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Is my profile really bad ? Not getting any interest
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You don't have a profile.
There's nothing in your bio, so how will people know anything about you?
You do have a profile pic that's not of your penis which is a bonus.
Look at all the advice threads there are 100s that all say the same thing |
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . "
Apart from where your from and if you found a lady you would meet couples, it says nothing, but top marks for no cock pic 😉 |
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"Any advice on mine?"
Agree with other comments. Gratuitous pictures of someone not associated with your profile; as a single male.
Maybe that should be added to the criteria for accepting pictures. They should err on the side of caution and assume you don't have permission. |
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OP, take on board the advice given above. Your profile is generic and virtually non-existent.
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As for the other men on this thread asking for advice: there's nothing wrong with asking for profile advice but the correct protocol is to create your own thread, otherwise the thread becomes convoluted and difficult to determine who is giving feedback to whom. |
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . "
Positives = Face Photo
Negatives =
face photo appears to be have taken in the bathroom?
No description in the info section, nothing that may give a clue that someone has something in common with you?
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It is a numbers game.
I've had 28 messages today, I'll probably reply to 3. If there is no profile description, I'm not going to waste time replying.
Seems heartless, but sadly most women on fab could never answer every message. |
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By *DCQMan 6 days ago
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . "
There isn’t much to your bio, other than you say that you can play as a single guy or as a couple, personally I’d lose that as it sounds a little bit off... If it’s true, you should consider getting a couples profile 🤷🏻♂️
Side note, having a profile on here does not mean you’re necessarily getting laid! |
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . "
Not really sure what to say to this - there's not much to work with. We don't understand what 'I have text nice and polite and sexy' means in this context. |
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"OP, take on board the advice given above. Your profile is generic and virtually non-existent.
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As for the other men on this thread asking for advice: there's nothing wrong with asking for profile advice but the correct protocol is to create your own thread, otherwise the thread becomes convoluted and difficult to determine who is giving feedback to whom."
As above, start your own thread asking as it can get confusing when others jump in asking |
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . "
Mrs here. I see you say “text, nice, polite and sexy”?
You have text and nice and polite but sexy is an opinion. This is not always going to be shared by most. If I was you I’d get better public photos. |
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . "
Take a look at the more successful guys, look at how they structure their profile and compose their photos. Take tips from them. |
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You need a public profile pic at the very least, VERY few ladies/couples respond to silhouette profiles.
Drop the “don’t be shy, come say hi” line; it really is a waste of text, as it is uncommonly rare for a woman to message a guy first 😂
The best advice I can give you is; find some way for your profile to stand out beyond the hundreds of other single guys in here. I’ve been using Fab for over 13 years, and even though I have had much success through here over those years, I still don’t have ‘The Secret’  |
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Im a Hostess and barmaid in a swingers club It is so hard for a single male to get on in here, i know that it does come down to a nice Picture on your profile picture not a cock pic i do understand that some have to be discreet as there job etc but it does work better, also verifications, i will do that for people if i have met them, Tag line make it funny, interesting, when you message someone add a nice CLOTHED picture For me if someone sends me a cock pic, wink, Hi, can i fuck you? Hey, all get deleted wont even read them, make it interesting and make me want to message you back, put some effort in it. Getting a message from a single female or a couple, very hard, they have hundreds of messages from people and i cant always keep up with my messages. dont loose faith, stay in there, your profile is getting there but friends only pics? you need a pic for everyone to see, we all take more notice of thumbnail pics that reading. see you tube its the same you browse though looking at the thumbnails 1st you dont read every word, the pic is what people notice but thats my thoughts not gospel xx  |
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"Any feedback for my profile please? I know i only have 1 public pic but I do explain why on my bio, I do have others to send if someone interests me..."
You'd be better off starting your own thread rather than jumping on someone else's |
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . "
You're invisible
I don't understand how anyone can't understand that a picture goes such a long way.
Your profile is your shop window be honest with yourself would you bother stopping or would you carry on walking past yours |
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"Hi everyone, been on here a while. Just don’t seem to get any interest at all , I have text nice and polite and sexy . "
3mths without a bite is nothing for Fab. Blokes have a hard time (they wish) as it appears the neanderthal man is ruining it for the good guys.
It's no different to being 18 in a poorly lit nightclub and a bottle of Hooch in your hand. You've got to put some effort in or it's cab time when the lights come on. |
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It really isn't rocket science.
Single guys are outnumbered
Your profile is your shop window
Why would people want to engage with an invisible person - have good clear interesting photos and not just your cock and definitely don't have that as your profile picture
Send sentences, proper messages that actually show you have bothered to read the persons profile
Don't have your info set to the default it makes you look like you can't be bothered
Stop repeating information in the free text that's already in the sections above - when it gets out of date again you can't be arsed
When the repeat is all you have then it tells people nothing about what you offer or seek
Effect in guys please
Learn patience and while you are doing that get involved in local organised social events/chat rooms or look for newbie club nights |
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Almost nobody is mutually compatible with another, only a tiny minority are.
Your profile needs to give others what they'd need to know, in order to assess if you are with them.
One major aspect is physical attraction. If they can't see if you are physically attractive to them, you have zero chance. |
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"Wondering what peeps make of my profile?
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Here's your answer:
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1719409. Ok was just asking everyone else asked not sure why I got singled out "
You did a thread, you got replies, advice.
You've wrote on this thread to ask but the forum etiquette is to start your own thread......which you did
If you didn't know that, it's been posted on the thread which you would have seen if you'd read the thread.
Can you see why they reminded you of your own thread |
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"Wondering what peeps make of my profile?
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Here's your answer:
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1719409.
Ok was just asking everyone else asked not sure why I got singled out
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You did a thread, you got replies, advice.
You've wrote on this thread to ask but the forum etiquette is to start your own thread......which you did
If you didn't know that, it's been posted on the thread which you would have seen if you'd read the thread.
Can you see why they reminded you of your own thread "
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Perfectly put. ✔️
You did the right thing 'once upon a time' by creating your own thread but somehow, with temerity, you decided to regress whatever you had learnt and hijack the thread, amongst all the other men on here.
There are reasons why that approach is impractical: it's difficult for people to keep up and discern to whom they are replying and giving advice to. The thread becomes messy and convoluted because there's so much conflicting advice for every Tom, Dick and Harriet. |
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"Wondering what peeps make of my profile?
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Here's your answer:
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1719409. Ok was just asking everyone else asked not sure why I got singled out "
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You were single out because I managed to find your pre-existing thread - to •help• you 'bump' it. Give me a few days, when I've got nothing better to do, and I'll find all the others who have created their own unique threads....and single them out. 🙄 |
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"Wondering what peeps make of my profile?
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Here's your answer:
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1719409. Ok was just asking everyone else asked not sure why I got singled out
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You were single out because I managed to find your pre-existing thread - to •help• you 'bump' it. Give me a few days, when I've got nothing better to do, and I'll find all the others who have created their own unique threads....and single them out. 🙄"
ok yup I fully admit my guilt here and genuinely and wholeheartedly apologise for My actions. I honestly never ment to hijack, I saw others and jumped in without thinking again to everyone here I do genuinely apologise |
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"Any tips for mine"
Ask yourself why anyone would want to engage with you based on that profile.
[Hint - they wouldn't]
It says absolutely nothing about you other than that you have a flat tummy.
The single guys who succeed on FAB are generally the ones who spend more than 10 minutes building their profile |
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If the single guys here are smarting about how harshly they are being judged, it's only because the same questions get asked again and again, the answers are always the same and more often than not the OPs ignore any advice that requires them to put in more than 10 minutes of effort. |
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By *DCQMan 1 day ago
South East |
"My profile?Any advice? "
Please read my profile thoroughly! I want to connect with people who take the time to understand my expectations. Generic "Hi" messages or messages with just a dick pic will be ignored.
I'm open to meeting smokers.
females or couples, – please include a face photo with your first message if you don't have one on your profile. It helps me know who I'm chatting with.
Do you really need any advice? Judging by these requirements from your profile, sounds like you must be inundated with nuisance messages from pesky women (sorry females) and couples that just don’t know how to introduce themselves! |
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"females or couples, – please include a face photo with your first message if you don't have one on your profile. It helps me know who I'm chatting with."
Makes you sound like a picture collector. Why would any couple send a face picture to someone they don't know at all? |
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