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Convincing you wife for a threesome
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By *angdanCouple 41 weeks ago
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Convincing isn’t that right language to use. She will want to or not and you need to respect that.
Raise the subject with her, discuss it openly, if you’re both not 100% wanting to go ahead then don’t, it will end in tears x |
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"Wondering how you convinced you wifes/girlfriends for a three some? MFF. "
Perhaps this is more your fantasy and maybe you should suggest a MMF threesome as then she will be the centre of attention x |
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"There’s always one person crying after a threesome "
There is if one of them isn't 100% in. Which is why "convincing" someone to do it who doesn't really want to is a terrible idea.
Swinging as a couple only works if both of you are fully invested in it and actually want to do it. If you're not both all-in, someone is inevitably going to get hurt at some point |
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"There’s always one person crying after a threesome "
Really??
If they weren't tears of joy, then it sounds like either not enough discussion was had about expectations and boundaries prior to the threesome taking place  |
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"Wondering how you convinced you wifes/girlfriends for a three some? MFF. "
Do you have a wife or a girlfriend? Your profile doesn't refer to either.
This OP is like three different levels of red flag. |
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"There’s always one person crying after a threesome "
There are two types of people who would say this:
1. Someone who has never had a threesome
2. Not gonna say what the other type is because it's too bleak. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Wondering how you convinced you wifes/girlfriends for a three some? MFF.
Do you have a wife or a girlfriend? Your profile doesn't refer to either.
This OP is like three different levels of red flag."
It's juts the language he uses....Green arrow  |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Wondering how you convinced you wifes/girlfriends for a three some? MFF.
Do you have a wife or a girlfriend? Your profile doesn't refer to either.
This OP is like three different levels of red flag.
It's juts the language he uses....Green arrow "
OMG just looked  |
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You don't try to convince someone into that you talk openly about the possibility and if they have no interest in it then you leave it and not try and force them into it trying to convince another into something they don't want to do is a horrible thing to do and only alerts me to stay away from such a person |
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"Wondering how you convinced you wifes/girlfriends for a three some? MFF.
Do you have a wife or a girlfriend? Your profile doesn't refer to either.
This OP is like three different levels of red flag."
This! |
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Some must do, since you get many women who aren't bi, but will just put on a show for the man.
I've seen ladies admit this on threads.
I don't know how they do it, but they shouldn't try to convince anyone to do something they don't actually want to do.
Maybe ask if she'd be interested in it op? Not all women are bi or looking for ffm, has she given any indication that she's into this in the past?.
If she says no, leave it, it won't be for everyone. |
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Do you have a wife or a girlfriend? Your profile doesn't refer to either
I don’t think he has a partner, not judging by the multiple threads he has started up asking all kinds of different questions.
The green arrow is a godsend at times like this. |
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By *igad999Man 41 weeks ago
wolverhampton |
It’s something really you both need to find a way to discuss and see if she’s comfortable with it.
If she is move at a pace she’s ok with don’t force or push anything and let her go as far as she wants
Me and wife got into it years ago just by d*unken night with mate and his gf. She’s not wanted to fully play since and I’m fine with that would never force her to
She knows if she wanted to I’m 💯 up for it but maybe one day
But it will be when she wants to |
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By *ornyOAPMan 41 weeks ago
Fethiye / birchington |
Unusually there is some very good advice here. It is not worth wrecking your relationship over this if both parties aren't in agreement.
By all means keep it low key in the bedroom. Tell your wife how the thought of it excites you, and who knows your wife may get excited over the thought of having another man. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"It was the other way round with me"
When we started out over 40 yrs ago in our mid late 20's - I, the male did the convicing as Mrs was and is still shy, more shy now as older.
We started off by looking a porn mags and her reading stories, invited a men over for a massage of the mrs with knickers on, left her alone with him and to my pelasant surprise she went all the way - we then did natuirst beaches as no internet mobiles those days and got blokes addresses
Then it was mrs wanting to meet two guys alone i was saying no becuse of safety and thinking what if she gets used to it. We agreed she met two guys I'd visited to check out and we met at their place, one of their homes and i left - it was great
so, in my wifes experience and in mine, we have said "no" but did change our minds as the other contured to ask at certain times
I then asked my wife is she wanted to meet BBC - she said no and explained why and nor did she want to meet a man from our own background |
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"Ask yourself, as a straight guy, how your wife would convince you to have sex with a man!"
That’s true. But now always a general rule. She already had kisses and touches with a woman. I won’t be able to do the same with a man. )
So there is a starting point.
Now we have to sort out a threesome MFF.
Thank you all for replaying!! |
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"Ask yourself, as a straight guy, how your wife would convince you to have sex with a man!
That’s true. But now always a general rule. She already had kisses and touches with a woman. I won’t be able to do the same with a man. )
So there is a starting point.
Now we have to sort out a threesome MFF.
Thank you all for replaying!! "
I already ate turnips. I won't be convinced to do that again |
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I already ate turnips. I won't be convinced to do that again "
It's often said in the forum that when organising a gang bang you should always invite more guys than you need, because most of them won't turnip. |
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I already ate turnips. I won't be convinced to do that again
It's often said in the forum that when organising a gang bang you should always invite more guys than you need, because most of them won't turnip."
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