Man it's not the best feeling! This man was super eager in chat, pushed for a time he could come over and after arranging time and place, I just got ghosted. It was planned to his schedule, we've got a whole flat to ourselves and he had both pussy and mouth waiting for him. Idk just confused and lonely now. How do you guys deal with getting stood up? |
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Sadly, guys are just one wank away from cancelling. Often the fantasy is enough. Add nerves, fakes and general malaise it’s tough out there.
I would always make sure there’s a video call so that they know you’re real (and they are), give a message one hour before to make sure they’re coming and get them to call you when they park up. None of this guarantees they’ll knock the door but it certainly improves the chances that they do.
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"Sadly, guys are just one wank away from cancelling. Often the fantasy is enough. Add nerves, fakes and general malaise it’s tough out there.
I would always make sure there’s a video call so that they know you’re real (and they are), give a message one hour before to make sure they’re coming and get them to call you when they park up. None of this guarantees they’ll knock the door but it certainly improves the chances that they do.
Good advice here I had arranged to meet a couple and messaged on the day to check it was still on but no reply very frustrating
It’s 100% not you. It’s them."
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By *rsPricklePantsWoman 43 weeks ago
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I've had it happen more and more to the point where I'm more surprised if someone actually turns up than if they don't, not that I'm really trying to meet anyone much now either, think of it as a lucky escape block them and move on don't let it get to you or that's when they win |
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Yup happened to me the other day. Was chatting with a couple for a good 2 weeks organised a meet at the local premier Inn I got there messaged the couple waited no reply so I went to message again only to be blocked really does hit hard when ya standing there waiting and you get blocked |
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"I reported a no show. She failed to show up twice. Nothing done about it after I reported it "
I think the site will only act if they recurrent reports of no shows for the same person. Only one report is not really enough to sanction someone but if its happening repeatedly they may do something about it. |
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