, so that's another option!"
where not seen them

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By *avid 50Man 2 weeks ago

kendal

no if you have an interest you're not too old, and if you can still get an erection you can still be involved, there are plenty of meets on here where couples want people to come and watch and they prefer the more mature guys because they behave themselves

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By *allipygousMan 2 weeks ago

Leicester


"Hi all, i surpose i am in my late 60s and sunce the mrs illnesses its been over 16 years since we have had any form of sex, so now i am coming to terms that i probably never will any more. Such is the order of things as they say. "

Late 60s, eh? Must have hit the wrong button with your trembling fingers because your profile says you're 49 🤔

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By *izandpaulCouple 2 weeks ago

merseyside


"Well, yes 70+ I was lucky enough to have met a fantastic lady, 25 years younger than I, yes, she had terminal cancer, but she was very sexually active, and we enjoyed a further 10 years of intense sex, before sadly Cancer won the day. We had just sampled the club scene, as we were so happy with our 1.1 sex, 3somes ffm,etc etc So after a difficult 2 years am back on Fab, have enjoyed 4 meets, 2 were recommended by my first on here as I quote, yes he is 70 but like a 50 , not my words. But am finding it difficult now as most females, and couples put 70 as age limit, thus unable to message. Also going to a club as mature single not top of list by some clubs, would love to meet a fwb female mature willing to enjoy fun and clubbing...So seriously, do I keep trying or hang up my underwear, I am mobile willing to travel"

If you think you have missed the party then maybe the answer is to start your own.

How about a social meet for the more mature singles and couples in your area, a pub meet.

One great thing about FAB is the ability to easily contact and put the feelers out for a social meet, give it a whirl, what have you got to loose.

Good luck.

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By *arleycplWoman 2 weeks ago

Leyburn

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By *arleycplWoman 2 weeks ago

Leyburn


"[Removed by poster at 05/07/25 14:33:59]"

Your definitely not too old, you look fabulous

Marie

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By *allipygousMan 2 weeks ago

Leicester


"Hi all, i surpose i am in my late 60s and sunce the mrs illnesses its been over 16 years since we have had any form of sex, so now i am coming to terms that i probably never will any more. Such is the order of things as they say.

Late 60s, eh? Must have hit the wrong button with your trembling fingers because your profile says you're 49 🤔"

You needn't have changed it to 66 just for me 😉

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By *odmin53 OP   Man 1 week ago

Bristol

Thank you, , kind words,

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By *odmin53 OP   Man 1 week ago

Bristol

Thanks, very nice words,

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