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By (user no longer on site) OP 41 weeks ago
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Hi 41 year old single and been here before many a time, problem is I seem to be really struggling this time around
Can’t be my age because most people are around this age on here….feel free to tear apart my profile, honest advice appreciated x |
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"Hi 41 year old single and been here before many a time, problem is I seem to be really struggling this time around
Can’t be my age because most people are around this age on here….feel free to tear apart my profile, honest advice appreciated x "
Hi OP I just had a look at your profile and my advice would be to change your pics as they are basically all the same and your bio doesn’t say much about you, what you like, what you can offer etc just remember your profile is your shop window 😊
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"Hi 41 year old single and been here before many a time, problem is I seem to be really struggling this time around
Can’t be my age because most people are around this age on here….feel free to tear apart my profile, honest advice appreciated x "
The only thing I get from your profile is you do a lot of sit-ups.
You say you're the ideal FWB but you don't say why. Then you complain about men hassling you on here which - sorry - nobody cares about.
There are a gazillion men on here. You're gonna have to do better than "defined abs" to stand out from the crowd. |
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Your profile is perhaps 50% emphasizing that you will not have sex with men. Is that truly the best use of your description of what you offer and want?
Search and read some of the many posts from men who are struggling and note the advice given to them. Implement what's relevant and experiment to assess results.
Get to socials and clubs to get to know more people  |
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Also, after being here many times, consider not coming and going, as you need to fight to establish yourself each time and people will not have the trust in your reliability that they maybe could have. You can hide your profile, if you need a break.
Reliability and trustworthiness are essential qualities to have here |
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"Hi 41 year old single and been here before many a time, problem is I seem to be really struggling this time around
Can’t be my age because most people are around this age on here….feel free to tear apart my profile, honest advice appreciated x "
Probably struggling due to a profile that says nothing about you other than your entire personality is based on having abs… And…? |
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"Hi 41 year old single and been here before many a time, problem is I seem to be really struggling this time around
Can’t be my age because most people are around this age on here….feel free to tear apart my profile, honest advice appreciated x
Probably struggling due to a profile that says nothing about you other than your entire personality is based on having abs… And…? "
Howlinnnn  Thank you for taking one for the team with this response because you said it more diplomatically than I could |
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To add what others have said; a screenshot with a kid… yikes! Says no men but the photos are very oriented to what men want, like and admire (ie. Gym fit, 6-pack, abs, abs abs, dick pick).
There are a lot of posts on this, so it might be worth looking at them, but also women’s/couples profiles text to see what we look for.
We only reply to messages when we are actively looking to meet and it’s a very quick turnaround. Others want to build a connection. Pick profiles that work for your style and write messages that reflect you have read the profile. That said, responding to meet requests and clubs/socials are probably the easiest way forward as those are people actively looking. |
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The fact you thought it was ok to post a photo with a child in it (regardless of the face being blanked out) speaks volumes about you......This is a swinging/sex site just in case you were't sure what you signed up for. |
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For someone who’s “been here before” you seem wholly inexperienced and uneducated.
The disappointing reality is this isn’t the first profile I’ve encountered with images relating to children. Only a few weeks ago I messaged an account here to ask if he thought taking photos of himself and uploading them online; that were of a sexual nature, led on a child’s cartoon character duvet, with his child’s toys on the floor, was appropriate? |
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A photo with your child in it is seriously not cool, you've posted nearly every photo of your ABS , yes we get it you've got a 6 pack.. I'm a straight male but its clear you seem more interested in the way you look and how women see you , than simply just being yourself..
I have zero problems with getting meets, have no issues with how my body looks even though I could lose a few LBS if I wanted to. But im always myself..
I currently have 2 FWB , and possibly a new one tomorrow after our meet , so really my time on FAB will be a lot less from now on..
Take a look at my profile, like I said im never short for meets.. |
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"A photo with your child in it is seriously not cool, you've posted nearly every photo of your ABS , yes we get it you've got a 6 pack.. I'm a straight male but its clear you seem more interested in the way you look and how women see you , than simply just being yourself..
I have zero problems with getting meets, have no issues with how my body looks even though I could lose a few LBS if I wanted to. But im always myself..
I currently have 2 FWB , and possibly a new one tomorrow after our meet , so really my time on FAB will be a lot less from now on..
Take a look at my profile, like I said im never short for meets.. "
Hell yeah!  |
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will have a tweak and cross my fingers 🤞😁
