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Male advice for MFM , OR MMF
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So after experiencing our fair few of these I thought I'd share a few bits of advice and invite others to add
My main frustration and piece advice is distance, put your self in the right place, if I'm being spit roasted don't expect me to be able to bring myself forward , nothing worse then having stretch my neck , or just being able to get the tip in either way because the guys just dont move forward enough, 90% of the time the guys just aren't close enough to me
Similar with positions if a lady is on her back don't come to her head at an awkward angle that means she has to do gymnastics with her head to suck you off, if my neck starts to hurt ill give up
So basically get close and make it as easy as possible for the lady, we are stuck in place you guys need to position yourself for our ease
If you do it right , we'll come back for more, if I end up frustrated with neck ache you won't be getting many repeat invitations
Anyone else got any pointers , so we can all get the best out of it
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It is the best kind of sex I'd say, from my experience, agree your red lines right at the beginning also what you all want to try, prepare the environment first...don't wack the heating up to 30 degrees! Also take your time don't rush and get frustrated, communicate with each other  |
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On the first point OP, the firmer the bed is the easier to get a comfortable distance but remember if the third guy is new he may not want to appear to be forcing it too far in. Debs enjoys a good face fuck but it sometimes takes them a while to realise. |
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This is also where the woman needs to assertive and good with her communication. Don't just expect guys to know, we're not the ones experiencing this from your angle. Guy on the whole prefer if women communicate what works better for them (I think everone does to be fair). No one is a mind reader and some times it's hard to understand from angle we've never been in.
Also it helps if everyone is really comfortable around each other. This can be particularly difficult for a guy with a couple. And that's partly on the couple picking the right guy in the first place and helping the guy feel completely at ease with you both. Sometimes as single third you can be made to feel a bit like a human sex toy or not having freedom to just do as you would naturally.
Things flow so much better when there is chemistry and good communication.
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"Once again, porn has a lot to answer for - fantasy scenarios where everyone knows exactly where to be and nobody communicates anything is NOT how it happens IRL"
Someone part of the fun is just having a laugh as you figure stuff out. Not taking things too seriously and messing about till you find what works. Often what makes a great 3some isn't perfect execution on a technical level it the human factor and how at ease you all our with eachother. |
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"Once again, porn has a lot to answer for - fantasy scenarios where everyone knows exactly where to be and nobody communicates anything is NOT how it happens IRL
Someone part of the fun is just having a laugh as you figure stuff out. Not taking things too seriously and messing about till you find what works. Often what makes a great 3some isn't perfect execution on a technical level it the human factor and how at ease you all our with eachother."
*sometimes, not someone. Stupid auto text. |
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