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What do women look for?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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Ok so as a male, we’re usually very shallow creatures. Sign of some bare skin and we’re ready! But Iv been wondering what do women look for on here?
Clean shaved, hygienic seems to be a prerequisite and I’d say the latter more so!
But for males who take the time to read profiles, see some connection and respond accordingly, it’s still very difficult for males to be successful on. I’m not talking endless scores of female conquests, think majority would be overwhelmingly satisfied with a connection with a female or couple, to have fun with. Yet it seems to still be mammoth task to engage a conversation. Some read and don’t reply, so no feedback as to why or what we’re doing wrong. Perhaps there’s another platform of which others have found more beneficial than Fabswingers?
I used to have another profile, and had a few varies - however these also seemed to be a red card by some! I’d have thought a comment from others suggesting one’s character would be a good thing?
Be interested in others thoughts. Both male, female and |
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"So are women largely looking to form a relationship on here, rather than a mutual exchange of sexual fun? "
Some are looking for a relationship. Some are just looking for fun. Both require compatible people to be successful 💜 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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Totally accept we’re all different and indeed have variable expectations from the web site. My curiosity was to explore what women fundamentally look for, in males on Fab.
It’s subjective I know, and as I previously said, is males are by and large shallow creatures.
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You'll get a range of answers from bare back gang bangs to long term exclusive relationships.
The only thing *you* can do is try to appeal to the kind of woman you want to meet while being your authentic self.
There is no magic combination of photos and profile text which will make women fall at your feet. |
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There’s got to be the attraction first. I’m not bothered about body type but I have to find someone’s face attractive.
After that I look for someone who can hold a conversation, be humorous and have shared interests.
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"Totally accept we’re all different and indeed have variable expectations from the web site. My curiosity was to explore what women fundamentally look for, in males on Fab.
It’s subjective I know, and as I previously said, is males are by and large shallow creatures.
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Fundamentally, compatible people.
Whether that's whatever is nearby with a penis and a willingness to shove it in or someone to build a long term relationship with will vary.
As a general rule, women are less likely to take the any pole's a goal approach. But some do.
There's only any point in trying to attract the people who are compatible with you. Trying to appeal to the broadest or easiest demographic in the hope of more unfulfilling encounters is unlikely to yield much fruit 💜 |
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"Ok so as a male, we’re usually very shallow creatures. Sign of some bare skin and we’re ready! But Iv been wondering what do women look for on here?
Clean shaved, hygienic seems to be a prerequisite and I’d say the latter more so!
But for males who take the time to read profiles, see some connection and respond accordingly, it’s still very difficult for males to be successful on. I’m not talking endless scores of female conquests, think majority would be overwhelmingly satisfied with a connection with a female or couple, to have fun with. Yet it seems to still be mammoth task to engage a conversation. Some read and don’t reply, so no feedback as to why or what we’re doing wrong. Perhaps there’s another platform of which others have found more beneficial than Fabswingers?
I used to have another profile, and had a few varies - however these also seemed to be a red card by some! I’d have thought a comment from others suggesting one’s character would be a good thing?
Be interested in others thoughts. Both male, female and "
What people aze looking for on here will vary from person to person and couple to couple. We are all unique individuals. |
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Majority of people on fab Are Not Looking For Single Guys ,sadly Men are out of Fashion on fab ,it's mainly couples looking for bi experience and same with majority of single ladies looking for a munch .
Fire away I'm ready but it's True |
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For us, it’s about connection and respect, then looks
It’s a big no if a guy doesn’t make conversation with my partner, if you make the effort with him then he’s gonna feel a lot more comfortable to share me with someone else
If my partner isn’t comfortable then it won’t happen
A lot of men even when they don’t realise it, can make one slight comment that makes it sound like they are just in it for the sex which makes me feel like an object, if a guy is seen chatting to many women and couples at a club getting no where then come to us it’s a instant no because it just shows you don’t care who you fuck really
Online it’s difficult because it’s difficult to hold a conversation that’s interesting and it’s just easier to get the vibe in person, that’s why we only go to club if it’s to play with single males
But all in all, it’s just difficult for single men in general, couples tend to be looking for other couples, single females or bi experiences, single females have the choice of anything they are being offered
It’s just impossible really, you’re best off getting a fuck buddy that you play with regularly and going and playing as a couple with other couples that partner swap
But don’t be that guy that brings a woman then they don’t play together because then you are just a single guy |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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First and foremost, there has to be an attraction. I think I speak for most women, that we are not bothered about dick pics! 🤷🏻♀️ We like to feel a connection and not just be treated like a piece of meat (although yes, some may like that). Oh and humour! Humour always helps! ☺️ |
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I only really respond to single guys and single
Females generally, I would love a relationship with someone who enjoys the lifestyle but finding it difficult to find guys or girls who want anything more |
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im looking for sex and fun but im very picky sexual and psysical attraction is a must and being on the same page sexually minded too
common mistake alot of men who enter this scene make is its a free for all and thats not true at all |
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By *riel13Woman 43 weeks ago
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"My issue with being a match with a woman is im too honest and let the dumbass speak before thinking "
There's no such thing as too honest... If someone doesn't like what you have to say, they aren't your people. It's not a big deal |
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By *b03Man 43 weeks ago
Exeter |
I don't want people to think that I speak for all women or I'm an expert in any way
But yes for them there needs to be a definite attraction or something that stands out for them especially if talking over fab. This doesn't mean you have to look.like Brad Pitt or have the body of the rock (that helps) but it's not the be all and end all.
Its alot harder for this reason on fab as women can be attracted by quite a few things, that don't come through in a messages such as smell, accent etc. men are alot more visual
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