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By (user no longer on site) OP    45 weeks ago

Unexpectedly and very welcome I’ve got a meet later today . What’s the etiquette on protection ? Sort it prior to meeting ?

Wouldn’t want to get caught short

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By *alkingbobMan 45 weeks ago

Hamilton

For me it is sort it before meet

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

Always and we repeat ALWAYS take your own protection.

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By *all me FlikWoman 45 weeks ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"Always and we repeat ALWAYS take your own protection."

I'm surprised this is even a question on a swingers site let alone just being a responsible adult.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    45 weeks ago


"Always and we repeat ALWAYS take your own protection.

I'm surprised this is even a question on a swingers site let alone just being a responsible adult."

Ok ok I’m new , I have however just seen an advert for a bareback gangbang so it clearly takes place

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago


"Always and we repeat ALWAYS take your own protection.

I'm surprised this is even a question on a swingers site let alone just being a responsible adult.

Ok ok I’m new , I have however just seen an advert for a bareback gangbang so it clearly takes place "

Yes they do indeed take place, but as I doubt the last minute meet you are going on was listed as a bareback meet, take some rubbers.

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By *icecouple561Couple 45 weeks ago
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East Sussex


"Unexpectedly and very welcome I’ve got a meet later today . What’s the etiquette on protection ? Sort it prior to meeting ?

Wouldn’t want to get caught short "

Take your own, especially if you have a particular brand you like but be prepared for the person to have their preference too. You could ask if there's a type they like, some people are allergic to latex for instance.

Kudos to you for asking you'd be surprised at the number of men who don't and assume that we'll bring our own (we do) or more commonly that we will bareback.

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By *issmorganWoman 45 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Always turn up prepared, ie with condoms, don't expect her to have them or to go bare, unless agreed before hand. I'd usually discuss it before a meet.

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By *eekySweetheartWoman 45 weeks ago

Hampshire

Agreed- bring your own but if there is an allergy she may have her own.

You'd be surprised the amount of men that turn up to meets / clubs without condoms 😬😬

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

Try asking the person who you are meeting if they want bareback

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By *xploring 2000Man 45 weeks ago

Mayo

Amazing how a 47 year old on a swinger site has to ask a question like this

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By *icecouple561Couple 45 weeks ago
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East Sussex


"Amazing how a 47 year old on a swinger site has to ask a question like this "

Really?

We met a man some time back of a similar age. When I asked Mr N for a condom for him he was genuinely shocked. It hadn't occurred to him that we would use them.

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By *eekySweetheartWoman 45 weeks ago

Hampshire


"Amazing how a 47 year old on a swinger site has to ask a question like this "

You'd be surprised! I appreciate people asking the questions as it means they aren't just assuming bareback (like so many do!)

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By *ilverfox for youMan 45 weeks ago

Hull

Sort prior to meeting .just ask her

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By *unover40Couple 45 weeks ago

yeovil

Always have them with you, we prefer to.play without but not everyone is the same

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By *otpants79Man 45 weeks ago

Wokingham

Always be prepared

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By *ll 4 HerCouple 45 weeks ago

Bolton

Always take your own as has been said.

It's better to have and not need them, than need them and not have them.

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By *ucka39Man 45 weeks ago

Newcastle

Normally in my case everything has been discussed prior so already know what is going to happen so I Go equipped 😝

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By *e and him 2021Couple 45 weeks ago

stoke on trent


"Always take your own as has been said.

It's better to have and not need them, than need them and not have them. "

This, if we meet a guy and he doesn’t come prepared than it would go no more than a social xx

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By *lley-CatMan 45 weeks ago

Folkestone

How did it work out, OP?

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By *ink vixenCouple 45 weeks ago

Medway

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By *ink vixenCouple 45 weeks ago

Medway


"How did it work out, OP?"

Yeah spill the beans (discretely)

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By *ichaelsmyMan 44 weeks ago

douglas

I always am the question as a way to find out preferences and there’s a latex allergy.

Although I’ve had every kind of reaction to the question

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By *estinysswingersCouple 44 weeks ago

Worsley

Take it with you?

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By *un couple 2Couple 44 weeks ago

Tynemouth.

common sense to always have some just incase, id of thought.

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By *HE ONLY PLAN IS NO PLANMan 44 weeks ago

Westmidlands

Oh my oh my FFS

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 44 weeks ago
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Central

Take what you like to use, including lube

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple 44 weeks ago

Coventry

Yes always take a taser and pepper spray just incase.

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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago


"Unexpectedly and very welcome I’ve got a meet later today . What’s the etiquette on protection ? Sort it prior to meeting ?

Wouldn’t want to get caught short "

Really?

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